Sibutsetelo
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabadala kunoma yisiphi isenzo noma ukungenzi lutho okubangela, noma okusemandleni okubangela, ukulimaza umuntu omdala osekhulile. Ngokwezikhungo zokulawulwa nokuvimbela izifo, umuntu omdala omdala uchazwa njengomuntu oneminyaka engama-60.
Ukuhlukunyezwa komdala (futhi ngezinye izikhathi okubizwa ngokuthi ukuxhaphazwa ) kuhilela isenzo ngokuzithandela- isibonelo, ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuthatha imali kumakhelwane osengozini.
Okunye ukuhlukumezeka kungathatha uhlobo lokungahambi, njengokunqabela ngenhloso ukudla noma ukwelashwa.
Ngeshwa, ukuhlukunyezwa komdala kungase kube nokuphendula okuzenzakalelayo. Isibonelo, izici ezifana nokukhathazeka komnakekeli kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa lapho umnakekeli elahlekelwa isineke futhi ehlaselwa kunina. (Lesi esinye sezizathu eziningi ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele izibonakaliso zokukhathazeka komnakekeli .)
Nakuba ukukhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa komdala kungakhululekile, kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba kungaba nomthelela omkhulu ekuphepheni nasezingeni eliphezulu lokuphila kubantu abadala. Ukufunda kabanzi mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa komdala kungakwandisa ukuqonda kwakho ngezinhlobo ezahlukene, kukusize ukwazi ukubona izimpawu zayo, futhi uqonde izinyathelo ongazithatha ukuze unciphise ingozi.
Izinhlobo
Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlukunyezwa ezingathinta abadala asebekhulile. Ukuhlukumeza abadala kuhlanganisa okulandelayo:
Umzimba : Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba kuhlanganisa ukushaya, ukukhahlela, ukuxosha, ukushaya, ukulimaza nokunye ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba. Udlame lwasekhaya luhlobo lokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba lapho kunomthelela wobudlova oshade naye noma umlingani wasekhaya osetshenziselwa ukulawula umuntu.
Ukukhuluma, ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo noma kwengqondo: Ukuhlukumeza ngokwezwi, ngokomzwelo noma kwengqondo kuhlanganisa ukusebenzisa ukwesatshiswa, ukuhlazeka noma ukusongela ukulawula omunye umuntu, nokukhala, ukubiza amagama nokuhlambalaza.
Ubulili : Ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi kunezici eziningi zokuziphatha okubandakanya ukuphawula okungafaneleki ngokocansi nokuxhumana okungavumelani ngokocansi kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Ngabantu abane-dementia, lolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza lungaba yinkinga ngenxa yobunzima bokunquma ukuthi umuntu odidekile angase abekwe yini njengomuntu omdala ovuma .
Imali noma impahla : Lolu hlobo lokuhlukunyezwa nalo ngezinye izikhathi lubizwa ngokuthi "ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezinto" futhi kuhilela ukuthatha noma ukusebenzisa kabi imali yomuntu noma izinto zakhe ngaphandle kwemvume yomuntu. Kungabandakanya nokuphoqeleka komuntu ukuze avume ukunikeza umuntu imali kepha kuphela ngoba ubeke ngaphansi kwengcindezi yokwenza kanjalo ngumuntu.
Izinselelo zezezimali nazo zingavela uma umzali evame ukunikeza imali kubantu abangathembeki , njengokungathi uhlaselwa ucingo.Ukuhlukaniswa okungekho emthethweni: Lolu hlobo lokuhlukumezeka luhilela ukuvimbela inkululeko yomuntu ukuba ihlanganyele nabanye isikhathi eside ngokumelene nentando yakhe.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lokhu kungasetshenziswa ngokwelapha, bese kungabhekwa njengokuhlukunyezwa. Isibonelo, uma umuntu ephikisana kakhulu (okungukuthi, ukushaya noma ukukhahlela) ngenkathi uzama ukumnakekela, angase azuze emaminithini ambalwa kuphela ekamelweni lakhe ukuzola, nokuvimbela abanye kusuka ukulimala.Ukunganakwa: Ukunganaki umuntu kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa. Ukunganakwa kungenziwa ngenhloso noma kungenhloso. Uma umuntu edinga ukunakekelwa ngesimo sezokwelapha futhi umnakekeli wakhe akabheki nesidingo, ukunganaki kungaba khona. Isibonelo, emakhaya asebekhulile, uma umhlengikazi ekhohlwa ukunikeza imithi yakhe yokuhlala futhi kukhona uhlobo olulimazayo oluholela, lowo mhlengikazi angabikwa ngokunganaki ngisho noma engenaso injongo yokulimaza umuntu ohlala khona. Ukunganaki kungabuye kube ngamabomu, njengokugodla ngamabomu ukudla noma ukwelashwa okudingekayo.
Ukuzidela: Ukuzidela kungukuthi umuntu akazinaki ngokwanele. Kungenzeka bangadli ukudla okwanele noma amanzi, imithi, inhlanzeko noma indawo ephephile yokuhlala. Uma umuntu engasakwazi ukugeza , akasadli ukudla okwanele ngoba uyazikhohlwa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokudla, futhi akakwazi ukuthatha imithi yakhe, icala lakhe lingabikwa eMnyangweni Wezinkonzo Zokuvikela endaweni yakho ukuze uphenye ngokunganaki ngoba angeke akwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuzilahla akukhona lapho umuntu okwazi ukucabanga ngokucacile enza isinqumo ongavumelani naye, njengokukhetha ukuhlala ekhaya lakhe noma ngabe ulwa nokuhamba nokuzinakekela yena ngokuzimela. Uma lo muntu engakwazi ukubona nokuqonda izingozi nezinzuzo zokukhetha kwabo, kungenzeka ukuthi banelungelo lokwenza isinqumo ongase uzizwe ungenangqondo nokuthi ubabeka engozini ethile.
Ukulahlwa : Ezinye izinhlangano zengeza isigaba esengeziwe sokulahlwa. Ukulahlwa uhlobo lokunganaki lapho umnakekeli elahlela (elahlela) omdala omdala ukuthi ngubani umnakekeli. Ngokudabukisayo, bangashiya umdala esitolo noma indawo, okufana namacala lapho izingane zishiywe.
Amaqiniso nezibalo
- Idatha yakamuva ibonisa ukuthi cishe amaphesenti angu-10 abantu abadala abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-60 baye babhekana nohlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa komdala, okubangelwa amacala ayizigidi ezingu-5 zokuhlukumeza ngonyaka.
- Ngokusho kweKomidi likaZwelonke lokuLawulwa kwabasebenzi abadala, amaphesenti angama-84 okuhlukunyezwa awabikwa eziphathimandla.
- Ukuhlukumeza kudla amashumi ezinkulungwane zezigidi zamadola ngonyaka ngenxa yeholo elilahlekile, ukunakekelwa kwezempilo, izinsizakalo zomphakathi nezindleko zomthetho.
- Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sokuhlukunyezwa Kwabadala sikhombisa ukuthi cishe amaphesenti angama-86 okuhlukumeza abenzi bokuhlukunyezwa ahlobene nomuntu ohlukunyeziwe, futhi ngokuvamile kaningi umlingani noma ingane esemdala.
- Ngesikhathi ukuhlukunyezwa kungenziwa ngumakhaya onesihlengikazi nabasebenzi abasizayo, abacwaningi bathole ukuthi iningi labantu abasebenzisa ukuhlukumeza abadala lenziwa ngabanye (ngokuvamile amalungu omndeni) awaziwa futhi athembekile ngabantu abadala, njengabaqashi nabantwana abadala. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabenzi bokuhlukumeza kubandakanya amadoda nabesifazane.
- Isifo se-Alzheimer kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokudemeka komzimba kubeka umuntu engozini enkulu yokuhlukunyezwa ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwememori , isinqumo esibi , ukungakwazi ukuzimela nokumesaba ukuphazamiseka. Abantu abane-dementia bangasendaweni esengozini yokudinga usizo futhi bangathembela kalula umuntu akufanele. Ukuxhumana kwabo kwezenhlalakahle kuvame ukulinganiselwe, okwandisa amathuba okuhlukunyezwa okwenzekayo.Khona kungase kuhloswe ngoba umenzi wobugebengu angase abe nomuzwa wokuthi ngeke akhumbule ukuhlukunyezwa, akwazi ukukuveza ngokucacile komunye umuntu noma akholelwe uma etshela othile ngenxa yokudideka kwabo.
Izingozi Zezingozi
- Ukuhlukaniswa komphakathi
- Ukukhubazeka kwempilo nokusebenza
- Ukuba owesifazane
- Imali engaphansi
- Akekho oshade naye
- Umncintiswano waseMelika
Izimpawu Nezibonakaliso
- Ukulimaza okuvamile : Ukuqhathaniswa kwezibhamu ezingalweni kungabonisa ukukhwabanisa komuntu, isibonelo. Qaphela ukuthi isikhumba somuntu osekhulile kaningi siphelele kakhulu futhi silimaza kalula, ngakho ukulimaza akusho ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kuhlale kukhona. Imithi ethile efana ne-blood thinners noma i-steroids ingabangela umuntu ukuba aphule kalula.
- Ukulimala okungahlongozwayo : Umuntu akakwazi noma angeke achaze okwenzekile, noma amalungu omndeni anemininingwane ehlukile engabonakali ifanelekile.
- Ubuhlungu noma ukuphuma kwegazi : Uma kungekho ncazelo yezinhlungu zangasese noma zangasese noma ukuphuma kwegazi, kufanele kuphenywe.
- Ubuhlungu lapho uhlezi phansi : Umuntu ubonisa ubuhlungu obungavamile noma obusha lapho ehlezi phansi.
- Umnakekeli ovame ukuveza intukuthelo: Uma umnakekeli evame ukuveza intukuthelo yakhe nomdala omdala, lokhu kuyinkinga kusukela ukukhungatheka kwakhe kungaqondiswa kumuntu omnakekelayo.
- Izikweletu ezingakhokhelwa : Umuntu uqala ukuthola izaziso zokuqhathaniswa izikweletu noma ukuhlolwa kubhekwe ngoba kukhona imali enganele.
- Umngane omusha oseduze : Omunye angase angene nomuntu omdala futhi aqale ukucela izipho noma ukunikela ngokusiza ngebhange lakhe.
- Imibuzo engalungile evela kumnakekeli: Uma isibonelo, umsizi wangaphakathi-ekhaya uqala ukubuza imibuzo emayelana nemali yomuntu, lokhu kungabonisa ifulegi elibomvu.
- Ukungabi nokudla noma imithi : Lo muntu uswele ukudla okwanele futhi akaphuzi imithi yakhe njalo.
- Ukuntula ukwelashwa okufanele: Uma umuntu omdala omdala enezilonda zesifo somzimba (ukulala) okungaphathwa, lokhu kungaba uphawu lokunganaki.
- Amandla amasha ommeli wommeli : Umuntu uye wazishintsha ngokuzenzekelayo amandla azo ezezimali zommeli futhi ubuza amandla akhe okuqonda le dokhumenti.
- Ukuzihlukanisa : Umnakekeli angahlukanisa umuntu omdala ukuze afihle izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa noma ukuyilawula.
- Ukuhoxiswa : Umuntu omdala angase ahoxise ngokomzwelo futhi avele ecindezelekile, noma ahoxise emzimbeni ekuphenduleni ukuthinta noma ukusondela komunye umuntu.
- Ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo : Umuntu angase aqale ukukhala noma avele ekhathazekile noma ekhathazekile.
- Ukuqinisekiswa : Isisulu esidala singakhetha ukutshela kuwe mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokuhlukunyezwa. Thatha ngokungathí sina bese ubika kumnyango wakho wendawo yokuvikela omdala wendawo. Ungathola lolu lwazi lokuxhumana ngokubheka ama-ejensi wakho ohulumeni basekhaya futhi ufune amasevisi omkhuhlane omdala.
Ukuvimbela
- Buza imibuzo
- Qaphela
- Qinisekisa ukuhlolwa kwezimali kanye nezilinganiso
- Bheka izinkomba zabasizi basekhaya
- Cabanga ngokuqapha i-checkbook
- Zibandakanye empilweni yomthandi wakho
- Qonda lo mndeni, ngeshwa, ungaba umhlukumezi
- Vimbela umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa ngokweqile nokushisa
- Yazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokuziphatha okuyinselele ku-Alzheimer's nezinye dementia
Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Usola Ukuhlukunyezwa
Uma umuntu omdala ehlala ekhaya lakhe, kufanele uxhumane nomnyango wendawo yokuvikela omdala wendawo. Ungaxhumana nabasebenzi bezenhlalakahle, abasebenzi bezokwelapha noma umnyango wamaphoyisa wendawo.
Uma umuntu omdala ehlala esikhungweni esinjengekhaya labahlengikazi noma ehlala ekusizeni, kufanele ubike ukukhathazeka kwakho kumqondisi waleso sikhungo. Ungaphinda ubike ukuhlukunyezwa okusolakala ku-ejensi yakho yombuso eqondisa amakhaya asebehlengikazi.
> Imithombo:
> Isikhungo sokunakekela. I-Alzheimer's Association. http://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-elder-abuse.asp
> Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabadala: Izincazelo. Ngo-Ephreli 4, 2016. http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/elderabuse/definitions.html
> Izibalo zokuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala kanye namaqiniso | umlunga wobulungisa. (2015, Meyi 17). Omdala ubulungiswa. https://www.ncoa.org/public-policy-action/elder-justice/elder-abuse-facts/
> Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sokuhlukumeza Abadala. Bangobani abahlukumezi? https://ncea.acl.gov/whatwedo/research/statistics.html
> Ikomidi leNational for the Prevention of Elder Abuse. http://preventelderabuse.org/