Ubulili, ukuguga, nobude obude
Ukuba nobulili obengeziwe kunganda ukhala isikhathi esingakanani. Ubulili buyakhipha ama-hormone amaningana emzimbeni, kwandisa ukusondelana nokubopha, futhi kusebenza ngokumelene nesizungu nokucindezeleka. Ukuhlala ocansini kunomzimba, ukucindezeleka ukukhululeka, izinzuzo zomphakathi nezengqondo. Ngokusho kwezincwadi ze- RealAge , ama- orgasm avamile-angaba ngu-100 ngonyaka- angakwandisa isikhathi sokuphila iminyaka engu-3 kuya kweyisishiyagalombili .
Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi isayensi kule ndawo ingacacile. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amadoda anesisindo esiphakeme sama-orgasms anciphisa amaphesenti angu-50 ekufeni kwabantu.
I Value of Touch
Ukuthinta kuyadingeka ukuze izilwane ezincelisayo zikhule. Izilwane kanye nezinsana ezinqunywe ukuthinta umzimba zigula futhi azihlali ngendlela evamile. Ukuthinta kanjani impilo imfihlakalo, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi isebenza emazingeni amaningana:
- Ubuhlobo be-Cements Ukuthinta kusiza ukudala izibopho. Lezi zibopho zinikeza ukusekelwa okubalulekile komphakathi kanye nezinye izinzuzo eziyaziwa ukuthi zihlobene nokuphila kwesikhathi .
- Ukwandisa ukuzethemba: Ukuzethemba ngokweqile kubonakala ukuthi kufanelekile. Ukuthintana njalo kuyindlela yokukhulumisana okufanelekile komunye nomunye.
- Inikeza ukuvuselelwa ngokomzimba: Kungenzeka ukuthi ukukhishwa kwe-hormone nezinye izinto kufana nokuphumula nokuzindla.
Ubulili, Ukuthinta, nabadala abadala
Kukhona idatha encane kakhulu mayelana nemikhuba yobulili yabantu abadala.
Ukudayiswa kwe-Viagra neminye imithi kubonisa ukuthi umsebenzi wobulili unesithakazelo kubantu abadala asebekhulile. Ukuze ugcine impilo esebenzayo yobulili njengoba ukhula, landela le seluleko elilandelayo:
- Vula futhi uthembeke nomlingani wakho mayelana nezidingo, izithakazelo nezifiso
- Funa usizo kunoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zivele
- Gcina ukuzivocavoca ukuze ulondoloze i-libido yakho
- Gcina isisindo esinempilo nengcindezi yegazi
Ukuzivocavoca kusiza ukuguga ngokobulili
Abaneminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha ubudala abasebenzisa njalo babika ukuthi banesisindo esifanayo socansi nokuthokozisa ngokobulili njengoba abantu beshumi eminyaka bebancane. Ucwaningo olulodwa luhlolisise ukuvama kocansi nokwaneliseka kwezigubhu zabashayeli abaneminyaka engama-60 ubudala futhi bathola ukuthi babalingana nalabo abasebancane eminyakeni engama-20. Uma usebenzise okuningi, "ubudala bakho bobulili" buzoba yiminyaka emincane kunesikhathi sakho sokulandelana kwesikhathi .
Olunye ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane ababesimeme ngokwenyama balinganise ukusebenza kwabo ngokocansi. Phakathi kwabantu abasebenzisa izinsuku ezine kuya kwezinhlanu ngesonto, abangu-88% wabesifazane nabangu-69% wamadoda babika ukusebenza kwabo ngokobulili njengenhla ephezulu noma ngaphezulu ngaphezu kwesilinganiso. Isizathu salokhu singamane senyuke ngokuzethemba ngenxa yesithombe somzimba esithuthukisiwe, noma isizathu sokuphila (njengokungcono ukujikeleza nokugeleza kwegazi).
Umthombo:
Ubulili nokufa: zihlobene ?; UDavey Smith G, uFrankel S, u-Yarnell J; BMJ. 1997 Dec 20-27; 315 (7123): 1641-4.