Ngisho nezingane ezine-autism eziphezulu kakhulu ezisebenzayo ziqubuke ngokomzwelo
Kunenganekwane yokuthi izingane ezine-autism zinemizwa embalwa noma ayikho. Akukho okungaqhubeka phambili eqinisweni. Izingane ezine-autism zingase zithinteke ngokomzwelo ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene noma ziveze imizwelo yazo ngendlela ehlukile, kodwa zinemizwa eminingi njenganoma ubani omunye. Kwezinye izimo, izingane ezine-autism zingase zibe nomzwelo nakakhulu kunezinye zazo zontanga.
Ngakho izingane ze-autistic zivumela kanjani imizwa yazo? Ngesinye isikhathi badinga usizo ukuze lilunge.
Kungani Imizwelo Inzima Kakhulu Izingane Ezinamandla Ukusebenza Kwe-Autism
Ukusebenza okuphezulu kwe-autism kungaba yinselele kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unamakhono nolwazi lokuqonda ukuze ubekwe endaweni evamile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, awunawo amakhono omphakathi, ukuxhumana, kanye nokusebenza okusebenza kahle ukusebenza kahle uma kwenzeka ushintsho. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nokuhlukumezeka komzwelo, ukukhathazeka, noma ezinye izinkinga ezenza izibani ezikhanyayo, umsindo omnandi, nokulindela okukhulu okungeke kwenzeke ukuphatha.
Uma izingane ezine-autism, ngisho nezingane eziphezulu ezisebenza kahle, zikhungathekile kakhulu noma zithukuthele, zivame ukwenza okuthile. Uma benza, bangase baziphathe ngezindlela ezimangazayo noma ezishaqisayo abantu ababazungezile. Isibonelo, banga:
- Ukuxubana ngendlela efana nengane encane kakhulu, ngezinyembezi nokukhala
- Balekela esimweni esinzima, ngezinye izikhathi zibe endaweni eyingozi njengemigwaqo ematasa
- Yibani enobudlova noma ozihlambalazayo
- Ukweqa ngokweqile isimo futhi ungakwazi ukuzinza
- Ungakwazi ukucubungula ulwazi olunengqondo ukuthi, kwesinye isimo, lungamsiza ukuba aqine
- Yiba nomsindo kakhulu ukulalela iziphakamiso zokutholisa abazali, othisha, noma abahlinzeki
Amathiphu Ovela Odokotela Bama Psychologist. URobert Naseef noCindy Ariel
Ngezinye izikhathi "ubumnene" i-autism akuyona into. Kungaba yinselele kakhulu ikakhulukazi kubantwana nabazali babo. Akekho kithi ofuna ukubona ingane yethu ebuhlungu lapho into ingasebenzi. Abaningi, uma kungenjalo, izingane ezitholakale ku- autism spectrum zinzima ukulawula imizwelo yazo nokugcina isimo sokuthula. Kungase futhi babhekane nokunye ukulinganiselwa abazizwa kodwa abakwazi ukukhuluma noma ukuqonda ngezinye izindlela.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi lokhu kungashintsha futhi ungasiza. Nazi ezinye izicebiso:
- Okokuqala, khumbuza ingane yakho futhi wena ukuthi lapho ekhala kubangelwa umuzwa futhi lowo mzwa uzodlula njengefu elimnyama. Ilanga lizophuma futhi nakuba lizwa sengathi isibhakabhaka siwa. Siza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ukuthatha ukuphefumula okuncane kancane lapho iqala ukuzwa ukucasuka. Yenza lokhu njalo uma engathukutheli. Yenzani naye. Mtshele ukuthi sonke, izingane kanye nabantu abadala, siyathukuthela futhi kufanele sifunde ukuthi singazinqanda kanjani.
- Ezinye ukuqubuka kungabandakanya ukusabela kwengane yakho nesidingo sakhe sokufunda ukubhekana nokuzwela nokukhathazeka kwakhe nokuziqhenya; ukuthola induduzo nokukhuthazwa ngaphakathi. Ungamsiza ukuba afunde ukubhekana nokusabela kwakhe okwedlulele ngokomzwelo ngokumnika izindlela zokuzola noma ukuziduduza ngaphambi kokuqhubeka. Kunezindlela eziningi zokwenza lokhu futhi abaningi bethu bathola izindlela zethu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kusiza izingane ezithile ukuba zodwa ngezikhathi ezimbalwa; kusiza abanye ukuba bahlale futhi bakhulume nomuntu noma baphinde baqondise imicabango yabo kwenye indawo kancane.
- Ngezikhathi ezingathathi hlangothi, lapho ingane yakho ingacasuli, ungakhuluma naye ngezindlela angakwazi ukulawula imizwelo yakhe ekukhanyeni ekhaya nase esikoleni. Ungafunda ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokukhungatheka nokuthi angakwazi ukubhekana nakho ngokubekezela kancane noma ngokuthatha izinto ezinyathelweni ezincane. Ungasebenza naye kanye nothisha bakhe mayelana nezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokufunda ukuthi azithule phansi.
- Ngezikhathi owaziyo ukuthi ukuqubuka kuzoluthola, ngezinye izikhathi ungayinqamula ngokukhuluma naye ngakho ngaphambili futhi uxoxe ngokuthi angayigwema kanjani manje, futhi aze anikeze umvuzo ngokwenza kanjalo. Lapho ekugcineni efunda ukuzihlukanisa, ukuzwa ngcono kokuzethemba kuyakuba umvuzo wayo, kokubili wena kanye naye.
URobert Naseef, Ph.D., noCindy Ariel, Ph.D., bangabalingisi bama- Voices avela ku-Spectrum: Abazali, Ugogo nomkhulu, Abantwabakho, Abantu abane-Autism, kanye nabaSebenzi Abelana Ngokuhlakanipha Kwabo (2006). Zithole kuzo Eminye Izinketho.