Uma i-Hubby Yakho Ilahlekelwe I-Libido Yakhe, Ungazibophezeli
Uma umyeni wakho ene- multiple sclerosis (MS), kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele udinge ukushintsha izinto eziningi empilweni yakho, njengemikhawulo yemikhakha eshisayo, ukusiza ngesikhathi sokubuyela emuva , noma ukulungisa ezinye ukukhubazeka. Kodwa-ke, uphawu olulodwa oludinga "ukusebenzisana" kakhulu ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi , okuza ngezindlela eziningi. Lona futhi uphawu lokuthi amadoda amaningi azobe esenqika ukuxoxa ngokukhululekile.
Kungani Umyeni Wami Angaboni Ukufuna Ubulili?
Ukuya ocansini kuyinkimbinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi encike kwisistimu yezinzwa zomphakathi ukuze kuvezwe impendulo yokuvusa kanye nezocansi. E-MS, ukulimala emigwaqweni yezinzwa ezibangelwa ukuthungulwa komzimba kungathinta ukuvuswa komuntu ngokocansi nokuphendula. Ukukhathala, ubuhlungu, nokungabi namandla kungabangela nezinkinga zobulili kubantu abaphila ne-multiple sclerosis. Okunye ukuhlola kubonisa ukuthi abaningi abangamaphesenti angu-91 abesilisa abane-MS bazothola izinga elithile lokungasebenzi komzimba ngokocansi (abesifazane abane-MS nabo bayabhekana nayo - kuze kube ngamaphesenti angu-72 bazoba nezinkinga zobulili).
Uma kuziwa empilweni yakho yobulili, ungase uzame ukubona ukuthi "wenzani okungalungile" noma "ukuthi ungenzani kangcono." Kodwa lesi akusona isikhathi sokuthi: a) acabange ukuthi umyeni wakho unezinkinga; b) ucabange ukuthi umyeni wakho ulahlekelwa inzalo kuwe, noma c) uqale ukukhononda kubangani bakho noma umndeni wakho mayelana nenkinga. Udinga ukufunda kancane mayelana nenkinga nezixazululo ezikhona, futhi-okuyingxenye ebaluleke kunazo zonke futhi ebaluleke kakhulu-xhumana nomlingani wakho mayelana nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalokhu njengeqembu.
Izimpawu eziningi ze-Sclerosis ezingaphazamisa impilo yakho yobulili
Amadoda ahlala ne-multiple sclerosis angathola noma yikuphi (noma eziningana) zalezi zimpawu ezingathinta i-libido yabo nokuphila kwakho kobulili:
- Ukulahlekelwa kwe-libido (intshisekelo kwezocansi)
- Ukwehla kokuzwela epeni
- Ukubunzima ukuthola / ukugcina i-erection
- Ukubunzima kunama-orgasms
- Kunzima nge-ejaculation (i-orgasm eyomile)
- Ukukhathala
- Kunzima ngokunyakaza / izikhundla ezihilelekile kwezocansi ngenxa yobuhlungu noma ubuhlungu besisu
Yini Ongayenza?
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokwelashwa nokwelapha ukusiza amadoda ahlangabezana nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Ezinye zazo zihilela izinto ezilula ongazenza ekhaya kanti abanye kubandakanya ukubona udokotela noma ukuthatha imithi.
Izifo zasekhaya: Vibrators ingasetshenziswa kowesifazane uma umyeni wakhe enenkinga yokugcina ukulungiswa. Abanye bangase bazizwe bengalondekile ngale ndlela, kodwa uma umcela ukuba akusebenzise, angase akuthole evusela kakhulu. Amadoda angasebenzisa futhi ama-vibrators ekungeneni kwesilwane uma lokhu kungase kube nentshisekelo kuwo. Ungakhohlwa ukuhlelwa komlomo nokuhle okudala. Lezi zindlela zokuya ocansini ezingenayo zinganikeza izindlela zokugqugquzela noma yikuphi umlingani.
Imithi yomlomo: I- Viagra neminye imithi ingasiza abantu ukuba bafinyelele futhi balondoloze ama-ections, futhi baphumelele ngamaphesenti angama-50 wamadoda ane-MS. Ukuze usebenze, lo muntu kumelwe azizwe evukile, okungase kudinga ukuvuselelwa okubhaliwe nezinye izinto zangaphambili.
Imijojo Engenayo: Le mithi ijojowe ngaphansi kwesipenisi. Ngokungafani nemithi yomlomo, i -jectjectables ikhiqiza ukulungiswa phakathi kwemizuzu embalwa, ngisho noma kungekho ukugqugquzela okwenzekile okwamanje.
I-Penile Treatments: Amadivaysi ahlukahlukene angafakwa efeni ngudokotela ukuze asize nge-erections.
Imisipha Yokuphumula Nemithi Yokuphuza: Le mithi ingasetshenziselwa ukusiza ama-spasms nobuhlungu obungaphazamisa ucansi.
Isihluthulelo Sokuzijabulisa Ngocansi nge-MS: Ukuxhumana Okuvulekile
Lokhu yiyona ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yesisombululo sokungasebenzi komzimba ngokocansi, futhi ngokuvamile kunzima kakhulu. Abesilisa abane-MS kungenzeka ukuthi sebevele behlangabezana nolaka oluthile, ukuhlazeka, ukukhathala nokudabuka ngenxa yenguquko emzimbeni wabo, ngakho-ke kungenzeka kube nezindawo ezimbi ukuqala ingxoxo mayelana nokungasebenzi kocansi.
Kungumsebenzi wakho ukuqinisekisa umyeni wakho ukuthi uyamthokozisa futhi ukuthi lokhu akuyona nje inkinga yakhe, kodwa into oyisebenzisayo ndawonye. Futhi, nakuba lokhu kungase kube inselele kubo bobabili, ungase uthole ukuthi ubudlelwane bakho buqina (no-steamier) ngemuva kwalolu daba.
Imithombo:
I-National Multiple Sclerosis Society. Ubulili. Kusuka ku-MS Information Sourcebook. UTanya Radford, MS kanye no-Intimacy. I-National Multiple Sclerosis Society