Amaphuzu ekufeni, ekufeni nasekuhluphekeni okubangelwa ukulahlekelwa udade
Nakuba amagama akwazi ukuveza ngokugcwele ukuthi umuntu usho ukuthini, ulimi lungaqhubeka lunikeza induduzo, induduzo, ithemba kanye nokuphefumulelwa emva kokufa komuntu othandekayo. Lapha, uzothola iqoqo elikhethiwe lemilayezo, izingcaphuno, kanye namazwi mayelana nosizi obangelwa ukulahlekelwa udade, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumnikazi noma womuntu owaziyo.
Ungathola le migqa ewusizo lapho ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy noma ye- condolence , ikakhulukazi uma unenkinga yokuthola amagama afanele futhi udinga ugqozi.
U-Emily Dickinson , imbongi yaseMelika (owayenodade owodwa)
Ngingathanda othandana abaningi, ukuthi ukuphuma komunye kungase kungashiyi intulo enjalo.
Umbhali akaziwa
Izimpande zethu zithi singabodadewethu, izinhliziyo zethu zithi singabangane.
UVictoria Secunda , isazi sezengqondo saseMelika nomlobi
Ukuba nobuhlobo obunothando nodade akukhona nje ukuba ube nomngane noma othembekile ... kungukuthi ube nomphefumulo wokuphila.
UJames Boswell , ummeli waseScotland nomlobi
Mina, enginawo odadewethu noma abazalwane, ngibheke ngomona othile ongenamlandu ngalabo abangase bathi kuthiwa bazelwe abangane.
Isadora James , umbhali waseMelika
Udade isipho enhliziyweni,
Umngane womoya,
Intambo yegolide enenjongo yokuphila.
Benjamin Disraeli , osombusazwe waseBrithani nomlobi
Okumnandi yizwi lodade ngenkathi yokudabuka.
ULinda Sunshine , umbhali waseMelika
Uma ungaqondi ukuthi owesifazane angamthanda kanjani udadewabo ngokujulile futhi ufuna ukugubha intamo yakhe ngesikhathi esisodwa, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi ungumntwana kuphela.
UCharles M. Schulz , umdwebi waseMelika
Odade abakhulu yizihlahla zokhula emanzini okuphila.
UToni Morrison , umbhali waseMelika
Udade angabonakala njengomuntu obabili thina kanye nathi hhayi kakhulu ngokwethu - uhlobo oluthile oluphindwe kabili.
Umbhali akaziwa
Udadewethu udade sizohlala njalo,
Amantongomane ambalwa emndenini.
USusan Scarf Merrell , umbhali waseMelika, umhleli kanye noprofesa
Abafowethu nodadewethu bakhona nathi kusukela ekuqaleni kwezindaba zethu kuze kube kusihlwa esingenakugwema.
UJodi Picoult , umbhali waseMelika
Uma unodade futhi efa, uyayeka yini ukuthi unalo? Noma ingabe uhlale udadewabo, ngisho nalapho enye ingxenye ye-equation isiphelile?
UBarbara Alpert , umbhali waseMelika
Ungesibuko sakho, ukhanyisa emuva kuwe ngezwe lemisebenzi. Ungufakazi wakho, osibona ekubi kakhulu nakakhulu, futhi uyakuthanda noma kunjalo. Ungumlingani wakho ebugebengu, umngane wakho ophakathi kwamabili, umuntu owaziyo lapho uyamomotheka, ngisho nasebumnyameni. Ungumfundisi wakho, ummeli wakho wezokuvikela, ummeli wakho we-press, ngisho nokwehla kwakho. Ezinsukwini ezithile, yingesizathu ukuthi ufisa ukuthi ungumntwana kuphela.
UMargaret Mead , umlando waseMelika nomlobi
Oodadewabo kungenzeka ukuthi bangabangane abakhulu kunabo bonke emndenini, kodwa uma odade sebekhulile, kuba ubuhlobo obuqine kakhulu.
Umbhali akaziwa
Udade ungenye yezinto ezinhle kunazo zonke ezingenzeka kunoma ubani.
UPom Brown , umbhali wase-Australia nomlobi
Odade bayathukuthelisa, baphazamise, bagxeke. Hlanganisa ema-sulks amakhulu, kuma-huffs, ngamazwi e-snide. Borrow. Ukuphuka. Faka indawo yokugezela.
Kuhlale kungaphansi. Kodwa uma inhlekelele kufanele ishaye, odade bakhona. Ukuvikela wena kuwo wonke ama-comers.
UMaya Angelou , umbongi waseMelika nomlobi
Angikholwa ukuthi ingozi yokuzalwa yenza abantu odadewabo noma abazalwane. Kubenza babe izingane zakubo, kubanika umqondo womzali. Ubudlelwane nobuzalwane yisimo abantu okufanele basebenze kuzo.
Umbhali akaziwa
Odade bahlukene izimbali ezivela ensimini efanayo.
UMary Mary Wortley Montagu , umbhali waseNgisi
Ngeke kube nesimo ekuphileni lapho ingxoxo yodadewethu othandekayo engayikunikeza induduzo kimi.
UWilliam Shakespeare , umdlali wezingoma waseNgilandi
Ingelosi ekhonzayo udadewethu uyoba.
Charlotte Grey , umbhali waseNgisi kanye noprofesa
Ungabantwana emhlabeni, kodwa hhayi udade wakho.
UMarion C. Garretty , "umbhali"
Udade kuyinto encane yobuntwana engasoze yalahleka.
UCarol Saline , intatheli yaseMelika, umsakazo nomlobi
Odade basebenze njengamanethi okuphepha ezweni elikhukhumezayo nje ngokuba khona lapho.
Isaga saseVietnam
Abafowethu nodadewethu basondelene kakhulu ngezandla nezinyawo.
Ungase Uthande :
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• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Ingane
• Amazwi Okuphefumula: Ukufa Nokudabuka
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Baba
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Ukwesaba Ukufa
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulela: Umngani
• Amazwi Wokuphefumula: Ugogo nomkhulu
• Amazwi Okuphefumulelwa: Ukudabuka, Ukulahlekelwa, Nokulila
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Umyeni
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Insana
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Ukuhleka Ekufeni
• Amazwi Wokuphefumula: Umama
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Pet
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: IzAga Nezinkulumo Zabantu
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Shakespeare
• Amazwi okuphefumulelwa: isosha
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Umfazi
• Amazwi Wokuphefumulelwa: Indawo yokusebenzela
• Ukubhala kanjani i-Eulogy: Amathiphu amahlanu okuphumelela