Iziphakamiso ezingu-20 ze-Eulogies noma i-Contemplation
Ngenkathi amagama engeke akhulume ngokugcwele ukuthi umuntu uthini kuwe, ulimi lungasinika induduzo, induduzo, ithemba, ngisho nokuphefumulelwa emva kokufa komuntu othandekayo. Lapha, uzothola iqoqo lezingcaphuno ezizwakalayo mayelana nosizi nokulahlekelwa okuzizwa ngemuva kokufa komuntu othandekayo.
Ungathola lezi zicaphuno eziwusizo lapho ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy noma ye- condolence , ikakhulukazi uma unenkinga yokuthola amagama afanele futhi udinga ugqozi.
Ungase futhi usebenzise lezi zingcaphuno uma usakaza, uzindla noma ucabangela lapho usizi. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi usebenze ngezigaba zakho zokudabuka.
Izicaphuno zosizi nokukhala
IBhayibheli Mathewu 5: 4
"Babusisiwe abalilayo, ngokuba bayoduduzeka."
I-Kahlil Gibran Lebanese-American umbhali nomlobi
"Uthando alukwazi ukujula kwalo kuze kufike isikhathi sokuhlukaniswa."
Arthur Golden , umbhali waseMelika
"Usizi luyinto evelele kakhulu, singenasibindi ebusweni bayo, kufana nefasitela elizovuleka ngokuzenzekelayo. Igumbi liyakhula, futhi ngeke senze lutho ngaphandle kokuthuthumela. Kodwa kuvula kancane kancane isikhathi ngasinye, futhi kancane kancane; futhi ngelinye ilanga sizibuza ukuthi kwenzekani kulo. "
UJohn Irving , umbhali waseMelika
"Uma umuntu omthandayo efa, futhi ungalindeli, awulahlekelwa yedwa ngesikhathi esisodwa; ulahlekelwa yizicucu isikhathi eside-ngendlela iposi eliyeka ngayo, futhi iphunga lakhe lidlula emithonjeni futhi ngisho nezingubo ezigumbini lakhe kanye nabakhondi.
Kancane kancane, uqoqa izingxenye zakhe ezisekho. Ngesikhathi nje kufika usuku-lapho kunesici esingekho esithile esikucindezela ngomuzwa wokuthi uhambe, kuze kube phakade-kuza olunye usuku, kanti omunye ulahlekelwa ngokuqondile ingxenye. "
UHelen Keller , umlobi waseMelika, no-activist
"Sifelekile asiyedwa.
Singabenkampani enkulu kunabo bonke emhlabeni - inkampani yalabo ababazi ukuhlupheka. "
CS Lewis , umlobi wase-Ireland, umgxekayo wokubhala, nomlobi
"Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngingakwazi ukuchaza isimo; yenza ibalazwe lokudabuka. Kodwa usizi lube yisimo kepha inqubo."
U-Anne Morrow Lindbergh , i- aviator yaseMelika, nomlobi
"Ukuhlukanisana kungenakubuhlungu, ngisho nesikhathi esifushane. Kunjenge-amputation. Nginomuzwa wokuthi umlenze uyasuswa, ngaphandle kwalokho engingeke ngikwazi ukusebenza." Noma kunjalo, uma sekuphelile ... impilo ibuyele emuva ayifanele, ecebile, ecacile futhi egcwele kunanini ngaphambili. "
U-Abraham Lincoln , umongameli wase-US
"Kuleli zwe elibuhlungu lethu, usizi lufika kubo bonke ... Ukukhululeka okuphelele akunakwenzeka, ngaphandle kwesikhathi. Awukwazi manje ukuthi uzoke uzizwe kangcono ... Kodwa nokho kuyiphutha. ujabule futhi. Ukuze ukwazi lokhu, okuyiqiniso ngempela, kuzokukwenza ube nesisindo esincane kakhulu manje. Nginolwazi ngokwanele ukwazi lokho engikushoyo; futhi udinga nje ukukholelwa, ukuzizwa ungcono ngesikhathi esisodwa. "
U-Edna St. Vincent Millay , imbongi yaseMelika, nomdlali wezemidlalo
"Lapho uke waba khona, kunomgodi emhlabeni, engikutholayo ngihamba njalo emini, futhi ngiwela ebusuku.
Ngikukhumbula njengesihogo. "
UWilliam Penn , osomabhizinisi waseNgilandi nomsunguli wasePennsylvania
"Ukufa akuyona nje ukuphenduka kwethu kusukela esikhathini esizayo kuze kube phakade."
U-Elizabeth Kübler-Ross , wezifo zengqondo waseSwitzerland, nomlobi
"Iqiniso liwukuthi uzodabuka kuze kube phakade.Ungeke 'uphumelele' ekulahlekelweni komuntu othandekayo, uzofunda ukuhlala nayo. Uyophulukisa futhi uzozivuselela ngokulahlekelwa kwakho. uphinde uke futhi ngeke ube okufanayo. Futhi akufanele ube okufanayo noma ungafuni. "
UWilliam Shakespeare , umdlali wezingoma waseNgilandi
"Ukukhala ukukwenza ubuhlungu bube buncane."
UNicholas Sparks , umbhali waseMelika
"Ngaphandle kwakho ezandleni zami, ngizizwa ngingenalutho emphefumulweni wami. Ngizithola ngisesha izixuku ebusweni bakho-ngiyazi ukuthi akunakwenzeka, kodwa angikwazi ukuzisiza."
UJohn Steinbeck , umbhali waseMelika
"Kuyinto emnyama kakhulu lapho kuphuma ukukhanya kunokuba bekungeke kube khona uma kungakaze kubonakale."
Clover Stroud , intatheli yaseBrithani
"Usizi, ngiyaqonda manje, luhlobo lobuhlanya, ngendlela efanayo ethanda othandweni."
UPatrick Swayze , umlingisi waseMelika
"Uma labo obathandayo befa, okungcono kakhulu ongakwenza ukuhlonipha umoya wabo uma nje uhlala. Uzinikela ukuthi uzothatha noma isiphi isifundo umuntu noma isilwane esilinga ukukufundisa, futhi uyayenza kuyiqiniso empilweni yakho ... Kuyindlela enhle yokugcina umoya wabo uphila emhlabeni, ngokuzigcina uphila kuwe. "
"Tao Te Ching," incwadi yefilosofi yaseShayina
"Ukuze ubambe, kufanele uvule isandla sakho kuqala."
U-Alfred, Nkosi Tennyson , imbongi yaseBrithani
"Ngezinye izikhathi ngibamba isigamu sesono
Ukubeka amagama usizi engizizwayo,
Ngamazwi, njengemvelo, isigamu sibonisa
Futhi isigamu sifihle umphefumulo ngaphakathi. "
UDylan Thomas , umbongi waseWelsh, nomlobi
"Nakuba abathandi belahleka, uthando ngeke lube khona, nokufa ngeke kube namandla."
U-Leo Tolstoy , umbhali waseRussia
"Abantu kuphela abangakwazi ukuthanda kakhulu bangase babe nosizi olukhulu, kodwa lokhu okudingekayo kothando kuyasiza ekunciphiseni usizi lwabo bese bephulukisa."