Akulula Kulula Ukukwazi Uma noma Isikhathi Sifika Nini
Kuyaqondakala ukuthi amalungu amaningi omkhaya afuna ukunakekela othandekayo wabo ekhaya isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Kodwa, ukuthi "isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka" kusho ukuthini ngempela? Abanakekeli abaningana baye babuza ukuthi kukhona yini izimpawu zokukhombisa ukuthi isikhathi siphila noma uma kunezici ezicacile okufanele zicatshangelwe esinqumweni sokubeka umuntu ekhaya elikhulisayo ukuze anakekele okwengeziwe. Umbuzo wabo: " Uyazi kanjani ukuthi sekuyisikhathi?"
Uma ungumnakekeli womuntu othandekayo nge- Alzheimer noma enye ingqondo yokugula komzimba , mhlawumbe uye wazibuza into efanayo. Mhlawumbe unakekela ilungu lomndeni ekhaya lakho futhi isimo sakho sisebenza kahle. Noma, mhlawumbe ungesimweni sokufuna ukugcina ilunga lomkhaya ekhaya, kodwa usuqala ukuzwa ukuthi inselele yokulinganisa konke ekuphileni kungase ibe kaningi ngezinye izikhathi.
Izizathu ZamaHholo Odokotela Aphephelwa
Imindeni ivame ukuzwa unecala nokukhathazeka okuhlobene ngisho nomcabango wokubekwa kwabahlengikazi ekhaya. Kungenzeka ukuthi benze isithembiso eminyakeni eminingi edlule kumuntu othandekayo ukuthi angeke abeke ekhaya labo labahlengikazi. Bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi kuwumsebenzi wabo wokunakekela oshade naye noma umlingani wabo ekhaya.
Abanye kungenzeka babe nesipiliyoni esibi (noma bezwe ngomunye) ekhaya elihlengikazi futhi besaba ukwenza lokho. Bakhathazekile ngokuthi othandekayo wabo ngeke anakekelwe futhi esikhungweni njengoba bekhaya, noma ukhathazekile ukuthi ukubekwa kwesikhungo kuzobangela ukwehla kokusebenza kanye nekhwalithi yokuphila .
Lapho Ukunakekelwa Kwekhaya Lwabahlengikazi Lwenzeka Ngokwemvelo
Ngezinye izikhathi, kunezimo lapho kucacile ukuthi sekufike isikhathi sokunakekelwa kwezingane ekhaya. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukugula okukhulu, ukulimala, noma ukulaliswa esibhedlela somnakekeli noma umuntu onomqondo wokushisa, noma ukufa komnakekeli. Lezo zinguquko eziphuthumayo zivame ukuthi zidinga ukuhlala ekhaya ngokuhlengikaza futhi ngezinye izikhathi abantu baphela ezindaweni ezivame ukuhamba ebusuku, futhi kunesikhathi esincane kakhulu sokucwaninga izindawo ezahlukene.
Izimpawu Zokuthi Isikhathi Sokunakekelwa Kwasekhaya Kwabahlengikazi Siseduze
Ngaphandle kwalezo zinguquko ezizenzekelayo, nini isikhathi? Yiziphi izimpawu okufanele uziqaphele? Uyazi kanjani ukuthi kufanele uhambe nini ekhaya lokuhlengikaza, noma uma ungaqhubeka ukwenza izinto zisebenze ekhaya?
Nazi ezinye izibonakaliso ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokucabangela ukunakekelwa kwezingane asebekhulile:
- Uphumele umhlane wakho noma uwile lapho uzama ukuphakamisa noma ukuhambisa othandekayo wakho.
- I-Alzheimer's yakho ethandekile iye yaqhubekela phambili lapho izama ukukulimaza noma ibonisa ezinye izimo ezinzima , njenge- paranoia noma intukuthelo evamile.
- Ilungu lomndeni wakho ligijime ngaphandle futhi lilahlekile.
- Ulahla ibhola ngeminye imithwalo yemfanelo.
- Ubonisa izimpawu eziningana zokukhathazeka komnakekeli . Isibonelo, mhlawumbe ulahlekelwe ukufutheka lapho nje othandekayo wakho emelana nokugqoka noma ekulandela kwakho yonke indawo ongena ngaphakathi endlini.
- Impilo yakho (okungokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo) iyahla. Lokhu kungafaka izimo ezinjenge-high blood pressure, arrhythmia, ikhanda, izinkinga zamathunjini, ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
- Ubuhlobo bakho obubaluleke kakhulu bubuhlungu kakhulu.
- Uhlinzekwe noma enye inqubo yezokwelapha ehleliwe ezayo ngokushesha.
- Udokotela wakho uthe sekuyisikhathi sokubekwa kwezingane ekhaya.
- Othandekayo wakho unesidingo sokuthi awukwazi ukusingatha kahle, naphezu kwemizamo yakho emihle.
- Uke waba nabangani noma amalungu omndeni ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwakho futhi bakhuthaze ukuba ubheke ukhetho lwekhaya lokuhlengikaza.
- Usuvele uzame ezinye izinketho nezinsiza ukuze ugcine othandekayo wakho ekhaya futhi abahlinzeki nje ngokwanele usizo.
- Ukunakekelwa kwezindlu ngokwezezimali, kunakekelwa kakhulu kunokuba ukhokhele inani lamasevisi asekhaya angadingeka ukuze uhlangabezane nezidingo zakho zomnakekeli.
Uma eyodwa noma ngaphezulu yalezi zimpawu zizwakala zijwayele, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili ngokuhlela ukuthuthela ekhaya labahlengikazi.
Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nabanye abakuzungezile abajwayele izikhungo emphakathini wakho nokuthi ngubani ongenza isincomo. Ukungena ezindlini zokuvakashela kungakunikeza umuzwa wendawo. Ukucwaninga izinketho zakho kuyisihluthulelo ekukhetheni ikhaya elihle lokunakekela othandekayo wakho.
Izwi kusuka
Ukucabanga ngezinketho zokunakekela othandekayo kungabangela ukucindezeleka. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi uzizwa sengathi ungayiphatha, kungase kube nezinye izikhathi lapho uzizwa sengathi awukwazi ukukwenza konke. Abanye abantu bachaza sengathi banamanzi emithwalweni kanye nesisindo salolu daba. Ukwamukela le mizwa akususa lutho othandweni onalo kulo muntu.
Khumbula ukuthi uma impilo yakho noma inhlalakahle yempilo ihlupheka kakhulu, ngeke ukwazi ukusiza kakhulu othandekayo wakho. Ukuhlela kahle kungakusiza ukuthi uqhubeke ukhona kulowo othandekayo wakho, ngakho-ke ungaqhubeka uhlinzeka ngothando nokusekela okudingayo ngesikhathi senkinga yalolu hambo.
Umthombo:
I-Pacific Northwest Extension. Ukwenza Izinqumo Mayelana Nekhaya Lamahlengikazi.