Ingabe othandekayo onesifo sokuwohloka komqondo esibhekene ne-scammed?
Ingabe lokhu kuzwakale kujwayelene? Ubaba uthola izicelo eziningi ngosuku ngeminikelo, kanye "nezinhlinzeko ezikhethekile" ukuthenga isivumelwano sekhulu. Ngesikhathi usuphelile ukuvakashelwa, uyaqaphela ukuthi ifoni ikhala futhi othile uyamcela ukuba asize izingane ezine nomdlavuza. Imeyili yakhe iqukethe izikhalazo zokusiza labo abalambile ngokunikela ngemali, futhi izaziso ukuthi zanqoba ama-sweepstakes futhi kufanele ikhokhe imali encane yokumboza izintela.
Ubukela ithelevishini bese ephendukela enkundleni yokuthengwa kwekhaya noma alalela i-televangelist, bobabili bamqinisekisa ukuthi ukuthengwa kwekhati elimangalisayo kuyisinqumo esihlakaniphile, noma ukuthi umnikelo wakhe uzosetshenziswa ngokuphelele ukwenza umehluko.
Uyaphuma ukuze usize uhlanze indlu yakhe futhi uqale ukuqaphela ukuthi, ekudidekeni kwakhe, ubaba ubelokhu ehlinzeka imali noma esebenzisa imali ngobuwula. Uyabona izikweletu ezingakhokhelwa, uxutshwe nabanikeli abaningana kanye namarisidi okuthenga etafuleni. Ubuye ubone i-pack of amaphakheji ekhoneni futhi uma uya khona ukubheka, ubona ukuthi ulayine amahembe amancane afanayo.
Ukuqaphela:
Ufika esiphethweni sokuthi ubaba wakho, oye wathola ukuthi une- Alzheimer futhi usezigaba zokuqala, unika ngokukhululekile amakhulu noma ngisho nezinkulungwane zamaRandi. Ubuntu bakhe obuvamile bulokhu buba khona ngokweqile ngemali yakhe, kodwa manje ubonakala ehamba ngemali njengamanzi.
Izinsiza ezihlobene:
Yini Manje?
Ngakho, ungenzani ngalokhu? Nazi izinketho ezimbalwa:
Khuluma naye.
Ngitshele ukuthi yisiphi isibonelo esihle ayelokhu ekhona nokuthi usebentise kanjani imali yakhe ngokuhlakanipha (kodwa kuphela uma kuyiqiniso). Mbuze ukuthi udinga usizo ngokuhlela nokukhokha izikweletu.
Chaza ukukhathazeka kwakho futhi umbonise ibhalansi yakhe yasebhange.
Buza omunye ukuthi akhulume naye.
Buza ilungu lomndeni ukuthi lihlonipha kakhulu ukukhuluma naye. Buza umfundisi, umpristi, elinye ilunga lomfundisi noma ummeli ukuba akhulume naye.
Uyazi ukuthi kungaba kanjani. Ngezinye izikhathi, kunelungu elilodwa lomndeni elingakwazi ukuhamba nokusho izinto abanye abangakwazi, ngandlela-thile ngaphandle kokucasula ubaba wakho. Mcele ukuba amvakashele futhi akhulume naye ngokukhathazeka kwakhe.
Xhumana namaqembu abacela imali.
Qaphela izinhlangano nabantu abathile abacela kuye imali bese bexhumana nabo ukuze bamsuse ohlwini lwabo lokuposa. Lokhu kungase kuphumelele okokuqala uma ucela; Ngeshwa, abantu abaningi namaqembu aphikelela futhi ungadinga ukuphinda lesi siqondiso kubo.
Bhalisa kwi-Registry Do Do Call.
Qinisekisa ukuthi inombolo yakhe yocingo ibhalwe ohlwini lokubhalisa okungafaki. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokubiza u-1 (888) -382-1222. Ngefoni, shayela u-1 (866) -290-4236. Qinisekisa ukuthi ushayele kusuka kwinombolo ofuna ukuyivikela.
Siza ngezindleko.
Siza ubaba wakho ngokubeka izinkokhelo ezizenzakalelayo zezikweletu ezifanele njalo.
Sebenza ndawonye ukuze uthole ukuthi yiziphi izinhlangano angathanda ukuzisekela.
Buza uyihlo ukuthi yiziphi amaqembu athile angathanda ukunikela ngawo ngemali, futhi abone ukuthi uzoba yini ukuzimisela ukusebenza ndawonye ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokukwenza lokho.
Yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi angeke azimisele ukuxoxa ngalokhu, kodwa uma kunjalo, ungamqinisekisa ukuthi uzothumela ngokuzenzekelayo umnikelo kubo ngokuhlela lokhu ku-intanethi.
Hlunga i-imeyili yakhe.
Nikela ukusiza ubaba wakho ngokukhetha nge-imeyili yakhe ukuze umvikele ekuhlaselweni.
Misa ibhokisi leposi lokuposa ngeposi lakhe.
Abanye abantu baye bahlela ibhokisi leposi lokuthumela i-imeyili yelungu labo lomndeni ukuze bakwazi ukuqeda ukucela.
Cabanga ngokushintsha inombolo yakhe yefoni.
Lokhu akulungile, kodwa kungadingeka uma ifoni kuyindlela eyinhloko uyihlo okhishwa ngayo ngemali yakhe.
Nciphisa ukufinyelela kumakhadi esikweletu futhi hlola izincwadi.
Amanye amalungu omndeni anciphise ukufinyelela komuntu othandekayo kumakhadi akhe okukhokhisa noma ukuhlola. Ungaxoxa ngalokhu naye futhi uhlele ukumnikeza imali njalo.
Yibani amandla akhe okuhlala ummeli.
Mbuze ukuthi uzovuma yini ukuba usebenze njengamandla akhe okuhlala ummeli wezemali. Ungamqinisekisa ukuthi angabeka ilungiselelo ngendlela evimbelayo. Isibonelo, angakuchaza wena nomntakakho bobabili njengamandla ommeli. Noma, angabandakanya umuntu wesithathu othembekile kuleso sinqumo.
Ukuqokwa kwamandla okugcina ommeli wezemali kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ukuze ulungele izinguquko ezingalindelekile. Okungcono, lesi sinqumo senziwa ngaphambi kokuqala komqondo wobuchopho , kodwa abanye abantu abazi, noma bayamelana nalo mqondo.
Izinsiza ezihlobene:
- Izindaba Zezomthetho Nezezimali e-Alzheimer's: Ukuhlela Ikusasa
Kuthiwani uma kungekho lutho olusebenzayo?
Mhlawumbe uzame eziningi zalezi zindlela kungekho miphumela. Ubaba wakho uyaqhubeka nokuphika ukuthi kunenkinga, nokho uyaqhubeka ehlaselwa yizihlambalazi nabaculi be-con.
Kungase kudingeke uthintane nommeli omdala wezomthetho kuleli phuzu ukuze ubone ukuthi ungabasiza kanjani ubaba wakho kangcono. Bangakuneluleka ezindabeni ezifana nokuthi ubaba wakho angenqunywa enkantolo ukuba angakwazi ukwenza izinqumo, futhi mhlawumbe akusize ngokuthola indima yomgcini noma umgcini-mgcini.
Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwezezimali
Ekugcineni, inothi mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa komdala . Ukusebenzisa omunye umuntu ngokusebenzisa kabi imali noma impahla yakhe kubhekwa ukuhlukumeza ngokwezimali. Kungase kudingeke uthintane nenhlangano yendawo yokuvikela yabadala kanye namaphoyisa uma kukhona umuntu owenza lobu bugebengu ngokumelene nomthandekayo wakho.
> Imithombo:
> Berkley Parents Network. Abazali asebekhulile nezikhwama & Abaculi beCon.
> Caring.com. Sivimba Kanjani Umkhulu Wami Ekuqotheni?
> Ihhovisi lezokuThengiswa kwezeMali zabathengi Izinsiza Ezingeziwe Kubantu baseMelika Abadala Nabo Imindeni Yabo.
> FBI.gov. Izinhlelo Zokukhohlisa Ezivamile.
> Kiplinger. Ukuphatha Imali Yabazali Bakho. Mashi 2011.
> Umeluleki womdala weMarquette. 2008. Ukungaxhunywanga: Ukuxhaphazwa Kwezezimali Kubantu Abagugile abane-Dementia.