Yiziphi Izidingo Okudingeka Zishintshe
Ingabe ukucabangela ukuhlolwa kwakho kwonyaka wezinyanga zokubeletha kukukwenza ukuba uhlasele? Awusodwa. Ngenkathi abesifazane abaningi bengenaso ikhono lokuvakashela umjozi wezifo, abanye besifazane bavame ukwesaba nokukhathazeka becabanga nje ngalolo hambo lonyaka.
Ngokusho kukaMarifran Mattson, uprofesa wokuxhumana ohlangene e-Purdue University ohlola ukuxhumana kwezempilo, "Abesifazane abaningi banenkinga enkulu ngokuhlolwa kwabo kweminyaka yonke.
Ukukhathazeka kuvimbela abesifazane ukuba bathole ukunakekelwa okungcono, futhi abesifazane abaningi abafuna ukunakekelwa njalo abajabuli ukuvakashelwa kwabo. "
UMattson ukhombisa ukuthi imfundo yesiguli iyisihluthulelo ekunciphiseni ukukhathazeka, njengoba kuzosiza abesifazane ukuba bazizwe bengasengozini kakhulu, futhi kubakhuthaze ukuba "baqiniseke ngokwengeziwe ekufuneni ukuthi abantu babo bahlonishwe futhi okufakwayo kubhekwe."
Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngo-2003 olwenziwa nguMattson noMaria Braun, uprofesa ohlanganyelwe wezifundo zokukhulumisana eWest Virginia University, wabonisa ukuthi amaphesenti aphezulu kwabesifazane abaneminyaka ephakathi kuka-18 no-71 ayesaba ngokukhathazeka abakuthola kubabelethi babo. Baphinde babonisa ukungajabuli ngendlela ababelethi babo ababhekana ngayo nokukhathazeka kwabo.
Imithombo Yokwesaba Kwabesifazane
Cishe izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zabesifazane abacwaningisiwe babonisa ukukhathazeka okuthile mayelana nobulili besifo sabo sezinkinga zokubeletha. Ezinye izizathu zokwesaba ezinikezwa abesifazane abahlolisisiwe zihlanganisa:
- imizwa engakhululekile
- amahloni
- uzizwa ukungena komuntu siqu
- ukwesaba ukuthola inkinga efana nomdlavuza
Abesifazane, ikakhulukazi, abazange bakhulume imizwa yabo ku-gynecologist yabo, ezimweni eziningi ngenxa yokuthi babe nomuzwa wokuthi odokotela "babengaziqapheli futhi bahlonipha." Abesifazane ababa nemizwa yabo bathi ababelethi babo bavame ukuhleka noma babatshele ukuthi baphumule.
Abesifazane batjengisa bona bafuna ukukhulumisana kangcono nodokotela babo, kodwana bavame ukuzizwa bengakhululekile ukukhuluma ngokukhathazeka kwabo.
Braun uthi: "Odokotela kudingeka babone abesifazane njengabantu ababhekana nokukhathazeka okungokoqobo, hhayi izifo kuphela. Futhi iziguli kudingeka ziqale, noma ziqhubeke, ziqinisile lapho zibhekene nokukhathazeka okunjalo nababelethi babo." Usikisela ukuthi basebenzela ekuboneni amehlo futhi bagweme ukuzithoba. Uphakamisa nokuthi iziguli zidinga isikhathi esengeziwe nodokotela wazo ukuze babelane ngokukhathazeka kwabo futhi babuze imibuzo mayelana nempilo yabo ebakhathazayo.
Ingabe Isikhathi Sokuthola I-Gynecologist Entsha?
Yini ongayenza uma i-gynecologist yakho ingabelani ngokukhathazeka kwakho, noma uma ungakwazi ukuveza ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwakho kanye nabo? Okokuqala, unqume ukuthi uzozizwa ukhululekile yini nodokotela wesilisa noma wesifazane. Bese ubuza umndeni nabangane ngezincomo. Ukudluliswa komuntu siqu kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuthola udokotela ozimisele ukuba nomzila ovulekile wokuxhumana nawe.
Uma ukuthola i-gynecologist ngokusebenzisa ukuthunyelwa komuntu siqu akunakwenzeka, shayela amahhovisi amaningana okubeletha endaweni yakho bese ukhuluma nabasebenzi. Buza ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukukhuluma nomhlengikazi kadokotela ngesitayela sokuxhumana nodokotela kanye nefilosofi yesiguli.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi awuphoqelekile ukuba uqhubeke nokubona umjoqo wesifo somzimba othile uma ungakhululekile. Ungesabi ukufuna omunye udokotela noma ukubuza imibono yesibili uma ungakhululekile ngokuhlola kwakho kwegazi lomzimba wakho. Induduzo yakho yinto ongeke ukwazi ukuziphika!
Umthombo:
UBuzanell, uPatrice M., uHelen M. Sterk noLynn H. Turner. Ubulili Kuxhumano Lokuxhumana Olusebenzayo. "Ukuqeda Ukuxhumana Ngesikhathi Izivivinyo ZamaGynecological." Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications, 2004.