Indlela Yokuqaphela Lapho Othandekayo wakho Ebulala
Inqubo yokufa ivame ukuqala kahle ngaphambi kokufa okwenzeka ngempela, futhi ukuqonda le nqubo ngezinye izikhathi kungakusiza ukuthi uqaphele lapho othandekayo wakho efa. Kukhona izinguquko ezenzeka ngokomzimba, ngokuziphatha, nangokwengqondo endleleni eya ekufeni, okukhombisa ukuthi ukuphela kokuphila kungenzeka kusondele.
Ukufa uhambo lomuntu siqu umuntu ngamunye owenza ngendlela yakhe eyingqayizivele.
Akukho lutho olukhonjiwe, futhi akukho lutho olusethwe etsheni. Kunezindlela eziningi ongayithatha kulolu hambo kodwa konke kuholela endaweni efanayo. Kwenzekani ohambweni lokufa, kusukela ekuqaleni kwezinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa, phakathi kwamasonto amabili edlule ngaphambi kokufa, naphakathi kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zokugcina zokuphila? Kulokhu okuqhubekayo, ungazi kanjani uma othandekayo wakho efa?
Inqubo yokuDela
Njengoba umuntu esondela ekufeni, inqubo efayo iqala; uhambo oluvela empilweni eyaziwayo yezwe kuze kube yilazi ukuthi yini ezayo. Njengoba le nqubo iqala, umuntu uqala endleleni yengqondo yokuthola, eqonda ukuthi ukufa kuyokwenzeka ngempela futhi bakholelwe ekufeni kwabo. Uhambo ekugcineni luholela ekuhambeni ngokomzimba emzimbeni.
Kukhona izinyathelo ezihamba phambili kulolu hambo. Ngoba wonke umuntu ubhekana nokufa ngendlela eyingqayizivele, akuwona wonke umuntu ozoyeka ngesikhathi ngasinye. Abanye bangabetha ezimbalwa kuphela ngenkathi omunye engase ayeke ngamunye, athathe isikhathi sakhe endleleni.
Abanye bangathatha izinyanga ukuze bafike lapho beya khona, abanye bazothatha izinsuku ezimbalwa kuphela. Sizoxoxa ngalokho okuye kwatholakala ngokucwaninga ukuthi kube luhambo oluthatha kakhulu, njalo sihlale sikhumbula ukuthi uhambo luhambisana nomuntu ngamunye.
Uhambo luqala: Kuye kuya kwezinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa
Inqubo yokufa iqala ukubonakala kubantu abaningi esikhathini esiphakathi kwenyanga nezinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa.
Njengoba sixoxa ngalezi zinguquko, singasebenzisa amagama athi "yena" noma "yena," kodwa inqubo ifana ngokufanayo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili. Kukhona umehluko .Abesifazane bangase baphinde baphinde babuye baphinde baphinde bazizwe ngokuzisola. kungase kube lula ukuhoxisa, hhayi ukufuna ukuthi kubonakale kungenakuzisiza noma okudingayo.
Izinguquko zokuziphatha nezengqondo: Njengoba umuntu eqala ukwamukela ukufa kwabo futhi aqaphela ukuthi ukufa kusondela , bangase baqale ukuhoxisa endaweni yabo. Baqala inqubo yokuhlukanisa emhlabeni nalabo abakhona. Othandekayo wakho angancipha ukuvakashelwa kwabangane, omakhelwane, ngisho namalungu omndeni. Uma esamukela izivakashi, kungase kube nzima ukusebenzisana nokuzinakekela . Lesi yisikhathi lapho umuntu eqala ukucabangela impilo yakhe futhi abuyele emuva izinkumbulo ezindala. Ekuhloleni impilo yakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlunga noma yikuphi ukuzisola. Angase futhi enze imisebenzi emihlanu yokufa .
Izinguquko Zomzimba: Umuntu oshonile angase abe nesifiso esinciphile nesisindo somzimba njengoba umzimba uqala ukunciphisa. Umzimba awudingi amandla kusuka ekudleni okwakwenziwe ngaphambili. Umuntu ofayo kungenzeka ukuthi ulele manje futhi angahlanganyeli emisebenzini abayithokozile. Abasadingi ukudla okunomsoco.
Umzimba wenza into emangalisayo ngalesi sikhathi njengoba isazi samakhemikhali esishintshile senza umqondo omuhle wokuthokoza. Abalambile noma abomile futhi abahlupheki nganoma iyiphi indlela ngokungadli. Ingxenye ekulindelekile yohambo abaye baqala.
Isonto elilodwa kuya kwamabili ngaphambi kokufa
Inqubo yokufa ivame ukusheshisa esikhathini sokugcina kuya emavikini amabili okuphila, futhi ingabesaba imindeni. Izinguquko zengqondo, ikakhulukazi, zingaphazamisa amalungu omndeni. Ngalesi sikhathi ohambweni, akusiluleka ukuba "ulungise" othandekayo wakho uma ekutshela okuthile okungenangqondo. Mlalele ngomusa, futhi umsekele emicabangweni yakhe.
Uma ethi ubona abathandekayo abafile, mane nje akeke akutshele. Asinayo indlela yokwazi ukuthi lezi ziyizindlovu, noma ngabe abathandekayo bethu babone into esingaboni. Mthande nje.
Izinguquko Zengqondo: Lesi yisikhathi phakathi nohambo lapho umuntu eqala ukulala isikhathi esiningi. Ukuphazanyiswa yizinzwa ezivamile futhi eziguquliwe zokubona kungalindelwa. Omunye angase athole izinkohliso, njengokumesaba izitha ezifihliwe noma ukuzizwa zingenakunqotshwa.
Umuntu oshonile angase ahlangane nama-hallucinations, ngezinye izikhathi abone noma akhulume nabantu abangekho. Izikhathi eziningi laba bantu sebefile kakade. Abanye bangase babone lokhu njengoba iveli liphakanyisiwe phakathi kwalokhu kuphila nokulandelayo. Umuntu angase akhethe emakhakheni azo kanye nezingubo zakhe esimweni sokukhathazeka. Ukunyakaza nezenzo kungase kubonakale kungenanjongo futhi kungabi nomqondo kwabanye. Bahamba phambili kude nokuphila kulo mhlaba.
Izinguquko zomzimba : Umzimba unenkinga enzima kakhulu ukuzigcina uqobo, futhi othandekayo wakho angadinga usizo nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi. Angenenkinga yokugwinya imithi noma angenqaba ukuthatha imithi ebekiwe. Uma esebenzisa amaphilisi ebuhlungu, angadinga i-morphine yamanzi ngalesi sikhathi. Kunezibonakaliso ukuthi umzimba ungabonisa ngalesi sikhathi:
- Ukushisa komzimba kunciphisa ngezinga noma ngaphezulu.
- Ukucindezelwa kwegazi kwehla.
- I-pulse iba engavamile futhi inganciphisa noma isheshe.
- Kukhona ukujula okukhulu.
- Umbala wesikhumba ushintsho njengoba ukujikeleza kuncipha. Lokhu kuvame ukubonakala nakakhulu ezindebeni nasemibhedeni yama-nail njengoba beba mhlophe futhi bluish.
- Izinguquko eziphuthumayo zenzeka, ngokuvamile ziba ngokushesha futhi zisebenza. Ukubamba kungase kwenzeke nokubamba umsindo nokukhwehlela.
- Ukukhuluma kunciphisa futhi ekugcineni kume ngokuphelele.
- Izikhathi zokuthula zingaphazanyiswa ukunyakaza okungazelelwe kwezandla noma imilenze yomuntu.
Ukuphela kohambo: I-Couple of Days to Hours ngaphambi kokufa
Izinsuku ezimbalwa zokugcina ngaphambi kokufa ngezinye izikhathi zingamangaza amalungu omndeni. Othandekayo wakho angase abe namandla amakhulu njengoba esondela ekufeni. Angase afune ukuphuma embhedeni, akhulume nabathandekayo, noma acele ukudla ngemva kwezinsuku ezingenaso isifiso sokudla. Abanye abathandekayo bathatha lokhu kwanda amandla ukuze kube isibonakaliso sokuthi umuntu uyathuthuka, futhi kungaba nobuhlungu kakhulu uma amandla eshiya. Yazi ukuthi lokhu kuvamile, futhi ngokuvamile kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi umuntu uhamba ngokuya ekufeni, kunokuba akude. Lokhu kuphakama kwamandla kungase kubonakale kungabonakali kancane kepha ngokuvamile kuvame ukusetshenziswa njengendlela yokugcina yomuntu oshonile ngaphambi kokuqhubeka.
Ukukhuphuka kwamandla kuvamise kufushane, futhi izimpawu zangaphambilini zivezwa ngokwengeziwe njengoba ukufa kusondela. Ukuphuza kuba okungajwayelekile futhi kuvame ukuhamba kancane. "Cheyne-Stokes" ukuphefumula, ukuphefumula okusheshayo okulandelwa yizikhathi zokuphefumula nhlobo, kungenzeka. Ukubamba ukuhamba emoyeni kungakhuphuka kubangele ukuphefumula okukhulu. Nakulokhu, lolu shintsho ekuphefumuleni lungakhathazeki kakhulu kwabathandekayo kodwa alubonakali lungathandeki umuntu ofa.
Izandla nezinyawo zingase zivele zihlume futhi zenzeke kahle. Lokhu kuhamba kancane kungase kusebenze kancane kancane izingalo nemilenze. Imilomo nemibhede yezipikili kukhona bluish noma i-purple futhi izindebe zingase zishaye. Umuntu ngokuvamile akaphenduli futhi angase avuleke amehlo noma avulekele kodwa angaboni indawo ezizungezile. Kukholelwa kakhulu ukuthi ukuzwa kuyindlela yokugcina yokuhamba ngakho kunconywa ukuthi abathandekayo bahlale nabo futhi baxoxe nomuntu othandekayo oshonile ngalesi sikhathi.
Ekugcineni, ukuphefumula kuzophela kanye nenhliziyo igweme. Ukufa kwenzekile.
Izwi Kusuka Ekuqeni Lapho Othandekayo wakho Ebulala
Abantu abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi bayobona yini uma othandekayo efa, futhi ngokuvamile kunezibonakaliso eziqala inyanga inyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa. Ukuqonda lezi zimpawu kungase kungakusizi nje ukulungiselela ukufa komuntu oyithandayo kodwa kungakududuza lapho ubhekene nalezi zinguquko ezingokwenyama nezingokwengqondo. Uma othandekayo wakho e-hospice, umhlengikazi wakho wokubeletha, isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle, noma abefundisi bangakusiza uqaphele futhi uqonde ezinye izinguquko, futhi sikusize ukuthi yini ezokusiza ukusekela othandekayo wakho oshonile ngangokunokwenzeka.
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