Sonke siyazi inkulumo ethi "izingane zingaba nonya." Nakuba lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso, futhi abanye bangase bathi bangengxenye yokukhula, kusenza sizibuze ukuthi ingane engagula ingakwazi kanjani ukubhekana nokuhlekisa okungenzeka ukuthi bayothola isipiliyoni. Ngeshwa, ukungayinaki ngeke kube njalo. Ukuhlukumezeka kuye kwaba yinkinga enkulu ezikoleni futhi, kubantwana abadala kanye nentsha, inthanethi. Yize kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ingabathukutheli abanye, abazali kumele basize izingane zabo ziphendule kubahlukumezi uma ziqondiswa ngokwabo noma ngisho nakwabanye.
Ukunikeza izingane amakhono okubhekana nokuyeka ukuhlekisa nokuhlukunyezwa nokungavumeli lezi zinkinga ukuzivimbela ekuthuthukiseni izinga eliphilile lokuzihlonipha kubalulekile. Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zezingane ezinesifo sofuba esisifo (IBD) ukuyeka ukuhleka okungenzeka esikoleni.
I-Role Play Teasing Ekhaya
Amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga angahlonishwa nabantu abadala nabathembekile ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni. Phenduka ngokuba "u-bully" kanye "nabakuhlukunyezwa." Siza ingane yakho ukuba ithole indlela engcono yokubhekana namazwi angenamusa. Uma ingane ikwazi ukubhekana nokwesaba kwakhe endaweni enhle futhi enothando, iyokwazi ukubhekana nabo ngokuqondile.
Sebenzisa Ukuzijabulisa Ukuze Uhlukumeze Ukuhlukunyezwa
Ukuzijabulisa kuyindlela yokuvimbela umsizi we-teaser. Siza ingane yakho ilungiselele amazwi athi "ukubuya". Umgomo awukona ukuhlehlisa u-bully emuva, kodwa ukuhlukumeza ukuhlekwa ngeso lengqondo.
Ungaphenduli Ngokufutheka Noma Ukwesaba
Ingane ehlekisayo iyokhuthazwa ukuphendula okungokomzwelo okuqinile, njengokuthukuthela noma ukwesaba. Impendulo ehlukile noma engalindelekile iyodidisa ingane eqhuba ukuhlekisa.
Sebenzisa ulimi oluqinile lwemizimba
Ulimi lomzimba lubalulekile futhi lungakhuthaza, noma ludikibala, umculi we-teaser. Zama ukushintsha ulimi lomzimba kusuka kokwesaba nokwesaba, njengokubuka phansi noma ukubalekela ekuzithembeni, njengekhanda eliphethwe phezulu. Kwezinye izimo, ukufundisa izingane ezinye ukuzivikela kungasiza. Izikole zobuciko zamarate zivame ukunikeza izifundo zokuqeqesha ezingaba yizinto ezivela esikhathini esifushane ukuzivikela ukuze zenze izinhlelo zokuzethemba zesikhathi eside. Isihluthulelo ukusiza nokunika abantwana amandla okuqonda nokusebenzisa ikhono labo lokumelana nokuxhaphaza nokuvimbela iziqephu ezizayo zokuziphatha kokuxhashazwa.
Yazi ukuthi i-Teaser ingaba nokuzidela okuphansi
Ingane ehlehliswayo kufanele iqonde ukuthi ezinye izingane zingase zihlekise njengendlela yokufihla ukungaqiniseki nokwesaba. Izingane ezixhaphazayo noma ezithungayo zingase zibe nesikhathi esinzima ekhaya noma esikoleni, futhi lokho kungabangela ukungavikeleki kwabo. Lona umqondo onzima izingane ukuba ziqonde, kodwa izingane ezindala nezintsha zingase zizwe ukuzwelana kwengane ehlukumezayo ngenxa yokuthi ayijabuli ngasese.
Khumbula ukuthi abanye abantwana bahlekisa wonke umuntu
Ezinye izingane zikhetha wonke umuntu, futhi ukuhleka akufanele kuthathwe inhliziyo. Ngesonto elilandelayo umculi angase aqhubekele komunye umuntu, futhi isiqephu sizobe sikhohlwe masinyane.