Akuyona imikhuba emibi, kodwa yilapho kufanele futhi nini
Imikhosi eminingi kanye nezaziso zokufa namuhla zihlanganisa amagama athi "Endaweni yezimbali ..." futhi ubuze amalungu omndeni oseduze nabangane ukuba benze umnikelo wezezimali noma isipho sokuzwelana ngomkhumbulo womuntu oshonile, ngokuvamile ku-charity, imbangela noma inhlangano ethize. Ngeshwa, iminikelo eyenziwe ngqo kulezi zinkampani ingase ikushiye uzibuze ukuthi umndeni oseduze uzothola isaziso sesipho sakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kufanele ubatshele nokuthi ungabatshela kanjani.
Lesi sihloko sichaza ukuthi ungasisebenzisa kanjani ngokusemandleni nokuthi ungathini lapho usho ngokukhululekile, usho ngokuhlakanipha ngomnikelo wakho wezezimali noma isipho sokuzwelana emndenini oseduze ngemuva kokufa komuntu othandekayo.
Kufanele Ngisho Isipho Sami Sesihawu?
Njengoba kuchaziwe ku " I-Do's and Don'ts Funeral Surrounding and Donations Memorial ," ukwenza umnikelo wezimali ngokubheka ibhange lakho kungase kube indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhokha izipho zesihawu. Ukuthumela isheke somuntu siqu ku-charity kuthatha isikhathi eside kunokuba wenze umnikelo ku-intanethi, noma kunjalo, futhi kungase kukushiye uzibuze ukuthi ukukhuluma ngesenzo sakho sokucabangela umndeni osengaphambili kungabhekwa njengemikhuba emibi noma engalungile.
Impendulo emfushane ayikho . Kuyamukeleka ngokuphelele ukwazisa umndeni oseduze umnikelo wakho wesikhumbuzo somngcwabo noma isipho somusa uma usuwenzile. Eqinisweni, lokhu kunconywa ngoba ukukhuluma ngokuqondile ngesipho sakho esibucayi kunganikeza induduzo emndenini ngalesi sikhathi esinzima - kaningi ngaphambi kokuba usizo olutholayo, imbangela noma inhlangano ingazise umndeni.
Indlela Yokukhuluma Ngayo Iminikelo Yakho Noma Isipho
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi isikhathi esandulele, ngesikhathi nangemva komngcwabo noma enkonzweni yesikhumbuzo ngokuvamile kuvame ukufakaza, ukukhukhumeza nokucindezela umndeni oseduze. Okubaluleke kakhulu, amalungu omndeni kumele abhekane nosizi olubangelwa ukushona komuntu othandekayo, okwenzeka ngokomzwelo, ngokomqondo nangokomzimba.
Kwabanye, izinsuku, amasonto kanye nezinyanga ezizungeze ukulahlekelwa ukufa zizwa sengathi zishaya-njengokungathi impilo yabo evamile imane yanyamalala futhi ishintshwe ubuhlungu obukhona, ubuhlungu, nezinyembezi.
Ngakho-ke, indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhuluma ngomnikelo wakho wesikhumbuzo somngcwabo noma isipho somusa kumndeni oseduze ukuwubeka ngokubhala . Ungakwenza kalula lokhu ngokuthumela umndeni ikhadi elizwelayo noma inothi le- condolence / incwadi eposini, ukufaka ebhokisini leqoqo noma ebhakini enkonzweni ngokwayo, noma ngokuyinika ilungu lomndeni oseduze njengoba unikeza induduzo.
Nakuba ungase uzizwe ulingeka ukuba usho ukuthinta ngokusuka enhliziyweni kwakho othandekayo ubuso nobuso ngesikhathi sokuvakasha / ukuvakashelwa, umngcwabo noma isikhumbuzo, ukukhala, noma ukushaya ucingo umndeni ngesikhathi esithile, iqiniso lokuthi abantu abaningi (ngokuzwakalayo) ukhohlwe ukuthi usho isipho sakho sokuzwelana lapho kufika isikhathi sokuthumela amanothi okubonga ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa. Ukuthumela ikhadi lokuzwelana noma inothi le-condolence / incwadi inikeza umndeni osheshayo irekhodi langokomzimba lapho angabheka lapho bezilungele, beqeda isidingo sokuba bakhumbule le nkinga ngalesi sikhathi esinzima.
Uma ubhala ikhadi lakho lomzwelo noma inothi / induduzo / incwadi, akufanele usho inani le-dollar yesabelo sakho sezimali noma isipho .
Esikhundleni salokho, vele uqaphele ukuthi "Uhlonishwa / ukhumbule [ Faka igama lomuntu oshonile ] ngokuthumela isipho ku- [ Faka igama lomshicileli oqokiwe lomndeni, imbangela noma inhlangano ]."
Nini Ukukhuluma Ngesipho Sakho Noma Isipho
Uma ulandela iseluleko ngenhla, kufanele uthumele ukubhala okubhalwe phansi ngomnikelo wakho wesikhumbuzo somngcwabo noma isipho sokuzwelana ngemva nje kokukwenza . Okufanelekile, kufanele wenze umnikelo wakho ngokushesha ngemuva kokufunda ukuthi umndeni ucele izikhumbuzo zezimali / izipho (okuvame ukukhulunywa kumuntu oshonile noma isaziso sokufa), futhi ngokuvamile kungakapheli izinsuku eziyisikhombisa ngemuva kwenkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo.
Ngokusobala, umndeni uzakwazisa noma yisiphi isipho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngokuhlonipha othandekayo wabo, ngakho lokhu kungumthetho-we-thumb.
Ngokuthumela noma ukuletha ikhadi lakho elibhalwe phansi noma inothi, ungakwazi ukuqeda ukukhathazeka ukuthi usizo olutholayo, imbangela noma inhlangano ingase ihluleke ukwazisa umndeni wesipho sakho esibucayi ngesikhathi esifanele, noma ukuthi umndeni oseduze ungakhohlwa ngeminikelo yakho uma ubatshele ngamazwi.
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