Ukucindezeleka ukuphendula komzimba ekushintsheni okudinga ukulungiswa ngokomzimba, kwengqondo noma ngokomzwelo noma impendulo. Ukucindezeleka kungakusiza ukuba ukhule ngamandla-njengokungathi ukuzivivinya okukhulu, isibonelo-noma kunganciphisa ikhono lakho lokubhekana nalo. Ukucindezeleka kungakusiza ekufezeni, noma kungabangela ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, nezinye izindaba ezihlobene nempilo.
Ukufa, yiqiniso, kuyisimo sokucindezeleka, njengoba kunezinkinga eziningi eziphathelene nokufa.
Kucindezela kokubili komuntu oshonile kanye nomnakekeli. Ngomqondo oyisisekelo, ukufa kumelela izinguquko ezinkulu kunoma ubani ozokwenza. Kungase futhi, kumnakekeli, kudinga izinguquko ezinkulu ebuhlotsheni (ingane iba ngumnakekeli , isibonelo), ungalokothi utshele izinguquko eziyinkimbinkimbi emisebenzini, imithwalo yemfanelo emisha, nokuningi.
Ukucindezeleka okuhlobene neNqubo yokuDala
Ukufa kuyisimo somuntu siqu, futhi izinga lokucindezeleka elihlobene nokufa lizohluka kakhulu kusuka kumuntu ngamunye kuya kumuntu ngamunye. Ezinye zezici ezenza umehluko zihlanganisa:
- Ubudala kanye nomqondo "wokupheleliswa." Umuntu omdala osezikhulile ozwa ukuthi baphile impilo egcwele ngezinye izikhathi (nakuba kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi) ekhululekile kakhulu nomqondo wokuthi ukuphila kuyeza ekupheleni.
- Izinga lokungahambi kahle. Kwezinye izimo, ukuhlanganiswa kwezici kuzokwenza kube lula ukubhekana nenqubo efa ekhaya ekhaya. Kwezinye izimo, le nqubo ibuhlungu ngokomzimba futhi idonsa.
- Izinga lokukhathazeka ngezici zangaphandle. Ingabe kukhona imali eyanele yokukhokha ukunakekelwa kanye nezindleko zokugcina? Ingabe lowo muntu noma abantu abanikeza ukunakekelwa bazobe bekhululekile? Kukhona yini imithwalo yemfanelo umuntu okufa okudingeka ayenze?
- Ukucabangela okungokomoya . Kwabanye abantu, ukufa kuyingxenye yemvelo yokuphila; kwabanye, "uya ekhaya." Nokho, kwabanye abantu, kuyinto esabekayo.
- Khomba ukuthi ukhona enkundleni yokufa . Ngokuvamile, abantu abahlinzekwa ukuxilongwa kwesifo esibulalayo bahamba ngezinqubo ezinhlanu lapho bezwa khona imizwa eminingi. Ukucindezeleka kuhlotshaniswa nezinye zezigaba kuze kube yilapho umuntu ekwazi ukuvumelana namaqiniso.
Kuyinto engokwemvelo futhi evamile kumuntu oshona ukuzwa ezinye zezinga lokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka, futhi ukuxosha leyo mizwa-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imithi noma ngenye indlela-ngokuvamile ayidingi futhi ingaba yingozi. Izinkinga ziphakama lapho umuntu oshonile ezwa izinga lokucindezeleka kanye / noma ukukhathazeka okwenza kube nzima ngaye ukuba ajabulele futhi ahlanganyele emisebenzini ayithandayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinkinga ezisekelwe eziphilayo ezikwazi ukudala imizwa kanye / noma izinkinga zomzimba eziphazamisa ukujabulela ukuphila. Lapho kuphakama izinselele, ochwepheshe bezokwelapha nezengqondo bangase batusa imithi noma ezinye izindlela zokusiza.
Ukucindezeleka Okuhlobene Nokunakekela Ukunakekelwa
Ezimweni eziningi, ukunakekelwa kungaba nokucindezeleka kunokufa. Kungani lokhu kungase kube njalo?
- Abanakekeli bayabhekana " nosizi lwabo lokulindela " ngokufa komuntu othandekayo ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho bebhekana nokuphila komuntu othandekayo.
- Abanakekeli bayabhekana nakho konke ukucindezeleka kwempilo ejwayelekile yansuku zonke-ukuhamba kwezimoto, izindaba zezimali, njalonjalo-ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho banakekela khona othandekayo othandekayo.
- Kwezinye izimo, abanakekeli baye bayeka izinto ezinkulu zokuphila kwabo, kuhlanganise nomsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, nokuningi, ukuhlinzeka ukunakekelwa. Akukhona nje lokhu kungabangela isizungu nokukhathazeka, kodwa kungabangela nokucindezeleka, ubunzima bezezimali, nokufutheka komuntu oshonile.
- Abanakekeli bangase bangabi nesikhathi noma amandla okuzinakekela izidingo zabo zomzimba, njengokuzivocavoca, ukuthenga nokupheka ukudla okunempilo noma odokotela abavakashelayo.
- Abanakekelayo bangase bangene emkhakheni wokunakekelwa okholwayo ngokwabo ukuba bakwazi "ukulungisa" isimo esingenakulungiswa. Ukuphazamiseka okuphathelene "nokungabi nasizo" kungaba okujulile.
Abanakekeli abaningi bagxiliwe kuze kube yilapho bebecindezelekile futhi / noma bekhathazekile futhi behluleka ukujabulela ukuphila kwabo. Izixazululo zilula: ukuthola ukunakekelwa nokusekela, ukuzinikela isikhathi, ukukhetha ukuzivocavoca ngokwanele, ukudla okunomsoco, nokulala , nokwamukela iqiniso lokuthi ukuphila nokufa kokubili akunakulinganiswa futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, akunakwenzeka.