Umbuzo: Ngingawusiza kanjani I-Autistic Child Handle Ukuphelelwa yisikhathi?
Nginendodana eneminyaka engu-9 ubudala nge-autism. Utholwe ukuthi uneminyaka emibili edlule futhi ngokuhlanganiswa kwezinzwa, uye waqeda imingcele. Nakuba "engavamile," uhambisana nokuningi futhi unabangane abambalwa manje esikoleni. Ngesaba ukufa kodwa ngoba ngizwile ukuthi lapho sekukhulelwa kuqala ukuthi izingane eziningi zibuyisa.
Ingabe lokho kuyiqiniso? Zikhona yini izinto engingayenza ukuze ngimhlangabeze kangcono nge-hormone yokuqhuma?
Impendulo: Kusukela kuDkt. Bob Naseef:
Intsha ingabe izama izingane nabazali bazo. Ukuxilongwa kwi-autism spectrum kuhlanganisa uhambo futhi kwenza kube nzima, ukusho okungenani. Ukucabanga ngekusasa lama-hormone okuqhubekela phambili, njengabazali abaningi emphakathini we-autism, kungaba yingozi kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekile ngizokukhuthaza ukuba ucabange ngendlela enhle futhi ethuthukisiwe. Esikhathini sethu sokusebenza kwengqondo, kuye kwaba nemibuzo eminingi mayelana nobulili kanye nezingane ezine-autism nezinye izidingo ezikhethekile ezifinyelela ebusheni. Ngokushesha, njengabazali, sizizwa siyingxenye yethu emuva kuleli zwe elikhulu futhi elesabekayo labancane bethu. Esinye isici nengane yethu ezweni lamanje elisengozini kakhulu uma lo mntwana enezidingo ezikhethekile. Eminye yalokho ukwesaba ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukunyezwa kanye nokwesaba ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi okugxila emphakathini wezidingo ezikhethekile.
Isizathu esiningi sokungaqali ubulili kanye nemfundo yezocansi.
Izingane kanye nentsha enezidingo ezikhethekile yizidalwa zobulili njengathi sonke. Ukuhlonipha isithunzi somntwana ngamunye, ukufundisa isimo sengqondo enempilo nokukhuluma, kuyilapho ukugcina ukuphepha kuwumsebenzi wabo bonke abazali kanye nothisha, kanye nochwepheshe wezempilo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane ikhubazekile noma cha.
Ekugcineni, empikiswaneni yokuguqulwa, kunesizathu sokukhathazeka, kepha hhayi ukwesaba. Ucwaningo lwamuva lwama-longitudinal ku-Autism ngemuva kwe-Adolescence; Isifundo esilandelayo esilandelayo esivela ku-13 kuya kwezingu-22 Isifundo Sokulandelwa Kwabantu abangu-120 abane-Autism Diagnated in Ubuntwaneni "ku-Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders (June 2005) kubika ukuthi amaphesenti angu-17 kulabo abangu-108 abahlolisisile abuyele emuva ebusheni kanye nengxenye yalezi zitholakale kusukela kulolu hlelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho lolu cwaningo luqinisekisile ucwaningo lwangaphambili olubonisa ukuthi izinga le-IQ lezingane lihambisana kahle nomphumela ongcono ekukhuleni nasekuthuthukiseni ulimi.
Kulo lwazi, kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi ingane ene-Asperger syndrome noma i-High Functioning Autism ingakwazi ukubhekana nokulingwa nezinsizi zokukhulelwa nokukhula. Indodana yakho iyoba nemibuzo eminingi, kubalulekile kuwe noyise ukuba nibheke kulokho angase akucele. Kukhona izikhathi eziningi ezifundiswayo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngempela ngenxa yomzali owaziyo futhi owaziyo, kaningi kunalokho, izingane zisifundisa okuningi noma ngaphezulu kunalokho esibafundisayo. Akukho amahloni ekufundiseni noma ekuzivuseleleni ngokweqile nomsebenzi. Ngingakukhuthaza ukuba uthintane nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho ngokudluliselwa uma kwenzeka usizo oluthile olwengeziwe oludingekayo kusuka kwengqondo yengqondo noma kwengqondo kwengane.
Kusuka kuDkt. Cindy Ariel:
Indodana yakho ngokusobala yenza intuthuko eningi futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ulindele okuningi okuzayo. Izinguquko eziningi zenzeka nxazonke zokuzalwa futhi lezi zinguquko zingaba nomthelela ekuphatheni, kuhlanganise nasezindaweni lapho indodana yakho isenze khona kakhulu. Njengabo bonke abasha, indodana yakho ingase ibuyele ezindaweni ezithile ngisho nalapho iqhubeka phambili kwabanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi zinguquko zingalindelekile futhi zingalindelekile.
Khumbula, Nokho, njengoba ekhula futhi efunda futhi eguqukile, indodana yakho izobe ibe yilapho ehlala njalo. Ungumuntu okwazi ukufunda futhi azuze kulowo kufunda ngokukhipha iminyango nemingcele.
Ukukwazi kwakhe ukulingana kuyoba usizo kuye; intsha eningi izwa futhi isenze ngendlela engafanele futhi indodana yakho ingase ifane kahle lapha.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzoba nendodana yakho usuku nosuku. Ungamsiza ngokuhambisana nalokho okwenzekayo naye nangokumsiza ezindaweni ezimbi, njengoba nje uke wenza eminyakeni engu-9 eyedlule. Ukufakwa koyise noma omunye umlingisi wesilisa othembekile nakho kungabaluleka kakhulu ngalesi sigaba ekuphileni kwanoma imuphi umfana. Udinga ulwazi olufanisa izinga lakhe lokuqonda. Indodana yakho idinga ukufunda ngokukhulelwa kanye nezinguquko ezingokwenyama nezingokomzwelo ezingase zihambe ukuze athathe umthwalo wemfanelo wokuhlanganisa ndawonye ukuthi kuzokwenzekani kuye futhi lokhu kuzomsiza.
Intsha ingaba yinkinga yabaningi abaningi kanye nabantu abathandayo. Zama ukungavumeli ukwesaba kwakho ngamakhomoni akho ashintshileyo kumsabisa noma kumenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi izinguquko ahlangabezana nazo ziyesabeka noma zimbi.
URobert Naseef, Ph.D., noCindy Ariel, i-Ph.D., bangabalingisi be-"Amazwi avela ku-Spectrum: Abazali, Ugogo nomkhulu, Abantakwethu, Abantu abane-Autism, nabasebenzi Ababelana Ngokuhlakanipha Kwabo" (2006).