Umgomo wanoma yikuphi ubudlelwane besiguli-nodokotela kufanele kube yinye yokuhlonipha nokusebenzisana, ukusebenza ndawonye ukuze ufeze imiphumela yakho engcono kakhulu yezokwelapha. Iningi lesikhathi okuyilokho okwenzekayo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ubuhlobo buhamba kancane, futhi lokho kungadinga ukulungiswa kobudlelwane besiguli nodokotela.
Isizathu Sokudabuka Kobudlelwane Pati-Udokotela
Ngezinye izikhathi izinkinga ziyiphutha lodokotela.
Kusukela emhlanganweni wokuqala, kungenzeka ukuthi wayevele ekhukhumezekile noma ekhukhumezekile , noma nje enesimo sombhede. Uma kunjalo, akukho okumele kulungiswe. Kuyinto ubuntu bodokotela kuphela.
Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi inkinga ibangelwa isiguli ngokwayo . Kungenzeka ukuthi waba nobuhlobo obuhle nodokotela wakhe isikhathi esithile, kodwa kwenzeka okuthile okwenza udokotela wakhe abambelele ekuhlinzekeni ukunakekelwa okwengeziwe. Uma kunjalo, angase akhethe ukuzama ukulungisa ubuhlobo bakhe nodokotela wakhe.
Hlola isimo
Uma ngabe kunjalo, kuzodingeka uhlole ukuthi inkinga ibangelwa wena noma udokotela wakho. Uma ulibangele, izinyathelo ezingezansi zizokusiza ukuthi usebenze ukulungisa ubuhlobo. Uma kungenjalo, uma uzizwa ukuthi ubuhlobo obunjalo buyiphutha lodokotela wakho, kuzodingeka uthathe isinqumo sokuthi kufanelekile ukulungisa, noma ngaphezulu kuze kube iphuzu, kungenzeka ukulungiswa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungase kudingeke uzibuze ukuthi ufuna ukuqhubeka ubonwa futhi uphathwe udokotela ongakuphathisi ngenhlonipho.
Uma ubuhlobo bubuhlungu, ungase ungatholi ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu. I-Forbes ibike lokho
"odokotela abanombono ophezulu wokuhlangana okunzima baphinde babike imiphumela embi kakhulu, kanti esinye isifundo sibonise ukuthi iziguli ezinobungozi obuthakathaka kudokotela wazo oyinhloko bekungencane amathuba okuthola ukunakekelwa okuhambisana nemikhombandlela esungulwe."
Futhi akuzona izindaba ezinhle.
Izinyathelo Zokulungisa Isiguli Sakho-Udokotela Ubudlelwano
Uma unqume ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho nodokotela wakho buye buthathaka, futhi ungathanda ukuzama ukulungisa, cabanga ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo:
- Bonisa ukuthi yini eyabangela inkinga. Ungathola isizathu kulolu hlu lwezikhalazo ezinkulu zodokotela ngeziguli . Uma kukhona into engakwazi ukulungiswa, bese uqhubekela phambili. Wena nodokotela wakho ngeke neze ubone amehlo futhi ngeke uthole ukunakekelwa okudingayo futhi ufanelwe.
- Uma kungenzeka, lungisa inkinga. Uma ngabe kusekelwe emalini, kungase kudingeke ukhokhe imali yakho. Uma kunesimo sengqondo esisekelwe enhliziyweni, kungase kudingeke ulungise isimo sakho sengqondo. Uma unesiguli esinikezwe amandla, awunakho ukulungisa. Uma kungumlando wokuthi uhlanganyela kanjani okutholakele mayelana nesimo sakho noma amathuba okulashwa, ungase ufune ukuzama indlela ehlukile yokuhlanganyela ucwaningo lwakho nodokotela wakho. Uma udokotela wakho engathandi iqiniso lokuthi unakekelwa, kufanele udinga omunye udokotela .
- Ixolisa. Uma usukwazi ukulungisa inkinga, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza i-aphoyintimenti ukuxolisa. Chaza ukuthi kwenzekani, futhi kungani uzizwa udokotela wakho engumuntu ongcono kakhulu ukukusiza ngesimo sakho sezokwelapha. Mtshele ukuthi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubunzima abukho futhi. Lokhu kungenzeka noma kungakusibuyisela emuva emcimbini omuhle kadokotela wakho. Ukusabela kukadokotela wakho kuzokusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ubuhlobo buzophuthuma ngokwanele ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uzothola ukunakekelwa okudingayo.
- Nquma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukwazanga ukulungisa inkinga noma ukuhlehlisa ubuhlobo nodokotela wakho . Noma mhlawumbe inqubo yokulungisa ibonakala ikhiphe isevisi yelomo kuphela kudokotela futhi awunaso uphawu lokuthi ubuhlobo bakho buzophinde bube ngcono ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Kulezi zimo, yisikhathi sokuhambisa phambili. Imizamo yakho izobe isebenzise kangcono ukuthola omunye udokotela. Khumbula, odokotela kukhona ochwepheshe, yebo, kodwa nabo bangabantu. Nakuba iningi lizokwazi ukuqhubeka (lobu buhlobo obuhle, hhayi umshado), ngezinye izikhathi lokho akunakwenzeka. Beka amandla akho ekusunguleni ubudlelwano obusha, obuhle nomunye udokotela.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi uthole amakhophi amarekhodi akho ezokwelapha . Lokhu kusebenza kungakhathaliseki umphumela futhi kufaka noma yimaphi amarekhodi adalwe ngenkathi ngaphansi kwalokhu kudokotela, kanye nanoma yimuphi omunye odokotela akukhulume ngawo. Uzodinga ukuwahlanganisa ukuze uthole izincazelo ezingase zibe yingozi emisebenzini yakho yokunakekelwa kwezempilo esikhathini esizayo futhi ulungise amarekhodi akho ezokwelapha uma uthola ulwazi olungadingeki lube khona.
Hlala Usebenza
Sicela uqaphele ukuthi akukho ndawo kulolu hlu esikusikisela ukuthi ungahlali. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini eyenza ubuhlobo bakho bube buthakathaka ukuqala, ukunikezwa amandla kusho ukuthi unobumbano, kodwa ucacile futhi uqondile. Kufanele uqhubeke uhlanganyela ngokucophelela ekunakekeleni kwakho, kodwa kudingeka wenze kanjalo ngenhlonipho.
Ungase Udinge Ukuthola Omunye Udokotela
Ngokuyiqiniso, le ndlela ingase ingasebenzi. Uma ubuhlobo bungenakuqhathaniswa, kuzodingeka uthole omunye udokotela. Khumbula, kuyimakethe yomdayisi. Odokotela abatholakali futhi iziguli zifuna ngobuchwepheshe ochwepheshe abangabasiza.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela inkinga ebuhlotsheni ukuyivumela ukuba ithole isivuno ukuqala. Iziguli ezihlakaniphile zikhetha ukuxhumana ngokuhloniphayo ukuqala nokukhulumisana ngenhlonipho ngokubuyisa .
> Umthombo:
> Ruiz R. Okwenziwe Ngodokotela Wakho Ngempela. Forbes. Ishicilelwe ngo-Mashi 16, 2009.