I-ejaculation esandulele , ngezinye izikhathi eyaziwa ngokuthi i-ejaculation esheshayo, yinto eyenzeka ngayo ukujula ngaphambi kokufisa kokubili abalingani bobulili. Isizathu, noma izimbangela, aziqondi kahle. Izincazelo ze-ejaculation ezingakapheli zivela ku-biological kuphela kuya kwengqondo kuphela, kanti ezinye zikhomba ubuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kwe-biology ne-psychology.
Nokho, izici zengqondo ziyazi ukuthi ziyingozi nakakhulu noma ziphuthumise u-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kungakho ukwelashwa kungabandakanya ukwelashwa kwengqondo.
Imiphumela Yengqondo
Ukujula okungakapheli kunganciphisa ukuzethemba, kwenza amadoda angenqikazi ukuqala ubudlelwane obusha noma ukuhoxisa ukuthi umlingani angase afune ubuhlobo nomunye umuntu. Ngaphakathi kobudlelwane, amadoda angase azizwe engacatshangwa, ukuthi umlingani wabo akaqapheli izinga lokukhungatheka nokuhlazeka ababhekana nakho njalo. Abalingani babo bangase bahlupheke ngenxa yokwesaba ukucasula indoda yabo ngokuqhubekayo noma bangase bakhungatheke ekuboneni ukungathandi komuntu ukubhekana nale nkinga.
Izinzuzo ze-Psychotherapy
UStanley E. Althof, Ph.D., esivela esikhungweni seMtjhado wezeMpilo kanye neSebenzi yeSewula eFlorida, uhlaziye amandla kanye nokulinganiselwa kokungenelela okuhlukahlukeneko kwengqondo kwe-ejaculation engakafiki. Uzwa ukuthi i-psychotherapy yedwa ingcono kakhulu kumadoda noma imibhangqwana lapho inkinga ngokucacile ingokwengqondo-ngokwesibonelo, ebangelwa ukucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka ukusebenza.
Izindlela zamanje zokwelashwa kwengqondo zigcizelela ukulawula ukujula ngokufunda amasu amasha, ukuthola ukuzethemba, ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka nokufunda kangcono.
I-Psychotherapy ngayinye
Kwabesilisa abangashadile abangekho ebuhlotsheni, i-psychotherapy ngayinye ingasiza ekubhekaneni nokunganqikazi kwamadoda ukungena ebuhlotsheni.
Kwabesilisa ebuhlotsheni, i-psychotherapy ngayinye ingasiza lapho ukungasebenzi kuncike ezinkingeni zobuntwana noma ukwesaba okwedlulele noma inzondo yabesifazane.
I-psychotherapy ngayinye ingase ihlolisiswe ngokuhlola ukuthuthukiswa kokugxeka ukungena ebuhlotsheni, nokwesaba noma inzondo yabesifazane. Kungaba futhi ukuziphatha, futhi amasu athile angafundiswa ukuthi asize ukulawula ukujula , ukuthuthukisa ukuvusa, nokuphatha ukukhathazeka.
I-Psychotherapy yabangane
Emibhangqwana, i-psychotherapy ehlangene ingasiza lapho bobabili abalingani bashukunyiselwa ukufuna ukwelashwa nokuthi iziphi izinto ezihilelekile ku-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi zingahlolwa.
Ukwelashwa komshado kungabhekana nokuhlola, kubheka izinkinga ebuhlotsheni obunikela ezindabeni zocansi kanye ne-ejaculation engakafiki, noma kungase kube ukuziphatha, ukuhlola amasu athile okuzungezile ukulawula ukujula nokuvusa okusebenza ngqo ngqo nalabo abashadile ndawonye ("ukwelashwa ngokocansi" ).
I-Psychotherapy Nemithi
Ukuhlanganisa imithi yokwelashwa kwengqondo kungase, ngokusho kukaDkt. Althof, ihlinzekele okungcono kakhulu kokubili kwezwe. Umthelela wemithi ethile yokulibazisa i-ejaculation ingasiza ekwakheni ukuzethemba ngaphambi kokuba ukwelashwa kwengqondo kusetshenziswe.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, le ndoda ingafundiswa ukuba ingesabi ukuvuswa kwayo nokuya kwezinye izinzwa. Uma sekutholakale, amadoda amaningi anganqunywa imithi ngokuphelele.
Ingabe Izindlela Zokwelapha Zengqondo Zisebenza?
Ucwaningo lwezokwelapha luvame ukuba luncane futhi lungalawuliwe. Lokhu kuhlezi kahle uma kuqhathaniswa nocwaningo lwezokwelapha olusekelwe ebufakazini olubandakanya izifundo ezinkulu ezilawulwe ngokungahleliwe.
Izinga eliphezulu lokuphumelela kwezocwaningo ezinkulu zocansi ezenziwa nguMasters noJohnson (1970) azikaze ziphindwe ngezifundo ezilandelayo. Zonke izifundo ezilandelwayo ngokulandelana kwesikhathi eside ukujwayela kwamadoda ukuba aphinde abuyele emuva, ngesilinganiso esiphakeme ngamaphesenti angu-75, nakuba ukugculiswa ngokocansi jikelele kubonakala kuhle.
Ebalinganisweni, uDkt. Althof ukholelwa ukuthi ukwelapha kwengqondo kubalulekile kokubili kokubili amadoda kanye nemibhangqwana, ukuthi ingabe ingabe ingabe ingabe ingabe ingokwelashwa yendabuko isetshenziswa kanye nemithi. Imiphumela, ukholelwa, ikhomba ekuthuthukiseni okuphelele ukwaneliseka ngokobulili nokuzwana.
> Imithombo:
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