Uhlu Lokuhlola Lokusesha Izikhungo Zokunakekelwa Kwezinsuku
Ukukhetha isikhungo sokunakekela izingane izingane ezikhubazekile kungaba yinkqubo echitha isikhathi, hhayi ukukhuluma ngemizwelo ehambisana nokuthola indawo efanele ingane yakho. Abazali bafuna ukuthola isikhungo esinikeza ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu kwezingane zabo kanye nokuthi ingane yabo izokujabulela ukuya khona.
Akuzona zonke izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku ezidalwa ezilinganayo, noma kunjalo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, imithetho mayelana nokunakekelwa inikezwa kusuka ezizimele kuya ezikhungweni zomphakathi zomphakathi, futhi kusuka kuhulumeni kuya kuhulumeni. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukucwaninga zonke izici zesakhiwo ngaphambi kokubeka ingane yakho ekunakekeleni. Isinyathelo esihle sokuqala ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlola izinketho zokunakekela izingane ezingaphezulu kwabantwana abakhubazekile.
Imvelo yengane yakho ingadlala indima enkulu ekuphumeleleni kwayo kamuva.
Yini Okufanele Uyibheke Ekukhetheni Indawo Yokunakekelwa Kwezinsuku Ezinhle Kakhulu
Lapho ucwaninga isikhungo sokunakekela izingane izingane ezikhubazekile, kunezici eziningi ezizocatshangelwa. Lezi zizofaka konke okuvela ekunakekeleni kwengane yakho engayilindela ukuyithola, ikhono lomntanakho ukuthi azulazula indawo yakhe endaweni, ukuzwa kwakho "kwegciwane" ngalokho okulungile.
Ukuhlola nokwenza isinqumo kungabonakala kuwumsebenzi odambisayo, kodwa ukuthatha isikhathi sokucabangela izinto ezilandelayo kungakusiza ukunciphisa izinketho zakho futhi kukusize ugxile ezakhiweni ezizohlangabezana nezidingo zombili wena nomntanakho.
Thatha isikhathi sokucabangela:
- Ukungena kwendawo / ukufinyeleleka. Ingabe ukungena kwendawo yokunakekelwa kwamasuku kuyatholakala? Isikhungo esibangela abakhubazekile kufanele sibe nomzila noma ukuphakamisa okusiza labo abasebenzisa amadivaysi okuhamba ukuze bafinyelele kalula esakhiweni. Izivalo ezizenzekelayo ziyisibonakaliso sokuthi iyindawo efinyelelekayo.
- Izakhiwo zangaphakathi. Ingaphakathi lendawo kufanele ibonakale ihlanzekile, iphunga ehlanzekile futhi ibe neminyango yokufundela okufinyeleleka, amatafula, izihlalo, namagumbi okugeza. Uma kunezitezi ezingaphezu kweyodwa zesakhiwo, ingabe kukhona i-elevator yabafundi abasebenzisa amadivaysi okuhamba? Thatha isikhathi sokuhamba ngokuzungeza isikhungo ukuze uzizwe ukuthi ingane yakho izohamba kanjani indlela yakhe ngosuku ngalunye.
- I-Classroom yengane kuya kubasebenzi. Ukuze ingane ithole ukunakekelana okuyidingayo, idinga isikhathi ngasinye ngothisha ngangokunokwenzeka. Kwezinye izimo, ingane ingadinga usizo oluchitha usuku lonke nengane ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izidingo zazo zihlangene.
- Cwaninga amakhono omhlinzeki. Ingabe othisha banamakhono, ukuqeqeshwa, nesipiliyoni sokufundisa ingane ngokukhubazeka okuthile? Ungesabi ukubuza mayelana nesizinda sanoma yikuphi futhi bonke abaqeqeshiwe kanye nama-paraprofessionals abazosebenza nengane yakho. Njengoba uyazi kahle, njengomzali wengane enokukhubazeka, "incwadi ye-smarts" kanye ne-"smarts street" ingahluka. Ingabe othisha nabanye abasebenzi babonakala benesipiliyoni sokusebenza nengane enokukhubazeka njengeyakho, nokuningi, kubonakala sengathi banesifiso sokwenza kanjalo? Qinisekisa ukuthi indawo ekhethiwe inabasebenzi abanamakhono aphezulu kanye nesipiliyoni sokunakekela ingane ekhubazekile.
- Imvelo yezemfundo. Isikhungo esihle kakhulu sokunakekelwa kwesikhashana sinomvelo omuhle wezemfundo okhuthaza ukukhula ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo yabo bonke abantwana ekilasini. Bheka igumbi lokufundela lapho izingane zihlanganyela khona futhi zivunyelwe ukuthi zihlanganyele. Kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uvunyelwe, thatha isikhathi sokuya emakilasini ambalwa futhi ube "fly on the wall" ukuze uthole umqondo ukuthi ingane yakho izozizwa kanjani usuku ngalunye.
- Isiyalo nesiqondiso. Ukuqaphela iklasi ngokuqhubekayo kanye neminye imisebenzi yeqembu eholwa othisha. Yiluphi uhlobo lokuqondisa olusetshenziselwa ukulawula iqembu lezingane? Izingane ziqondiswa kanjani ukwenza lokho okucelwa ngabo ekilasini? Ungacabangi ukuthi unempendulo, futhi ubuze ngokuqondile ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga ezizobhekana nazo, ucabange ngokukhathazeka okungase kuvele nengane yakho. Ingabe ukhululekile ngale ndlela? Ingabe abasebenzi bazokubiza uma kuvela ukukhathazeka? Kubalulekile kunoma yikuphi ingane ukuthi kukhona ukuvumelana phakathi kwemvelo yesikhashana kanye nemvelo yasendlini. Uma kukhona ukukhathazeka onakho mayelana namafilosofi ahlukile okwakho, ubangele ukukhanya ngokushesha, ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ingene kule ndawo.
- Isikhathi sokuphendula abasebenzi. Njengoba ubheka ekilasini noma enye imfundo uma ingane yenza okuthile okudinga impendulo yothisha, ingane ilinde isikhathi esingakanani? Ingabe kukhona ama-aids ekilasini angasiza uthisha ukuba abone izidingo zezingane ngokushesha? Futhi, ukuthatha isikhathi sokuhlala emisebenzini yeklasini, uma lokhu kuvunyelwe, kuzokunika ithuba lokubona ngeso lengqondo ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani ekunakekeleni kwesikhashana.
- Imisebenzi ehleliwe. Iyini usuku olujwayelekile olufana nesikhungo sokunakekela izingane? Thola ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwemisebenzi ehlelwe nsuku zonke. Buza ukuthi ukuhanjiswa kwenkambu kunikezwa futhi uma kunjalo, kaningi kangakanani. Ingabe kukhona indawo yokudlala, i-gym noma i-pool yokuphazamisa esakhiweni?
Ukunakekelwa Kwezinsuku Nemfundo Ekhethekile
Ezinye izindawo zokunakekelwa kwesikhashana zifana nezikhungo ezikhethekile zemfundo, kanti ezinye azikho, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi zingcono kakhulu ngokuya ngezidingo zakho. Kunezikhungo ezithile ezinhle kakhulu ezihlinzekela ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana kulokho okubonakala sengathi kukhona esikoleni sendabuko, ngaphandle kwalaba bafundi abakhubazekile. Kwabanye, isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwesikhashana singaba yindawo yokuba izingane zigcinwe phakathi nosuku, ngaphandle kokulindela imfundo ngenxa yezinga lekhono. Ezinye izakhiwo zinganakekela izingane ezikhubazekile kuze kube neminyaka engu-22, ngenxa yemithetho kahulumeni evumela izingane ezikhubazekile isikhathi esiningi ukuba ziqedele imfundo yabo yesikole esiphakeme. Ububanzi obuningi bokukhetha bugcizelela ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuvakashela isikole futhi uhlole uhlu olungaphezulu ngaphezu kwemibandela nokukhathazeka ofaka ohlwini.
Ngaphansi
Ngenxa yenkathi engase yenze isikhathi ingane ingase ichithe ekunakekeleni kwesikhungo noma esikhungweni semfundo esikhethekile, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izidingo zezingane zihlangene njengoba zikhula. Ngokukhetha isikhungo sokunakekelwa kahle kwesikhashana sezingane ezikhubazekile, umzali angaqiniseka ukuthi ingane yakhe izothola ukunakwa lapho umzali engekho ukuzongamela ukunakekelwa kwabo futhi athole imfundo efanelekile emakhono abo.
Inqubo ingase ibonakale igqamile, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthola indawo yokunakekelwa kwesikhashana yengane yakho enokukhubazeka kokubili emnikeza lokho akudingayo futhi ikunike ukuqinisekiswa okudingayo ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza kahle futhi ukhululekile uma engekho. Cabangela wonke amaphuzu ohlwini lokuhlola ngenhla futhi uthathe isikhathi sokwengeza noma yikuphi ukusebenzisana nokuziqhenya kwakho ozifunayo ngokwakho. Yiqiniso, iningi lesinqumo sinesithunzi futhi ingane yakho yijaji elihle kunazo zonke. Ungase ufune ngisho nokugcina amanothi ngemuva kokuvakashela indawo ngayinye. Mhlawumbe umbeke "injabulo" noma "intshisekelo" ngesilinganiso sika-1 kuya ku-10. Abazali abaningi bayakwazi ukuthola ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana ukuthi abajabuli nje kuphela, kodwa bamangala ngokumangala.
Okokugcina, khumbula ukuthi noma yisiphi isinqumo owenzayo akusiyo unomphela. Yenza indawo ekhalendeni lakho ukuze uphinde uhlole isinqumo sakho, noma ngabe kanye ngesonto noma kanye ngonyaka, into ebalulekile ukwenza kanjalo.
Isidingo Siqhubeka
Ukukhetha inketho yokunakekelwa kwesikhashana yengane enokukhubazeka kuyisinyathelo esihle lapho udinga ukusebenza, kodwa kuthiwani uma udinga ukuphila impilo yakho ngezinye izindlela?
Futhi ekugcineni, ekugcineni, izidingo zokugcina zesikhashana kufanele zibhekiswe. Umqondo we-daycare syndrome kanye nokutheleleka okuvamile. Ungase uhlele ukubuyela emsebenzini kodwa uzizwa unecala njengabanye abazali (futhi kubi nakakhulu, izihlobo) ukhulume ngokuthi ingane yakho ekhubazekile isivele isakwazi kanjani ukuthuthukisa izifo. Yebo, izingane ezinakekelwa ngosuku zithola izifo. Futhi yebo, izingane ezazingekho ekunakekeleni kwamasuku zithola izifo ezithathelwanayo lapho ziqala isikole. Ukubuyela emsebenzini akufanele kube uhambo lwenecala ngawe. Izingane eziningi ezinokukhubazeka ziyaphumelela ekuhlelweni kokunakekelwa kwezinsuku ngezindlela abangazange bakwazi ngazo ekhaya. Okubalulekile ukuthi ukhululeke ngokunakekelwa kwengane yakho, futhi lokho kungadinga ukuvula izindlebe zakho emazwini amaningi ahloselwe kahle kepha olimazayo ongawazwa ngenkathi.
Thatha isikhathi sokufunda ngomthetho waseMelika onokukhubazeka (ADA) nokuthi lokhu kungakuthinta kanjani wena nomntanakho. Cishe zonke izikhungo zokunakekela izingane ngasese zimele zihambisane ne- ADA .
Imithombo:
Strawhacker, M. Izinyathelo Zokuqala: Ukwenza Ukuguqulwa Esikoleni Sokuqala. Umhlengikazi wesikole we-NASN . 2013. 28 (5): 242-5.