Uma wenze isinqumo esinzima ukuhambisa othandekayo wakho ekhaya elikhulisayo noma kwenye indawo, kungenzeka ukuthi unenkinga yecala ngalolu shintsho. Futhi ungase usizilele ukulahlekelwa okuncane okubangelwa kuleso sinqumo noma unzima ukulungisa izinguquko endleleni yakho yokuphila.
Akungabazeki ukuthi isinqumo sakho sokubeka ilungu lomndeni endaweni ethile asizange senziwe kalula.
Cishe ucabangele izici eziningi. Ngezinye izikhathi, lezi zinqumo zithathwe ezandleni zethu ngezimo eziphuthumayo noma ukukhathazeka kwezempilo. Ngezinye izikhathi, isinqumo sokuvuma umthandi wakho ekhaya elikhulile lingamasentimitha ngamasentimitha owodwa, ngamalungu omndeni amaningi enzima, odokotela banikeza izeluleko nezixwayiso, kanye nomakhelwane bakhuthaza ukuba uthathe isinyathelo esilandelayo.
Ngenkathi kukhona ukuphazamiseka njengoba isinqumo senziwe, asihlali ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba omunye umuntu angeniswa esikhungweni. Eqinisweni, ingaqhubeka noma ikhuphuke njengoba umnakekeli kufanele afunde ukukhulula imininingwane yakhe emininingwaneni esetshenziselwa ukunakekelwa yothandekayo wakhe.
Ukuqaphela Izimpawu Zokuzibophezela, Ukuzisola Nokulungiswa
Nakuba kungase kubonakale sengathi kufanele kube sobala, akuwona wonke umuzwa wecala noma usizi obukeka ngendlela efanayo. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa imizwelo enzima engase ivele emva kokubekwa ekhaya ekhaya lomuntu othandekayo:
- Ungase uzizwe unecala uma unolwazi olujabulisayo.
- Ungase uzwe umjikelezo wecala, bese ukhulula, bese unecala.
- Ungase uzithole ungenelisekile ngokunakekelwa kwabasebenzi basezindaweni.
- Ungase uzizwe isidingo sokuhlala ukhona kule ndawo.
- Ungase uzizwe uzizwa ucindezelekile noma ucindezelekile.
- Ungase ungafuni ukucabangela ukwenza iziqondiso zezokwelapha, njenge- oda le- DNR .
Abanikeli Bemizwa Yokuzizwa Kokuthobeka Nokulizwa
Ezinye izici ezingakhulisa imizwa enzima ngemuva kokunakekelwa ekhaya ekhaya kungase kuhlanganise ukudumala kokungakwazi ukukhathalela umlingani ekhaya njengoba ekuqaleni kuhlelwe, umbono (okunembile noma cha) abanye abanye balindele ukuthi nikwazi ukunakekela lowo muntu ekhaya, nokuvuma ukuthi isifo somuntu siyaqhubeka.
Ngezinye izikhathi, kungenzeka ukuthi lowo muntu wathi kuwe, "Ngicela ungangifaki ekhaya elikhulile!" Noma kunjalo, izidingo zakhe kungenzeka zenze leso sicelo singenakwenzeka.
Indlela Yokuzisiza Ushintshe Kulolu Shintsha
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuthi uhlangabezana nokulungiswa okuphawulekayo. Nakuba lokhu kungashintshi isimo, kungasiza ukuzinikela imvume yokuma isikhashana futhi uqonde inselele obhekene nayo.
Ucwaningo olulodwa lwathola ukuthi abanikazi bokunakekelwa, ikakhulukazi abashadile abahlala ekhaya abahlengikazi, babhekene nokucindezeleka okukhulu nokukhathazeka emva kokubekwa kwezingane ekhaya ngaphambi kokubekwa kwabahlengikazi ekhaya. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi nakuba ukubekwa kwakungadingeka ukunakekelwa othandekayo, ngeke kube "ngokulungisa" umsizi oyinhloko futhi wenze konke kulungile.
Thola kancane, futhi mhlawumbe izindlela ezintsha zokuveza ukunakekela kwakho nothando lwakho. Mhlawumbe ungaletha iphephandaba noma imbali nsuku zonke kumuntu othandekayo wakho.
Thola umuntu ongakhulume ngaye ngokukhathazeka kwakho, kokubili ngaphandle kwesikhungo nangaphakathi kwalo. Ukuxhumana kubalulekile, futhi izakhiwo eziningi zifuna ukwazi ukuthi iziphi izinkinga zakho. Ukufunda ukugqugquzela othandekayo wakho kubalulekile futhi kuyadingeka, ikakhulukazi uma enesifo sengqondo somqondo .
Qaphela ukuthi nakuba ngabe othandekayo wakho engazange afune ukuhlala endaweni, kungase kube nezinzuzo ekunakekelwa kwezingane zasemakhaya. Nakuba ungase uzizwe ukuthi akukho okungaqhathaniswa nezinga lokunakekelwa okwenzele othandekayo wakho ekhaya, khumbula ukuthi ukunakekelwa esikhungweni kungase kube kuhle, ukunakekelwa kwekhwalithi, futhi kuyatholakala amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Abanye abantu bathola ukuthi othandekayo wabo uthuthukise esikhungweni ngoba uthola ukunakekelwa njalo ukuthi amalungu omndeni ayefuna ukuhlinzeka kodwa awakwazi ukugcina kahle ekhaya.
Siza othandekayo wakho alungiselele kulesi sikhungo . Sebenzani ndawonye ukuze uthole imisebenzi enenjongo nemigomo ukuze asize ekuhleleni ukulungiswa.
Cabangela ukuthuthukisa indaba yokuphila ukuze wabelane nabantu abalulekile, imicimbi kanye nokwaziswa nabasebenzi mayelana nomthandekayo wakho.
Khumbuza ikhono lakho lokugxila manje, hhayi kuphela ekudingweni komnakekeli wakho womzimba, kodwa nangokuvakashela nokwakha ubuhlobo bakho naye.
Abanakekeli abaningi banomuzwa wokuthi banelungelo lokunakekela othandekayo wabo, futhi abafuni ukukhululeka emsebenzini wokuhlinzeka ukunakekelwa, ngisho nangokwenza intela ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ukwamukela ukuhlangana kwemizwelo okubandakanya ukudabuka, ukulahlekelwa, ukulahlwa yecala kanye nokukhululeka, kungavumela ukulungiswa okunempilo ngemuva kokubekwa kwabafundi ekhaya.
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