Ezinye izitayela zokubeletha zakha izinkinga eziningi kunokuba zixazulule!
Kunezindlela eziningi ezinhle zomzali ingane ene-autism . Futhi nezindlela ezimbalwa ezingekho kakhulu kakhulu. Uma unesidingo esikhethekile somntwana, akusihle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuhamba nje nalokho okuzwayo kwemvelo. Kungadingeka ukuthi uguqule isitayela sakho sokubeletha ukuze uhambisane nezinselele nezinkinga ezithile zezingane zakho. Konke okwakushiwo, yizihloko eziyisithupha ezijwayelekile zokubeletha okungcono kakhulu ukugwema lapho ukhulisa ingane ku-autism spectrum.
I-Helicopter Ukuzali
Abazali be-helicopter bahamba ngaphezu kwezingane zabo, bebukele futhi basabela kuzo zonke izinyathelo zabo. Baxhuma ukuze basize lapho inkinga ibonakala khona; bayangenelela ukuhambisa yonke indlela; bafuna ukwelashwa okukhethekile kubantwana babo. I-helicopter yokubeletha ingaphansi kokuhle kunoma yimuphi ingane, njengoba yenza ukuzimela nokuzikhethela kunzima kakhulu ukufeza. Abazali bezingane abane-autism bajwayele ukukhulisa izingane, ngoba bakhathazeka ngokuthi ingane yabo nge-autism izoba nezinkinga abakwazi ukuyixazulula-futhi, nakanjani, kungenzeka ngokuphelele. Kodwa uma i-helicopter yokukhulisa izingane iphoqa ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezivamile, cabanga ukuthi lenzani izingane ezine-autism. Ayikwazi ukufunda ngokubheka kanye nesibonelo, izingane ezine-autism kumele zifunde ngemfundo eqondile - nangokwenza. Uma ungenelela ukwenza umsebenzi wabo, uyaphika ingane yakho ithuba lokuqonda okudingekayo, noma ukubhekana nenselelo yokuzama, ukujabulisa okuphumelelayo, noma ukufunda okuhilelekile ekuhlulekeni.
Ukubeletha Kokuncintisana
Noma yimuphi umama oye waba yingxenye yeqembu likaMama noMe uyazi konke ngokukhulisa izingane ngokuncintisana. Ubani obengumntwana oqeqeshiwe kuqala? Washo igama lokuqala? Ingabe uthatha amakilasi amaningi, ukufunda ukudansa noma ukucula, ukudlala i-peewee ibhola, noma ukufunda isiShayina? Uma unengane ene-autism, kungaba nzima ukugwema ukuzwa ukuthi ingane yakho ishiywa ngemuva.
Uma uthengela ekukhuliseni ukubeletha, ngokuqinisekile uzokuthuthukisa umqondo wokuthi ingane yakho ayifinyeleleki - nokuthi wena, njengomzali, cishe uyasola. Njengoba ungacabanga, umphumela umuzwa wokuthi wena nomntanakho awukho kahle. Umthelela wemizwa enjalo kwengane ene-autism ingase ingabonakali, kodwa ingokoqobo.
Ukubeletha kwe-Hands-Off
Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuthi ingane yabo kufanele ivumeleke ukuba ilandele izintshisekelo zakhe nezithakazelo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwabazali. Lokho kusebenza kahle kubantwana abathile abajwayele ukuziqondisa, abazethemba, futhi befuna ukuxhumana nabanye. Nokho, akuyona into enhle kakhulu yokubeletha ingane ene-autism. Ngenkathi zonke izingane zidinga futhi zifanelwe "phansi" isikhathi, izingane ezine-autism zidinga ngempela ukuzibandakanya kwabazali. Kungenxa yokuthi, ezimweni eziningi, izingane ezine-autism zidinga usizo lwakho ukuze zifunde ukuzenza , ukuzihlanganisa, ukuxoxisana, ukubuza imibuzo, nokuphenya umhlaba. Ngaphandle komunye umuntu ozobasiza ukuba bakhe lawa makghono aqakathekileko, abantwana abane-autism bangatjhejwa khulu begodu bazigcizelele bona - begodu abanamandla khulu begodu bafuna ukuhlanganyela ephasini elibanzi.
I-Perfectionist (Tiger) Ukuzali
Yebo, ezinye izingane ziphumelela nabazali abaphikelela ngokuphelele ku-A, ukuhlelwa kwezemidlalo, ukuhlelwa kohlelo oluphelele, nokuhleleka kwethebula.
Lezo zingane cishe akunakwenzeka ukuba yi-autistic. Okuyiqiniso ukuthi izingane ezine-autism, kuyilapho zingase zibe namandla amaningi, cishe zizoba nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu nokulindeleke okujwayelekile kwezingane. Amakhono abo okukhuluma angase ahlehliswe, okwenza amamaki aphakeme kanye nolimi oluphelele cishe akunakwenzeka ukufeza. Bangase babe nobunzima bokubambisana ngokomzimba, okwenzela umdlalo wezemidlalo ikakhulukazi unzima. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuba nethemba eliphakeme - kodwa wenze lokho okulindelekile kakhulu, futhi wena nomntanakho nisezinye izinyembezi nokukhungatheka.
Ukukhulisa Abazali
Njengomzali wengane enezidingo ezikhethekile, ungase uzizwe ukuthi ingane yakho ifanele ikhefu - 100% yesikhathi.
Ungalindela kanjani ingane ene-autism ukusetha itafula? wenza umbhede wakhe? ufunde ukuzinza? Yeka ukushaya udadewabo? I-Autism yenza izinto zibe nzima nakakhulu, kodwa cishe zonke izimo izingane ezine-autism zingenza okuningi - uma zibuzwa futhi zikhuthazwa ukuba zenze kanjalo. Uma ubeka ibha phansi, noma unikeze ingane yakho nge-autism isiyalo esincane, empeleni yenza kube nzima ngabo ukuba baqonde noma baphile ngokuvumelana nokulindela okuphakeme. Ukuqonda izinselele zomntanakho kuyinto eyodwa; Ukucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ayikwazi kahle into ehluke kakhulu.
Ukubeletha kwe-Frenetic
Njengoba evuka namhlanje ekuseni, ingane yakho yokufundela nge-autism iye yaba namahora amahlanu wokuphatha ngendlela yokuziphatha , ihora ngenye indlela yokukhuluma kanye nokwelashwa ngokomzimba, amahora amabili okuphathwa komzali okuqondiswa ngabazali, namahora amane esikoleni. Uma nje ewela ebuthongweni obukhathele, uyagxuma kwi-intanethi ukuthola esinye isigaba sokuphatha, uhlelo, umsebenzi noma insiza yokwengeza esimisweni. Njengoba kuningi okwenzekayo, ingane yakho ene-autism ayinaso ithuba lokusebenzisa lokho akufundile, ukuhlangabezana ngempela nokwazi enye ingane, noma ukwenza nje lokho abantwana abakwenzayo: ukudlala! Esikhundleni sokufuna ukuzulazula nokuzibandakanya emitholampilo nasemisebenzini, cabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi amahora ambalwa ngelanga lokuzilalisa, lokungabonakali isikhathi somzali nengane kungaba yinto nje ingane yakho okumele ikhule futhi ikhule ngayo.