Amathiphu ukukusiza ukuba ubhekane neholidi lomshado lapho ulila ukufa
Izinsuku ezikhethekile ngokuvamile zivusa imizwelo enamandla kanye nezinkumbulo kwabasindile kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sekudlule isikhathi esingakanani kusukela ekufeni komuntu othandekayo. Impendulo yeholidini noma isikhumbuzo sokugubha usuku kungenziwa ngenxa yokuthi uhlobanisa usuku ekhalendeni noma umcimbi ngokwawo obalulekile, njengomlingani, ilunga lomndeni noma umngane.
Noma ubani osilayo ukulahleka ngenxa yokufa, uSuku Luka-Valentine angase abe nomuzwa onobukhulu ikakhulukazi ngoba kugcizelela ukubumbana, uthando nokuthandana.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokunikeza ukukhangisa okuphawulekayo nokubukeka kokuthengiswa kwezitolo ezitolo zazo zonke izinhlobo, cishe akunakwenzeka ukugwema izikhumbuzo ukuthi "iholide lomshado" liyasondela.
Sebenzisa lawa macebiso ukukusiza ukuthi ubhekane nosizi oluzwayo noma oluzungeze uSuku Luka-Valentine njengoba uzama ukubhekana nokulahlekelwa kwakho.
Yeka Imithetho
Ukucindezela ukwenza ngendlela ethize kwenezela umthwalo oswele futhi ongadingekile kulabo abalilayo ukulahlekelwa ukufa. Uma uzizwa isidingo phakathi noSuku Luka-Valentine ukufihla izinyembezi zakho noma ukubeka ubuso obusibindi (noma, ngokuphambene, hhayi ukuhleka noma ukuzijabulisa ngezinye izikhathi), khona-ke kudingeka uzinike imvume yokulila ngendlela yakho. Naphezu kokucindezelwa komphakathi-kwangempela noma okucatshangelwayo-noma umbono wezinkampanini zokuhlupheka , akukhona nje indlela engalungile yokulila ukulahlekelwa othandekayo.
Cope Ugly
Ngonyaka ka-2008, kukhishwe isifundo ngokuphathelene nokuqiniswa kwabantu ababhekene nemicimbi engaba yingozi, kuhlanganise nokushonelwa.
Abalobi baveza umqondo wokuthi "ukubhekana nokubi," okusho ukuthi ukubhekana akudingeki ukuba kube yinto enhle-kudingekile ukuthi umsebenzi ufezeke. Yenza noma yini okudingeka uyenze ngesikhathi seholide ukuze ubhekane nakho.
Faka iPeni kuPhepha (noma iminwe kukhibhodi)
Ukuthungatha akusizi nje kuphela ukuxazulula ukucindezeleka kodwa kungakusiza ukucubungula nokuhlela imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho njengoba ubhala phansi.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uziveza kahle kakhulu ukuhlala ekhompyutheni yakho noma usebenzisa iphepha nepeni, ukuhlola nokurekhoda imizwa yakho yangaphakathi nemibono "ngenxa yamehlo akho kuphela" kuvame ukubonisa ukwelashwa futhi kunganikeza ukuqonda impendulo yakho yosizi .
Ngcwaba okwedlule
Uma ukhululekile ngalolu mbono, khetha i-memento ephawulekayo, isikhumbuzi, noma i-artifact ukuthi uhlobanisa ngokujulile nomuntu oshonile futhi, ngokuyisisekelo, ukuwufaka emhlabathini ngesikhathi somkhosi wangasese owuhlelayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokhu kuhilela isithombe esithile, incwadi, imidwebo, isikhumbuzo, noma olunye uxhumano lomzimba kumthandekayo wakho, umqondo lapha ukufanisa nokushiya ngothando kumuntu oshonile futhi "uvumeleke" ubuhlobo bakho obudlule ukuze uhambe phambili.
Yiba ngowakho u-Valentine
Ukudabuka akuthinti nje ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo kulabo abalilayo ukufa, futhi kuthatha umzimba. Ngokuvamile, umuntu oshonelwe uzizwa ephelelwe amandla ngenxa yokudla okubi, ukungabi nokuzivivinya, noma ukulala ngokwanele. Uma lokho kukuchaza, bese uqhuba ukuzithanda ngokwakho phakathi kweholidi ngokuqaphela izidingo zakho ezingokwenyama. Uma ungazizwa unamandla okwanele ukulungisa ukudla, bese u-oda uphume noma uya endaweni yokudlela oyintandokazi. Thatha inja yakho ukuhamba, noma umeme umngane ukuthi ahambehamba eduze nawe mall nawe.
Buyekeza imihlahlandlela ukukusiza uthole ukuphumula okungcono kwebusuku .
Hlonipha Abathandekayo Bakho
Ukugxila ngendlela enenhlonipho yokudumisa nokukhumbula umthandekayo wakho kungasiza ukuhambisa imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho ngendlela ehle ngesikhathi seholide. Zibuze ukuthi othandekayo wakho angathanda ukukhunjulwa bese wenza kwenzeke ukuthi kwenzeke. Kungaba isikhumbuzo somzimba njengokutshala isihlahla egcekeni lakho noma ukunikela umuntu esikoleni noma esontweni, enezela encane "Inkumbulo ...". Kodwa kunezindlela zokuhlonipha othandekayo wakho ongadingi ukuchitha imali. Unganikeza igazi noma usize nge-drive drive, uzinikele isikhathi sakho ukuze usize abanye, noma uvakashele futhi ufunde kulabo asekhaya labahlengikazi.
Cabanga ngakho futhi uzothola indlela yokuhlonipha othandekayo wakho osele. Ungenza lesi siko sosuku lwakho lwe-Valentine.
> Imithombo:
> Bonanno GA, uMancini AD. Ikhono Lomuntu Lokuthi Liphumelele Ngesikhathi Ubhekene Nengqondo. Izingane zokwelapha . 2008; 121 (2): 369-375. i-doi: 10.1542 / imigqa.2007-1648.