Iholide likaDeveli yonyaka lingaba yinselela kunoma ubani olila ukulahlekelwa ngumzali wakhe, ngisho neminyaka eminingi emva kokufa kwakhe. Nazi izindlela eziyi-10 ezinamandla ongahlonipha ubaba wakho oshonile futhi ugcine inkumbulo yakhe isaphila ngoSuku lukaBaba noma ezinye izinsuku ezingu-364 ngonyaka.
Yenza Into Ehlangene Ngokuhlonipha Ubaba
Yini wena noyihlo oyithandayo ukwenza ndawonye?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphekwe ku-grill, udlale i-baseball, uye e-opera, noma ubukele umbukiso we-TV ozithandayo, ungahlonipha uyihlo ngokwenza lokho kanye nabanye abamthandayo. Ngaphambi kokuqala umsebenzi, thatha isikhashana ukwabelana ngezinkumbulo zakho, izithombe, amavidiyo, noma izindaba zikababa.
Bhala Ku, Noma Mayelana, Uyihlo
Ukubhala noma ukusakaza imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokunciphisa ukucindezeleka futhi kuvame ukubonisa ukwelapha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uziveza kahle kakhulu ukuhlala ekhompyutheni yakho noma usebenzisa iphepha nepeni, cabanga ukubhala incwadi eyimfihlo noma inkondlo echaza ukuthi ubaba wakho ukhuluma kangakanani kuwe.
Vakashela Indawo Yokugcina Yokugcina kaBaba Wakho
Hlonipha ubaba wakho oshonile lolo suku lukaBaba ngokuthi uvakashele emathuneni akhe noma indawo lapho kuhlala khona ("umlotha"). Ngenkathi ukhona, kufanele ususe noma yiziphi izinsalela, ezifana namaqabunga noma izimbali ezifile, ukusuka endaweni yakhe yokuphumula bese ushiya ibhodlela elisha elimibalalayo ukubonisa ukuvakasha kwakho nothando lwakho.
Manje kungenzeka futhi kube yisikhathi esihle sokuthi "ukhulume" noyihlo, umtshele ukuthi ukhuluma ukuthini kuwe.
Tshala Isihlahla
Uma unesikhala egcekeni lakho, cabangela ukutshala umuthi ekukhumbuzeni ubaba wakho. Ngemuva kokuthenga umshini we-nursery, ugobe umgodi bese umndeni wakho ubuthana ukuze usho amagama ambalwa noma wabelane ngezinkumbulo zabo eziyizintandokazi zikababa wakho.
Emva kokubeka umuthi emgodini, cela ilungu ngalinye lomndeni ukuthi liphonsa inhlabathi encane ngaphambi kokuba uqede ukutshala nokuphuzisa umuthi. Ungabeka futhi isithombe esincane "Esikumemori ..." i-plaque esisekelwe kulokhu okukhumbuza ubaba wakho. Uma ungenayo isikhala sokutshala isihlahla esendlini yakho, cabangela ukunikela ngomuntu ohlala esibhedlela sendawo, emtatsheni wezincwadi noma endaweni yokukhulekela ukuze ubuhle umphakathi wakho enkumbulweni kayise.
Dala i-Scrapbook
I-Scrapbooking iyakhaka, imnandi, futhi iyindlela enhle yokwakha isikhumbuzo esihlala njalo kumuntu omthandayo. Qala ngokuqoqa nokunyathelisa izithombe zikababa wakho ezikhumbuza izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo. Uma uthanda, cela abanye benze okufanayo. Khona-ke, yedwa noma nabangani nemindeni, uqale ukusebenza. Usuku lukaBaba noma iviki elide eliholide lihlinzeka ithuba elihle lokubheka izithombe zemindeni yakho, wabelane ngezindaba ngemuva kwezithombe, futhi udale i-scrapbook ekhethekile njengenkokhelo kuyihlo.
Philisa Ngokusiza
Yenza umnikelo ube nenjongo kumzali wakho enkumbulweni yakhe, noma ukusiza ukuthola ukwelashwa kwesifo, njengomdlavuza noma i- Alzheimer's . Ungase ucabange ngokuzithandela amahora ambalwa ngesikhathi sakho ukuze uzuze abanye. Ukuze uthole uhlu lwamathuba okusiza omunye umuntu endaweni yakho, sicela uvakashele iwebhusayithi ye-Volunteer Match.
Dala i-Video yeSikhumbuzo
Shoot ividiyo elula yokukhokha nge-smartphone yakho, noma udale islayidi ehleliwe ngokugcwele kusuka ezithombeni zakho ozithandayo bese uyibeka kumculo. Uma usuqedile, wabelane ngawo nomndeni wakho nabangani, noma uwuthumele kuyi-intanethi njengale vidiyo yentela ye-YouTube ukuvumela umhlaba wazi ukuthi uthanda uyihlo kangakanani.
Nika Isikhathi Sakho
Uma ngokujwayelekile uthatha ubaba wakho ukuze adle uSuku lukaBaba, usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa noma olunye usuku olukhethekile, wamnika isipho noma nje waxoshwa naye ntambama, cabangela impilo enomunye ubaba ngokwenza okufanayo kuye. Uma ungazi omunye umuntu kakade, buza azungeze endaweni yakho yokukhulekela, ikhaya elihlengikazi noma i- hospice , noma ngisho nasemsebenzini wakho.
Ngenkathi uyihlo engakwazi ukushintshwa, cabanga ngezenzo zakho isenzo sothando enkumbulweni yakhe esingawenza abe aqhosha ngendodana yakhe.