Izinto Ezinkulu Okufanele Zicabangele Ngesinqumo Sokusoka Kwabesilisa

Ukusoka kwabesilisa kuyisisindo sokukhishwa kwejwabu elimboza isihloko senkosi. Yinkqubo ngokuvamile eyenziwa ezinsukwini ezimbili kuya kwezinsuku zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, kungaba esibhedlela noma njengengxenye yomkhosi wenkolo ekhaya. Nakuba lo mkhuba wamukelwe kabanzi kulo lonke elase-US, ukusoka empeleni kungavamile kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele. Amaphesenti angu-10 kuphela abafana abathola ukuzungeze emhlabeni wonke, amazinga awela kancane eMelika-kusukela kuma-80 amaphesenti ngo-1980 kuya kulinganiselwa ukuthi amaphesenti angu-60 okwamanje. Lezi zinombolo zibonisa ingxabano ekhona manje mayelana nezinzuzo nezingozi zomkhuba. Ake sibheke ezinye zezizathu zenhlalakahle, ezemasiko, ezomlando nezizokwelapha zokusoka kwabesilisa, nokuthi kungani kusanda kuvela.

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Kungani Kumiswa?

Ezimweni ezingavamile, ukusoka kwenziwa ngaphandle kokudinga usizo lwezokwelapha uma ijwabu likhulelwe, alikwazi ukuhoxisa (i-phimosis) noma uma lingenakudluliselwa phezu kwephisiphinde uma lihlehlisiwe (paraphimosis). Kodwa kaningi inqubo yenzelwa izizathu zenhlalo, zamasiko noma zenkolo. Kuyinto evamile kakhulu emiphakathini yamaSulumane namaJuda kanye nomkhuba otholakala ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka futhi eningiliziwe ematheksthini enkolo. Yathandwa kakhulu e-US ngawo-1920 lapho odokotela bekholelwa ukuthi kuzonciphisa amazinga we-STD njengokwelapha futhi unciphise isifiso sokushaya indlwabu. Inkolelo yokuthi ukusoka kungcono ukuhlanzeka kuyisisekelo esivelele kulo mkhuba, ikakhulukazi emiphakathini yobuKristu kanye nemiphakathi. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo ngempela?

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Izinzuzo zezempilo zokusoka

Ucwaningo oluthile lubonisa ukuthi ukusoka kuvimbela ukutheleleka kwamagciwane, futhi amadoda angama-10 angaphezu kwamathuba amaningi okuwasebenzisana nabo. Ngokusho kwe-CDC, amangqamuzana ejwabu angase abe namanye ama-STD-okufaka phakathi i-HIV ngokubambisana phakathi kwabantu abesilisa nabesifazane-futhi angandisa ingozi yomdlavuza we-penile. Nakuba abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi i-penis engasokile inzima kakhulu ukugcina ihlanzekile ngakho-ke ingaholela ezinkingeni, lokhu empeleni akulona iqiniso. Ijwabu lingasuswa kalula futhi lihlanzwe nge-sese namanzi njengengxenye yokujwayela njalo.

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Ukukhathazeka Kwezempilo Ukusoka

Phakathi kwamaphesenti amabili nangu-10 okusoka kubangelwa ukucindezeleka, nakuba inani eliqondile alingaziwa. Ukwehliswa kwe-bleeding kanye ne-post-op kungase kuholele ekutheleleni-enye yemiphumela emibi kakhulu. Ukwehliswa okubangela ubuhlungu noma ukuphazamiseka kuyinto engavamile, nakuba ukungahambi kahle nobuhlungu ngesikhathi kulungiswa ukusika akuyona into evamile.

I-push enkulu ngokumelene nokusoka ivela ku-American Academy of Pediatrics. Bafaka ukuphikisa kwabo ekufundeni okubonisa ukulimala kwengqondo kwabesilisa abasokile futhi baphikisana ngokuqinile neziqondiso ze-CDC ezikhuthaza umkhuba. Ucwaningo lwezokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo lubonise ukuthi ukuzwa ubuhlungu obunjalo obuncane kakhulu kungabangela ushintsho ekhemistini yobuchopho okungabangela ukukhathazeka okwandayo, izinkinga zokunakwa, kanye nokungabi namandla. (I-Nope, i-anesthesia ayisetshenziswa kaningi.) Ngokwezinye izifundo, intukuthelo, ihlazo ngisho ne-PTSD kungaba yimiphumela yesikhathi eside yokusoka.

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Izenzalo Zecala Yezocansi

Nakuba izifundo zakudala zithi imiphumela yesikhathi eside yokusoka ihlanganisa ukunciphisa ukuzwela kocansi, ucwaningo lwamuva lubonisa lokhu akunjalo. Ukungafuni ukusebenzisa amakhondomu nokudinga ukusebenzisa i-lubricant kukhonjiswe esikhathini esedlule njengobufakazi bemiphumela emibi yenkambiso. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo olusha luyinselela inkolelo esetshenziswa kabanzi ukuthi ijwabu liphethe iningi lokuzwela ngakho-ke ukukhishwa kwalo kususwa ekujabuliseni owesilisa.

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Umbuzo Wokuziphatha

Mhlawumbe umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu ukuphendula ukuthi ukusoka kuyinto efanelekile. Ngamaqembu ahlukahlukene (kufaka phakathi i-CDC) esekela lo mkhuba futhi abanye benethemba lokuligebengu, ukukhetha kuvame ukusekelwe ezinkolelweni zabo. Umsebenzi wodokotela awukulimazi, ngakho-ke uma isiguli singakwazi ukunikeza imvume futhi inqubo akuyona imithi edingekayo, ingabe ukuziphatha okusemthethweni ukukwenza noma kunjalo?

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukunciphisa ithuba lokuthola umdlavuza, i-HIV, nezinye izifo ze-STD ngisho nangokwesikhashana kungaba nesizathu esanele sokuba abanye abazali bakhethe ukusika. Kwabanye, ngisho nengozi encane yokucindezeleka ngemuva kokuhlinzwa nokulimala kwengqondo kuphezulu kakhulu. Imikhuba yamasiko, amasiko, kanye namasiko kungase ibe yinto ebangela imindeni eminingi, njengoba izingozi nezinzuzo zingabonakala zilinganiselwe.

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Ukuze Snip noma Not To Snip

Ngenxa yokuthi lesi sinqumo sesikhathi esisodwa, kubalulekile ukucabangela ngokucophelela zonke izinhlangothi zempikiswano. Kubalulekile ukufundiswa ngezingozi ezingenzeka kanye nemiphumela yesinqumo. Yenza ucwaningo lwakho; musa nje ukuthembela kulokho okukhumbulayo kusuka ekilasini lezempilo noma ngeseluleko noma ukucindezelwa kontanga yakho. Ekupheleni kosuku, kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu owenzayo njengabazali kumntanakho, okuzobe esithwala nayo yonke impilo yakhe. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, yenza isinqumo esifanele wena njengomndeni.