Ukunakekela umzali okhutshaziwe kungabonisa izinkinga izingane ezikhulile ezingakulungeli ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengokuthatha imali, ukushintsha abadwebi, noma ukuhlela ukunakekelwa ekhaya elikhulisayo . Kwezinye izimo, izingane ezisiza ukunakekela umzali okhubazekile zingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18. Kungaba isipiliyoni esinzima, kodwa izinsiza eziningi zomphakathi zizosiza labo abacela usizo.
Izinselele zezingane Ukunakekela Abakhubazekile Abazali
Enye yezinselelo izingane ezikhulile ezibhekene nazo zilungiselela ukuhlala umhlalaphansi ngenkathi zinakekela umzali okhubazekile. Ukuthatha imali yabazali bakho nokunquma ukuthi kufanele baphile kungabangela ukucindezeleka. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bakho bafuna ukugcina ukuzimela kwabo futhi abafuni ukufaka kwakho.
Ukunquma ukubeka umzali emakhaya asebekhulile, ngisho okwesikhashana, kungabangela imizwa yecala futhi kudala ukucindezeleka kanye nokubeka ubuhlobo ebuhlotsheni bakho.
Izingane zomzali osanda kukhubazeka zingase zithole izinselele ezivumelanisa nezinguquko eziningi ezivela ngokuzumayo ekuphileni kwabo. Uma usencane futhi ujwayele umama noma ubaba wakho ekunakekeleni, ushintsho lokwesekwa lungase ludideke ngokukhethekile. Mhlawumbe umama akakwazi ukwenza ukudla ngokufunwa, noma ubaba akakwazi ukudlala ibhola ngaphandle. Lolu shintsho emadenjini omndeni lungenza imizwa yentukuthelo, isizungu, nokukhungatheka.
Abahlengikazi bezingane bangasiza ukubhebhezela phezu kwemizwelo eluhlaza.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane ezindala-ikakhulukazi ezisencane-zingamangala umzali okhutshazekile ngokuzivumelanisa nokuzivumelanisa nokuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe. Isibopho phakathi komzali nengane singase sibe namandla ngenxa yabantu ababili okufanele bathembele komunye nomunye.
Abazali kufanele bagweme ukubeka umthwalo omkhulu ezinganeni ezingase zingakhuli ngokwanele ukuqonda "izinkinga zabantu abadala." Nakuba kufanelekile ukwabelana ngezici ezithile zokukhubazeka, njengolwazi oluyisisekelo mayelana nesifo noma ukulimala, ulwazi oluningi lungase lube khona ecindezela ingane noma omdala osemusha.
Uma kunokwenzeka, umzali okhutshazekile kufanele afune ngaphandle kosizo lwabantu abadala, kungaba kubangani noma kumalungu omndeni, ngakho abacindezeli izingane zabo ngemithwalo yemfanelo yokunakekela umzali okhubazekile.
Indlela Yokufuna Ukusekelwa
Thola usizo uma udinga usizo lokunakekela umzali okhubazekile. Izinhlangano ezihlinzeka ukusekelwa kwabanakekeli zifaka:
- Izinhlangano zenkolo zendawo
- Izinhlelo zokufinyelela esibhedlela kanye namaqembu okusekela
- Amaqembu asekela anikezwa ngezinhlangano ezihlukahlukene kanye nezinsisekelo zokukhubazeka okuqondile noma izimo zomtholampilo
- I-Arc ye-United States
- Inhlangano ye-American Veterans ekhutshaziwe
- Amaqembu asekela omndeni aseMpi njenge-The Wounded Warrior Project
- Amasevisi ezinsizakalo ezingxenyeni zedolobha, angakusiza ukuthola izinhlangano zokusekela
- I-United Way
- Izikhungo zokweluleka zendawo, kubandakanya abacebisi ezikoleni eziphezulu kubanakekeli abasha
Uma uqala ukuzizwa ukhululekile ukhathalela umzali okhubazekile, ungangabazi ukucela usizo kunoma iyiphi yale mithombo.
Basebenziswa ngabachwepheshe abanakekelayo abakulungele, abazimisele futhi abakwazi ukusiza imindeni edinga usizo oluncane noma oluningi lokunakekela umuntu onesifo sokukhubazeka.