Ukubekwa kanye nezinye izinketho zokunakekela izingane ezikhukhumezekile
Kubazali abanezingane ezikhubazekile kakhulu, kungase kubonakale sengathi akekho enye inketho kunokuba ubeke ingane yakho ekhaya elincane labahlengikazi. Ngeshwa, izindlu zokunakekela izingane (noma izikhungo zokunakekelwa njengoba zivame ukubizwa manje) ezenzelwe ngqo izingane nezingane ezincane zimbalwa futhi ziphakathi. Isimo esiningi kakhulu ukuthi ingane noma umdala omdala ufakwa ekhaya elikhulile labahlengikazi ukuze bathole ukunakekelwa okukudingayo.
Yini eqhubeka ngokucacile nakuba kunjalo ukuthi ikhaya elikhulile labahlengikazi aliyona indawo yomntwana kunoma yimuphi ubudala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhubazekile. Ngaphambi kokuba udangele kakhulu, ake sikhulume ngezinye zezinketho ezingcono ezingatholakala kubazali.
- Ukubeletha Ingane Ekhubazekile
Ukubekwa eKhaya Lezobuhlengikazi noma esikhungweni sokunakekelwa
Kungani umzali onothando angabeka ingane emakhaya asebekhulile? Ngokuvamile umzali akanakho ukukhetha. Ingane ingakhubazeka kangangokuthi umzali udinga usizo lomunye umuntu, noma ingane idinga ukunakekelwa kwamahora angu-24. Umzali, ikakhulukazi uma bengenabanye ukusekelwa komndeni, bangase bakuthole kunzima ngokwezimali nangokwenyama noma kungenakwenzeka ukunakekela ingane njalo. Ezinye izingane zidinga imithi edingeka ukuphathwa ngaphakathi futhi umuntu ongafundile akakwazi ukunikeza lolu hlobo lokunakekelwa. Ngesinye isikhathi, ukunakekelwa okudingekayo kwengane ekhubazekile kunzima ukuyekethisa kakhulu ikhono labantu abadala lokunakekela ezinye izingane ekhaya.
Kulezi zimo, ikhaya labahlengikazi lingase libonakale liwukuphela kokukhetha okukhona.
Izinkinga ngezindlu zendabuko zendabuko noma izindawo zokunakekelwa
Ikhaya elikhulelwe linganakekela ingane ekhubazekile noma umuntu omdala osemusha, kodwa ngokuvamile kunezidingo eziningi ezingavumelani lapho ingane ifakwa ekhaya elikhulile labadala. Indlu yokunakekela abantu asebekhulile nabagulayo igxila ekunakekeleni iziguli zokuphela kokuphila.
Ikhaya elikhungathekile labo asebekhulile alinandaba nezezidingo zomuntu omusha, noma imfundo yabo. Ngezinye izikhathi ukunakekelwa okuwukuphela kwengane okutholakele yikulethwa kokudla, imithi, nokunakekelwa kwezidingo eziyisisekelo zokuhlanzeka. Isikhathi sonke esingahlala sisodwa.
Kuzingane eziqaphela indawo ezungezile, ukuhlala ekhaya elikhulisayo kungabangela ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka. Abanalo ozokhuluma nabo, abaphuthelwa abangane babo nomndeni wabo, futhi ikakhulukazi bangabikho uthando nokukhathazeka ababenakho ekhaya.
Izindlu Zokunakekela Abasha noma Izinsiza Zokunakekela
Ikhaya elisha lokunakekela libhekene nezidingo zomuntu osemusha engqondweni. Ingane ikwazi ukuxhumana nabanye abantu abaneminyaka yobudala bayo, ikwazi ukuba nezivakashi, futhi ingase ibe nezivakashi kuze kube kusihlwa. Ukunakwa kunikezwa ekuxhumanisaneni kwezenhlalakahle, kanye nokuhlelwa kwenkundla okuhleliwe njalo. Kuncike ekukhubazekeni kwengane, amakilasi akhethekile emfundo ayatholakala, noma amakilasi angafundisa ikhono lomsebenzi uma ingane ikwazi. Ngokuvamile, kusetshenziselwa isikhathi esiningi ukukhulisa ingane, ngokwenyama, ngokomoya, nangokomzwelo, kunokuba kungenakutholakala endaweni yokudala.
Uma unquma ukubeka ingane yakho ekhaya lokunakekela izingane, ungase ube nomzwelo ohlangene kakhulu.
Thatha umzuzwana ukufunda ngendlela umndeni wakho ongabhekana ngayo nokudabuka, inecala, nokudabuka kokubeka isikhungo sokunakekelwa .
Izinketho zabazali
Kukhona inhlangano ekhulayo e-US nakwamanye amazwe ukunikeza izinketho eziningi zokunakekelwa, ngaphandle kwekhaya lokuhlengikaza yendabuko noma ngisho nekhaya labahlengikazi, kubazali bezingane ezikhubazekile. Imikhaya yokunakekela izingane iyodwa kuphela. Enye inketho engaphandle kwekhaya ukuphathwa kwesikhashana. Izinketho zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku kulabo abakhubazekile nazo ngezinye izikhathi zimbalwa futhi ziphakathi. Indawo enhle yokuqala ukukhetha izinketho ukuxhumana nezibhedlela zezingane zakini.
Ekhaya laseKhaya lokuNakekela abahlengikazi noma usizo
Ezinye izinketho zihlanganisa ukutholakala kwemali kanye nezinhlelo ezihlinzekela ukunakekelwa kwekhaya ekhaya izingane ezikhubazekile.
Isibonelo, i-Children's Freedom Initiative eGeorgia inamalungelo abasiza abazali ekutholeni usizo abayidingayo ukuze bakwazi ukunakekela izingane ezikhubazekile emakhaya abo. Umsebenzi noma inhlangano "ukudala iGeorgia lapho kungekho khona ingane ehlala khona." Kuthemba ukuthi amanye amazwe azolandela isibonelo sabo futhi anciphise isidingo sokuba izingane zibekwe ezindaweni zokudala.
Ukuthola Imali Yokunakekelwa Kwekhaya noma Isikhungo Sokunakekelwa Kwezingane
Ngenkathi amazwe amaningi engenawo ohlelweni njengaseGeorgia, kunezinketho eziningi zokuxhaswa ekunakekeleni ekhaya noma isikhungo sokunakekela izingane kumntanakho. Izinketho zemali zabazali zingacutshungulwa ngezikhungo zikahulumeni ezilandelayo kanye nezinhlangano zikahulumeni, kanye nezinhlangano zokusiza e-United States. Ezinye izinketho ongafisa ukuzihlola zifaka:
- Izinsizakalo zezingane
- UMnyango wezeMpilo kanye nezinsizakalo zabasebenzi
- Uhlelo Lokungena Ekuqaleni
- Ihhovisi Lokukhubazeka Kwengqondo Nokukhubazeka Kwentuthuko
- I-Aid Aid yezingane (eNew York)
Ezinye Izinhlelo Zokuxhaswa Ngezinsiza
Lokhu okulandelayo kungenye yezinhlangano eziningi zokusiza ezinikezela ngemali yokunakekela izingane ezikhubazekile:
- Ukuphathwa kwezingane kanye nemindeni
- IsiKhwama Sokusiza Abantwana abakhubazekile
- Ama-Easter Seals
- I-Kaitlin Marie Bell Foundation
- I-Midwest Special Needs Trust
- IsiKhwama Sezingane Sezinqumo Zomongameli
- IsiKhwama Sezingane Zokukhubazeka
- I-Project MORGAN
- I-UnitedHealthcare Children's Foundation Inc.
Lokhu kuyisampula kwezinye zezinhlangano zokusiza ezitholakalayo. Ezinye izinhlangano zinikeza izibonelelo nezinsiza kwezinye izindawo zezwe, kanti abanye banganikeza usizo lonke.
Izinketho zokunakekela izingane ezinganeni ezikhubazekile
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali abadingi ukubekwa noma banwetshwe usizo lwekhaya ukuze banakekele izingane zabo. Kunezinketho eziningi ezitholakala kulokhu kanye. Funda ngezinketho eziphezulu zokunakekela izingane ezinganeni ezikhubazekile . Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokuthola umntanakho wengane enezidingo ezikhethekile.
Ngezansi Ekunakekeleni Ingane Yakho Ekhubazekile
Uma ngabe ucabangela ukunakekela ekhaya lokunakekela ingane yakho ekhubazekile, ungase uzizwe sengathi usekupheleni kwentambo yakho. Ungase uzizwe ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo ungeke ukwazi ukunakekela ingane yakho, noma esikhundleni salokho, ungase uzizwe unakekela ingane yakho ekhubazekile ulimaza noma ubeka ezinye izingane zakho engozini. Ukufinyelela kuleli phuzu kuyisinyathelo esinzima.
Nokho, kunezinketho eziningi ezitholakalayo. Uma unabangane noma umndeni okhona ukuze usize, ungase ufise ukuwacela ukuba akusize uhlole izinketho. Kungathatha umzamo omkhulu futhi kube nzima ukwenza kanjalo, kodwa ekugcineni abazali abaningi bayakhululeka ukuthi bazinike isikhathi sokufinyelela futhi bathole izinketho ezikhona. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwesithombe, kunezinhlangano eziningi ezilangazela ukusiza abazali njengani, kodwa abazi ukuthi zizoqala kuphi ekutholeni.
Kungathatha isikhathi esithile. Kuze kube yilapho sinezinketho ezingcono futhi ezicacile endaweni, ukuthola ukuthi yini oyidingayo kungaba yinkambo ende yokushaya noma yokuphuthelwa kanye nezinyathelo ezintathu-phambili-izinyathelo ezimbili. Cabanga ngamaqembu owabo. Uma usebenza enhlanganweni yenkolo noma esontweni, kungenzeka kube khona abantu abakusiza ukuthi bakwenze ukumba okudingekile. Kuwe, noma kunjalo, ukubuza imibuzo bese uqala inqubo.
Nakuba kungathatha isikhathi, abazali abaningi abanezingane ezikhubazekile kakhulu bathole imali yokunakekelwa okwenze umehluko kuwo wonke umndeni.
Imithombo:
Gibson, B., King, G., Kingsnorth, S., noP. McKeever. 'Ukubekwa' Kwabantu Abanempilo Eningi Kuyo yonke Indlela Yokuphila: Izinkomba Zokudala Zokucabanga. BMC Medicine . 2014. 12:83.