Izinsizakalo zokufa i-doula zinikeza nokuthi lokhu kuhluke kanjani kumqondisi womngcwabo
I-doula yokufa ngumuntu owenza ukuthi yena atholakale ekusizeni umuntu oshona futhi, ngokuvamile, nomndeni ngaphambili, ngesikhathi nangemva kokufa kwenzeka - okuvame ukubhekwa ngokuthi "i-pan-death", "inqubo" noma " uhambo "- ukuhlinzeka ngokusekela ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, kwengqondo nangokomoya.
Ngezinye izikhathi ezihambisana nokunyakaza komuzi noma ukufa komndeni, i-doula yokufa ihlinzeka / isekela ezinhlobonhlobo zezinsizakalo ezingahluka kakhulu, kuye ngezimo, kodwa ngokuvamile zifuna ukuhlinzeka ngokugcwele, izandla, indlela yokwelapha eya enkambweni yemvelo yokufa kwabo bonke ababandakanyekayo abathintekayo.
Nakuba kungase kuthathe izinhlobo eziningi, inhloso ye-doula yokufa ngokuvamile ukusiza ukuguquka noma "ukubhubhisa igebe" kokubili abaphilayo nabafileyo abadalwa ukugxila kwabasebenzi bezokwelapha ekusindiseni izimpilo ngokuphathelene nendima yabaqondisi bemngcwabo nabanye imisebenzi iqala ngemuva kokufa.
Ngokuvamile okukhulunywe ngamagama ahlukene - njengombelethisi wokufa, umqeqeshi wokuphela kokuphila, umqondisi wokungcwaba, umhlahlandlela wokufa nokufa, thanadoula (inhlanganisela yezilimi ze- thanatology ne-doula), njll - i-doula yokufa ingase ihambise noma iyiphi yalezi zinsiza ezilandelayo, phakathi kwamanye amaningi:
- Kwalabo abafayo : Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini emndenini, esibhedlela, esibhedlela noma kwezinye izilungiselelo, i-doula yokufa ngokuvamile ihlinzeka isipho esijulile sobudlelwane . Phakathi kwezinto eziningi, lokhu kungase kuhlanganise nje ngokubamba isandla somuntu oshonile; ukulalela ngentshisekelo imibono yakhe; ukuxoxa nokuzama ukunikeza izimpendulo / induduzo kumbuzo womuntu / ukukhathazeka / izidingo; ukubukela ithelevishini noma ukufunda incwadi ngokuzwakalayo; ukuxoxa ngezifiso zokuphela kokuphila; ukusiza ukufa komuntu ngamunye / ukuthola ukuthula ngamaphutha wangempela noma acatshangelwe; njll.
- Kumalungu omndeni : Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi emndenini, esibhedlela , esibhedlela noma kwezinye izilungiselelo, i-doula yokufa ivame ukunikeza isipho sokuqhubeka kulo lonke uhlobo lokufa , okungukuthi, ngaphambili, ngesikhathi nangemva kokufa. Phakathi kwezinto eziningi, lokhu kungase kuhlanganise ukwenza imisebenzi ehlukahlukene eyisisekelo ngokuvamile eyenziwa ngumnakekeli wekhaya; ukuhlala nomuntu oshona ngenkathi amalungu omndeni ahamba; ukugqugquzela ukuxhumana okusekelayo kanye / noma izingxoxo phakathi kwazo zonke izinhlangothi; ukusiza ekwakheni ama-goodbyes anenzuzo phakathi namahora asele okuphila; ukusiza umndeni ukugeza nokugqoka oshonile; ukukhonza njengensiza yomngcwabo / ukuhlelwa kwezikhalazo kanye nokuhlala kwezindlu; njll.
Kanjani i-Death Doulas kanye nabaqondisi bokungcwaba abafana / abafani?
Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla, ukufa doulas ngokuvamile kuvimbela igebe phakathi kwemizamo yokuvimbela ukufa kungenzeki futhi ngemva kokufa. Lokhu kuqhubeka kokuba khona ekufeni kwe-doulas ngenkathi ukuguquka phakathi kokuphila nokufa kuyahluka ngokuphawulekayo kwendima yabaqondisi bemngcwabo, imithwalo yemfanelo yabo iqala emva kokufa (ngaphandle kokuba umshonile noma umndeni wakhe behlelwe kabusha futhi mhlawumbe, bawabuyisele imali leyo mali - amalungiselelo angaphandle - isimo esandulele ).
Kuye ngezimo kanye nezinga lokuthembela elikhona, ukufa okunye kungasiza umndeni ekwenzeni imisebenzi ehlukahlukene emva kokufa ejwayelekile eyenziwa ngabaqondisi bemngcwabo, njengokugeza nokugqoka umzimba; ukuqhuba ukubuka / ukubukwa komzimba (ongagciniwe); ukusiza umndeni ekuhleleni izinsizakalo zomngcwabo / zokungcebeleka ezifunwa; ukufinyelela nokugcwalisa amaphepha adingekayo; ukuhlinzeka ngokusekelwa usizi; njll.
Ubani Oba Doula Lokufa?
Abantu abavela kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuphila bangakhetha ukuba i-doula yokufa, kuhlanganise nabeluleki bezinsizwa, abasebenzi be-hospice, abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle, abaqeqeshiwe bezempilo, amalungu abefundisi, ngabanye ababoné ukuguqula ukufa komuntu siqu, njll.
Izizathu ziyahlukahluka kodwa, ngokuvamile, noma ubani ozwa ukubiza kwakhe ukusiza bobabili abafayo nabathandekayo abasaphila ngesikhathi sokuguquka kusuka ekuphileni kuze kube sekufeni bangase banqume ukuba abe i-doula yokufa.
Kungani Ngingasebenzisa I-Doula Yokufa?
Ngenkathi izizathu zihluka, abantu bangathola ukuguqula ukuphathwa nokunakekelwa othandekayo wabo oshonile kubantu abangabazi ngemuva kokufa ( isimo esidinga usizo ) okungajabulisi noma okungacabangi. Lokhu kungase kwenzeke ikakhulu lapho ilunga lomndeni likhonza njengomnakekeli wekhaya ngesikhathi sokugula isikhathi eside noma isifo futhi ngenxa yalokho, kulindeleke ukuthi ukufa kufike ngesikhathi esithile. Abanye bangase babe nesifiso sokuqhuba umngcwabo womuzi ngenxa yezizathu zabo siqu, ezemvelo, ezemvelo noma ezingokomoya.
Kungakhathaliseki isizathu esithile, i-doula yokufa inganikeza ukuqhubeka okududuzayo kokuba khona eminye imindeni idinga lapho ibhekene nokushona komuntu othandekayo, futhi isebenza njengomthombo / umgqugquzeli othembekile.
Ungabulawa Ama-Doulas Embalm Bodies?
I-doula yokufa ayikwazi ukugcoba umzimba ngaphandle kokuba ithole ukuqeqeshwa kwezokwelapha kanye nokugunyazwa kwelayisense okudingekayo ukwenza kanjalo endaweni ethile e-US. Imfundo yokugcoba umzimba ayiyona ingxenye yenqubo yokufa ye-doula-training.
Ingabe i-Doulas yokufa ilayisensi?
Ukufa kungahle kwenzeke, kodwa kungenjalo, ukuthola ukuqeqeshwa okuvela kwinhlangano engenzelwe inzuzo noma engekho inzuzo, kodwa ayikho uhlelo lokufundisa noma lokuqeqesha olufanele lokufa i-doulas kumele ludlule futhi ayikho ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kukahulumeni, umthethonqubo noma imvume .
Ingabe i-Doula yokufa iyala imali?
Kuncike kwezinye izindawo zokunakekelwa. Ukufa okunye kuphazamisa ngokuzimela futhi kungacaphuna imali ephathekayo yezinsizakalo zabo, noma i-per-day noma yezindleko zehora ngalinye. I-death doula ngayinye ibeka imali yakhe, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi ubuza mayelana nazo zonke izindleko ezibandakanya phambili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukufa okunye kwavolontiya isikhathi sabo, ngokuvamile ngokuhlanganyela nezinye izindawo zokunakekelwa, ngaphandle kwemali emndenini.