Amathiphu Wokuthola Ezinsukwini Zokuqala
Kungaba yinkimbinkimbi ukuzwa ukuthi ingane yakho itholakale ene-Down syndrome . Ngemuva kwezinyanga zokulinda umntwana onempilo, umhlaba wakho uphendulelwe yizindaba. Lezo zinsuku zokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa komntwana zingase zidideke kakhulu, zisabe futhi ziqine.
Abazali abasha bavame ukuzwa ulwazi noma bathole isiqondiso esincane kakhulu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sakho sini, kukhona izinto ongayenza ukuze sikusize ukubhekana nezindaba ukuthi ingane yakho ine- Down syndrome .
Ungayinaki Imizwelo Yakho
Ukuzalwa kwengane ene-Down syndrome kuvame ukuletha imizwa ephikisanayo. Uyakuthanda umntwana onakho, kodwa usalusizi ukulahlekelwa usana owawucabanga. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi imizwelo ephikisanayo ayikhanseli ngaphandle. Ungakwazi ukuzwa imizwa eminingana ngesikhathi esisodwa bese wenza konke kusebenze. Kungathatha izinsuku noma amasonto ukuze uphinde ulinganise ngokomzwelo wakho - lena inqubo engakwazi ukugijimela. Vele uthathe usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi.
Lokho kuthiwa, uma emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, usazizwa udabukile, ucindezelekile futhi ucindezelekile, qiniseka futhi utshele udokotela wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha. Ukuba nomntwana onesifo se-Down syndrome akukwenzeki lokhu, kepha kusekhona ukuthi kufanele kuhlolwe futhi kulashwe uma kunesidingo.
Zizinakekele
Ukubeletha kuwumzamo othakazelisayo ngokuvamile owenziwe lula ngokufika kwezingane ezithokozile enempilo. Kodwa-ke, ukwamukela izindaba ezibuhlungu ngemuva kokuzalwa kungakwandisa ukukhathala kwakho futhi wenze isikhathi sakho sokutakula isikhathi eside. Kubalulekile ukuzikhathalela ngokwenyama ngalesi sikhathi. Zama ukudla kahle futhi ulale ngokwanele ngangokunokwenzeka.
Uma othile ezithokozela ukusiza ingane noma ukupheka, akeke.
Thatha usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi
Ekuqaleni, kulula kakhulu ukuvumela ukukhathazeka ngekusasa lomntanakho kukucindezele. Ungase uzithole ukhathazeka ngokuthi uzoya kuphi esikoleni, uhlobo luni lomsebenzi ozoba nalo, nokuthi uzohlala kuphi lapho esekhulile. Kungokwemvelo ukuba nalezi zinto ezikhathazayo futhi zibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi le mibuzo ayidingi ukuphendula manje.
Ukubhekana nezindaba zesikhathi eside ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane kungase kube mkhulu futhi kudala umuzwa wokungabi namandla. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukubeka ukukhathazeka kwakho ngekusasa kude manje. Jabulela ingane yakho bese usichitha isikhathi ukumama. Ayikho into eyigugu kakhulu kunalawo maviki ambalwa emva kokuba ingane yakho izalwe, futhi izothuthuka ngokushesha. Zama ukuphumula futhi ujabulele umzuzwana.
Imithombo:
> Cunningham, C. Ukuqonda i-Down syndrome: Isingeniso sabazali (2 i-ed.). I-Cambridge, MA: i-Brookline. 1999.
> Ulahlekile-Gunderson, Karen. Izingane ezine-Down Syndrome: I-New Parents Guide of Woodbine House. 1995