Izipho ezimbi kunazo zonke zokusinda komdlavuza webelevuza

Uma ugxiliwe ngemibono yesipho, lawa ambalwa ongase ufune ukuwagwema

Kungumcabango obala uma unikeza isipho, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukubeka amandla okucwaninga kancane kunoma yisiphi isipho osikhethayo osindile somdlavuza webele. Ezinye zalezi zinto zingase zenzeke kuwe, kanti ezinye zivele zihamba ngokungahambi kahle. Ngakho-ke uma ukhetha ukukhethwa okuphelele kumuntu wakho othandekayo olwa nomdlavuza wesifuba , nansi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zezipho ezimbi okufanele uzigweme.

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Noma yini ehlobene Nezindaba Zomzimba
Owesifazane uhlola izilinganiso zakhe. Westend61

Gwema ukuthenga ubulungu ku-Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, kanye ne-Nutrisystem - ngezinye izikhathi i- chemotherapy ngezinye izikhathi ingabangela ukutholakala kwesisindo, futhi iningi alifanelekile kumuntu onesifo esibucayi. Yeqa izikali ezintsha zokugezela, ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo (futhi ngaleyo ndaba, unganiki muntu ngesilinganiso sokugezela esisha njengesipho). Izitshalo zokukhulisa izibeletho azisebenzi kahle noma kunjalo, futhi azikho okungalungile ikakhulu uma isiguli sibhekene nesisindo somzimba . Ngaphandle kokuthi ungaveza isipho esiqinisekisa ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyisimo esingakanani, khetha isipho sakho kusuka kwesinye isigaba.

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Izinto zokugqoka ezitholakalayo ezingazange zicele
Ibhande elimibalabala. jennyfdowning

Ngaphandle kokuthi wazi ukuthi uzizwa kahle futhi unomzimba okwanele okwenzeni ucansi, gwema noma yini engacabanga ukuthi yikuphi okungenzeka kube isimo sakhe esisha. Le ndawo yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ikakhulukazi kubalingani bomdlavuza webele webele, kepha le ndawo ayikho imingcele ngaphandle kokuthi ujwayele kakhulu umfazi okhulunywe ngaye.

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A Blouse With A Buka
Ubhontshisi obomvu obopha. Alice Gao Photography

Ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa kwebele, umdlavuza wakho-fighter angase abe nomzimba ogugile, izintambo eziphansi ezenziwe ngezandla ezivulekile. Ngemuva kwe- node-node biopsy , kunesibalo eside esibekwe ngaphakathi kwesikhumba esingaphansi - nangemva kokuhlinzwa kwebele, kungase kube nezinye izibazi kanye nezinguquko ekujuleni noma ngisho ne-asymmetry. Ama-scars aphulukisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kodwa okokuqala angenza isiguli sizizwe siziqaphele kakhulu ukuze siwaveze esidlangalaleni. Mlandele ukuhola kulokhu, kodwa-ke, awufuni ukumnika umqondo wokuthi umzimba wakhe omusha uyinto enamahloni ngokumnika i-blouse ethi "ukumboza."

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I-foodie iveza ukuthi ayikwazi ukudla
Isitsha se-cheese ezinhlobo ezahlukene ushizi, baguette namagilebhisi on izinkuni. Westend61

Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi noma yini into othanda ngayo iye yaqala futhi ingase ibe ne-neutropenia . Lapho igazi elimhlophe elibhekene nesiguli liphansi, amasosha omzimba awakwazi ukubhekana nokudla okungaba namabhaktheriya ayingozi. Unganiki amaqabunga amasha, izithelo ezingavunyelwe noma imifino, noma amasaladi akhiwe ngomumo. Phakamisa amabhokisi esipho alayishwe izinyosi ezibunjiwe, amantongomane angagciniwe noma aluhlaza, kanye nama-sausage aqinile kuma-wrappers wemvelo. Nakuba lezi zinto zibonakala zihlwabusayo kuzo zonke lezozinhlu zezinhlu eziluhlaza, othandekayo wakho angeke akwazi ukujabulela ukudla. Izimpahla eziningi ezibhaka kufanele kube kuhle ukunikeza, kodwa gcina i-jalapeƱos eqoshiwe kanye noshizi we-blue.

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Ama-cosmetics, ama-perfume nama-Wigs
I-Mannequin ku-wig. Charlotte Steeples Photography

Abesifazane ababhekene nokwelashwa ngomdlavuza wesifuba bangase babe nekhanda elomile kakhulu, akukho izinwele noma yikuphi, nokukhathala okuningi ongacabanga. Gcina umcabango wokuthola iphunga lakhe elimthandayo kuze kufike cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha emva kwe-chemo - umqondo wakhe wephunga kungenzeka ube kude, okwenza ngisho namafutha abizayo kakhulu ukuhogela amaqanda abolile. Ingabe uke wambonisa njenge-lass-hair lass? Kulungile, lokho kungase kungafanisi nesithombe sakhe samanje sakhe. Kungcono uthole isitifikedi sesipho ku- wig salon bese umvumela akhethe i-hairstyle ephathekayo, kodwa uhambe ngokucophelela kunoma iziphi izipho eziphakamisa ukuthi kukhona into engathandeki ngomzimba wakhe omusha ukuthi udinga ukuguqula. Lesi sigaba singumkhakha wamayini wezipho, ngakho-ke kungcono ukugwema.

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Amathiphu Okupholisa Okufanele Uwakhumbule

Uma ukhetha isipho somuntu osinde umdlavuza webele, khumbula ukusebenzisa i- RAFT :

Ukucabangela lokho okushiwo umsindisi futhi ube nenhlonipho.
Ukuzikhandla ngemibono emihle yesipho bese wenza izifiso zabo.
Umdlavuza ungashintsha umuntu; ungalindeli ukuba abe umuntu wabo omdala ngokushesha, uma kwenzeka.
Isipho asikona ngawe - uzibeke esimweni sabo, bese ukhetha.

Uma ungatholi isipho esisebenza ngempela kumuntu ofisa ukumhlonipha, yakha isitifiketi sesipho somkhuba lapho unikeza isikhathi sakho: ukuhamba, ukudla okuphekwe ekhaya, ntambama yokuhlanza indlu, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukuya ukuvakasha kukadokotela, ukubeletha izingane, noma kusihlwa emabhayisikobho emzini wabo. Izipho ezinjalo ziyigugu kakhulu futhi azikwazi ukuzithokozisa kunanoma yini ongayithenga.