I-Elderspeak yigama elibhekisela endleleni abanye abantu abakhuluma ngayo nabantu abadala, ikakhulukazi labo abane- Alzheimer's disease noma olunye uhlobo lomqondo owohloka komqondo. Abadala babebandakanya ukukhuluma kancane kancane, besebenzisa izwi eliphakeme, besebenzisa imizwa yothando njengokuthi "uju" noma "othandekayo," nokukhuluma nomuntu omdala njengokungathi uyisana noma ingane encane. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, i-elderspeak iphinde ichazwe njengokusebenzisa ukukhulumisana oku "kumisa" umuntu omdala.
Izibonelo
"Oh Honey Bun, ufuna ukulala, akunjalo?"
"U-Sweetie, uhle kakhulu!"
"Ingabe i-tummy yethu ilambile i-foodie?"
Ngakho-ke yini embi ngakho?
Kuyamcasula, Kuhlambalaza, futhi Kuphazamisa
Lowo muntu okhuluma naye ngumuntu omdala onokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi ekuphileni. Kungenzeka ukuthi wayekhulise izingane, ugijima enkampanini, wakhonza izwe lethu empini, wayala umhlangano webhodi, wapheka ukudla okumangalisayo, futhi wagijima umncintiswano. Phatha abantu abadala njengabantu abadala.
Igalela ekuziphatheni komuntu
Ukusebenzisa imigomo engathandeki yothando esikhundleni samagama kungabangela ukuba ucabange ngendlela engacacile ngomuntu okhuluma naye futhi kwenze kube lula ukukhohlwa ukuthi ungumuntu onobuntu obuhlukile kanye nezintandokazi ezithile. Kufanele sithuthele ekunakekelweni okugxilwe ngumuntu , hhayi kude nayo. Khumbula ukuthi lo muntu unalo igama. Mbuze ukuthi yini angathanda ukubizwa futhi yenze. Isibonelo: "Ukhetha uMnu Smith noma uFred?"
Ibonisa amandla
Ngisho nalapho umuntu enesifo sengqondo sokucindezeleka (futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ikakhulukazi ekudemeni kwengqondo), ukuxhumana kwethu okungenamazwi njengethoni, umsindo wezwi, nokuziphatha kungakhuluma ngokuzwakalayo kwabanye. Abadala bangase babonakale bethi, "Ngikuphethe ngoba usukhulile futhi awusizi ngalutho."
Iveza ukungaqiniseki koMdala
Ucwaningo olusanda kutholakala ukuthi abadala abadala bekungenzeka kakhulu uma kwenzeka bexhumana nomuntu onesifo sengqondo sokucindezeleka.
Ithembo elihloniphayo libonisa ukuthi umdala unesidingo esijulile sokuqondiswa ngoba ufana nomntwana. Akayena ingane, futhi ukulahlekelwa inkumbulo yakhe kudinga ububele, hhayi isihe.
Yandisa Izithintelo Eziyinselele
Ucwaningo oluningi luye lwathola ukuthi abadalapeak kwandisa amathuba okuziphatha okunzima njengokwenqabela ukunakekelwa kubantu abanomqondo owohloka komqondo. Kuye kwachazwa ukuthi ukwanda okukhulu , ukukhungatheka nokubiza . Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kweYunivesithi yaseMiami, i-elderspeak ingase ibangele ukusabela okuyingozi , isikhathi sokuphendula ngokungazelelwe ekusebenzisaneni okuvamile, njengokuthukuthela okukhulu noma isenzo sokuhlukumeza ngokomzimba kumnakekeli.
Okufanele Uyenze Esikhundleni Esikhundleni
Qaphela ukuxhumana ngenhlonipho. Khumbula ukuthambekela (kuwe noma abanye) ukukhuluma nabantu abadala. Qonda ukuthi i-elderspeak kungenzeka iqondiswe kumuntu oyisebenzisayo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi udinga isikhumbuzo esifanele salowo oxhumana naye.
Imithombo:
I-American Journal ye-Alzheimer's and Other Dementias. Februwari / Mashi 2009 vol. 24, cha. 1, 11-20. I-Elderspeak Communication: Impact on Care Dementia.
I-Journal ye-Nursing Gerontological. 2014 Nov; 40 (11): 44-52. Ingabe i-elderspeak kufanelekile?: Ucwaningo lwabahlengikazi abaqinisekisile abahlengikazi.
Ukucwaninga kanye Nethimba Lokusebenza Kwezingane. 2007; 21 (1): 45-56. Ucwaningo lwesifundo sokunganaki kokunakekelwa kanye ne-elderspeak.
University of Miami. Isikhungo sokuguga. Ukuxhumana nabadala: Abadala nabangaphandle .