Indaba Yabantwana Nge-Canast Metastatic
Omunye wemibandela eyinkimbinkimbi engiyinike yona kusukela kwabesifazane abasanda kutholakala bayaqhubeka, "Ngitshela kanjani izingane zami ezincane ukuthi nginomdlavuza webele?" Umbuzo onzima kunabo bonke uzoba njalo, "Ngitshela kanjani izingane zami ukuthi nginomdlavuza webele wesisu, umdlavuza ongasoze wahamba? Ngibenza kanjani baqonde, ngaphandle kokuyesaba kakhulu, ukuthi ukwelashwa kwami ngeke kuphele? "
Angiyena ochwepheshe, noma isisebenzi senhlalakahle; Ngingumfundisi ngokuqeqesha nokuhlangenwe nakho. Ngakho-ke ukusikisela kwami kokuqala lapho owesifazane engibuza ukuthi kufanele akhulume nengane yakhe mayelana nesifo sakhe se-metastatic, kufanele ancome ukuthi ukhulume kuqala nomtholampilo noma umeluleki, mhlawumbe omunye okuphakanyiswa yilungu leqembu lakhe lokunakekelwa kwe-oncology. Isiphakamiso sami sesibili uvame ukuncoma ukufunda incwadi noma ezimbili ngokukhuluma nengane yakho ngomdlavuza webele. Nakuba izincwadi zingekho esikhundleni sokufuna iseluleko sezochwepheshe, zinikeza ukuqonda ngalokho okusiza izingane ukuba zibhekane nomdlavuza womzali.
Kunezincwadi ezimbalwa, ezibhaliwe ngabasindile, ukuthi bakhulume lokho izingane ezingalindela njengoba umama edlula ukwelashwa komdlavuza wesigaba sokuqala, hhayi umdlavuza we-metastatic. Lezi zincwadi zibhekene nezinguquko ekubukeni komama, ukulahlekelwa amandla akhe, nezinye izinto ezizophazamisa izimpilo zezingane ngesikhathi sokwelashwa kwakhe okulinganiselwe, okusebenzayo.
Kunezincwadi ezibhekana nokuphela kokuphila. Kuze kube yamuva, angizange ngihlangabezane nanoma yiziphi izincwadi ezibhekana nezingane ezincane ezibhekana nomdlavuza womzali okwamanje uphathwa njengesifo esingapheli.
Encwadini yakhe ethi The Cancer That Would Not Go Away, Hadassa Field yaphumelela ukuhlanganisa ngendaba ngokuphathelene nesifo se-metastatic, kanye nesigaba esithi "kanjani" ekusebenziseni le ndaba ukuze uthole izingane ezincane zikhuluma ngokumesaba, intukuthelo yabo, imizwa yokudabuka lapho umzali enekhanda lomzimba.
Indaba iyinkohliso. Amakhasi amaningana ubude, futhi afaka imifanekiso ebucayi, ngu-Christina G. Smith. Imifanekiso yendlu kanye nomndeni yilabo abajwayele izingane eziningi ezincane. Besekela indaba.
Ukulandela indaba, isigaba, ebhalwe ngu-Rinat R.Green, Psy. D., i-Child, I-Adolescent ne-Family Trauma Specialist inikeza iziphakamiso zendlela yokusebenzisa le ndaba njengomzali, isazi, noma uthisha.
Indaba ikhuluma ngomfana omncane ogama lakhe linguMax, ubaba wakhe, nomama wakhe abanomdlavuza futhi, nokuthi bahlangabezana kanjani nomdlavuza we-metastatic njengomndeni. Le ndaba ayiboni uhlobo lomdlavuza womama wesifo somzimba, olugcina luhambisana nezilaleli ezibanzi zabafundi.
Ukugxila kwendzaba kungukuthi umuzwa kaMax uhlanganisa ukudideka, ukwesaba, intukuthelo nokudabuka. Ekupheleni kwendaba ufunda ukubhekana nokungaqiniseki kokuphila nesifo se-metastatic yomama wakhe.
I-Cancer Okungeke Yayihamba Ngumsebenzi wothando, uHadassa Field noSara Mosak Saiger ekukhumbuzeni udadewabo, u-Ahuva Rachel Prager, otholakala enomdlavuza we-metastatic eminyakeni engu-27 ubudala. U-Ahuva wayefuna ukuchaza isimo sakhe ezinganeni zakhe ezincane, kodwa akatholanga nanoma yiziphi izincwadi ezikhuluma ngomdlavuza we-metastatic.
I-Cancer Okungeke Yayihamba Yenza ngomzamo wokusiza izingane ezimbili ezincane ze-Ahuva ukuthi ziqonde ukuthi kwenzekani kumama wazo. U-Ahuva ushonele umdlavuza webele we-metastatic eminyakeni engu-32 ubudala.
Le ndaba yindlela ebucayi futhi ebonakalayo engokoqobo yalokho ingane encane ingase ihlangane uma umama wakhe enomdlavuza we-metastatic. Indaba iqinisekisa imizwa ingane inayo kule simo. Ukungazi ukuthi umzali uzoba kanjani kusukela osukwini olulodwa kuya kwesinye kunokungaqiniseki okuningi kwengane. Indaba igcizelela ukuhlala namuhla, ukujabulela izinsuku ezinhle nomama, futhi ukwazi ukuthi kuzoba nezinsuku azizwa azizwa kahle.
Ingxenye ethi "kanjani" yale ncwadi inikeza ulwazi oluwusizo kubazali ngokuthi bangakhuluma kanjani nengane encane ukuthi basebenzise kanjani indaba futhi baholele ekuxoxweni mayelana nomdlavuza webele we-metastatic. Kuphakamisa ukuthi abahlinzeki basebenzisa le ndaba njengethuluzi lokusebenza hhayi kuphela ngengane ngayinye emndenini, ngabanye, kodwa nasemasontweni omndeni. Abafundisi, abeluleki nabaqondisi bezikole zengqondo bangase bathole indaba ewusizo lapho besebenza nengane ehlala nomdlavuza we-metastatic yomzali.
I-Cancer Okungeke Yayiyeke iyatholakala ku-Amazon.