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Uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze lapho ukhuluma nomuntu oyisithulu noma onzima wokuzwa ? Abantu abaningi abazwayo bazizwa bengakhululekile noma bekhungathekile bezama ukuxhumana nabantu abayizithulu / ikakhulukazi, ikakhulukazi uma kungekho ohumushi. Kukhona ukuthuthukiswa ongakwenza ukuze unciphise ukungaboni kahle nokukhungatheka.
- Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba
- Ukuthuthukiswa kwemvelo
- Ukuthuthukiswa komlomo
- Ukuthuthukiswa okungabonakali
Ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma uhlangana nomuntu oyisithulu kungabaluleka ikakhulukazi ezimweni eziphuthumayo ezifana nephepho uKatrina. Isibonelo, umuntu oyisithulu utshele iHouston Chronicle (ngoSeptemba 11, 2005) ukuthi lapho abagibeli abayizithulu bebhalisa i-Houston Astrodome, imigqa yayisinde futhi abantu abayizithulu babengenalo indlela yokuxhumana ngaphandle kwabakholisi.
Yenza Ukuthuthukiswa Kwemvelo
Izinguquko ezilula ekubukeni kwakho nezenzo zakho zingathuthukisa ukuxhumana. Isibonelo, ukunciphisa amadevu kanye / noma intshebe ukuze kungavimbele umlomo, kwenza umfundisi noma umphathi ukuba afunde ngokulula. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubuso bakho bungabonakala nokuthi awunawo emlonyeni wakho, kuyasiza futhi.
Ngombono wami, umuntu ozwayo akufanele akhothamele ukukhuluma ngoba kungamcasula umuntu oyisithulu / ozwayo. Ukugoba phansi futhi akuthuthukisi ukuxhumana futhi, empeleni, kungenza kube nzima nakakhulu.
(Umuntu othile ozwayo wangitshela ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kufana kakhulu nomuntu okhuluma isiNgisi okhexela ucingo kumuntu wangaphandle.) Thatha ipedi encane nopeni noma ezinye izindlela zokuxhumana ngokubhala njengedivayisi ephathekayo enezinhlamvu Uhlelo olufana ne-Notepad. Amafoni amaningi afana ne-T-Mobile Sidekick afika namakhono okubhala amanothi.
Yenza ngcono imvelo
Ukulawula imvelo kungasiza futhi ukuxhumana. Qinisekisa ukuthi isikhundla sakho sihle ngokuhlobene nomthombo wokukhanya. Ukukhanyisa okuhle nokuhle kahle kusiza ekuboneni inkulumo nezibonakaliso. Hlola izinga lomsindo njengoba umsindo ungaphazamisa ukuqonda. (Mayelana Nezinzwa / I-HOH ine-athikili e- Classroom Acoustics ).
Esikhathini seqembu, qiniseka ukuthi umuntu oyedwa kuphela okhuluma ngesikhathi. Uma unamabhodi atholakalayo, bhala amanothi kuso. Lungiselela futhi usakaze ama-ajenda emihlanganweni kusengaphambili. Esihlangenweni sami somuntu siqu, inqubo enhle nakuba engaphelele kuyindlela yokuzwa umuntu one-laptop ehlezi eceleni komuntu oyisithulu futhi athathe amanothi njengoba ungathanda inkulumo yekolishi.
Yenza ngcono ama-Verbal
Umbono wami wukuthi ukukhuluma kancane kancane kusiza usizo. Abanye abantu abayizithulu bakhetha inkulumo evamile. Kungase kudingeke uphinde uphinde ulandise. Ukuze kube nzima umuntu ozwayo, ekhuluma ngokukhamuluka kodwa engakhamuluki, angasiza. Ungaphrofetho inkulumo yakho. Ngesizathu esithile, "Ungakwazi yini ukufunda izindebe?" kubonakala sengathi ngiyazidela. Ngiyathanda ukuthi abantu abazwayo bangivumele ngitshele ukuthi ngiyakwazi yini ukufunda. Ngiyakwazi, kodwa kuphela kuze kube iphuzu. Sebenzisa ulimi lwezandla uma wazi noma yisiphi isibonakaliso ngisho nje kuphela nge- alphabet yolimi lwezandla .
Yenza Ukuthuthukiswa Okungabonakali
Ukukhulumisana okungabonakali kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abangezithulu / abathintekayo, abathola ulwazi oluningi ngalokhu. Sebenzisa ukuboniswa komzimba, nokuthinta. Kungadingeka uthinte umuntu oyisithulu ehlombe, ingalo, noma umlenze ukuze anakekele uma besondelene nawe. Uma kungenjalo, kungase kudingeke ukuba uqhube phansi unyawo lwakho phansi noma ukhanyise ukukhanya.
Ekuphetheni, umuntu ozwayo ongakaze ahlangane nomuntu oyisithulu ngaphambili akudingeki abe nomuzwa ongenandaba noma okhungathekile. Kunezinhlelo eziningi zokusebenzisa. Ukuzwa abantu kungakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu abayizithulu / abanzima abantu abazwayo ngisho noma abazi ulimi lwezandla.
Funda izinsiza eziningi
- Ukuxhumana nabantu abayizithulu: A Primer - Leli khasi lineziphakamiso eziningi namaqiniso afaka phakathi nokuthi amaphesenti angu-40 kuphela enkulumo ayabonakala.
- Ukulalela Abantu Kuphela - Leli bhuku elidala eliye lasiza abantu abaningi abazwayo ukuba baqonde ukungazizwa. Isihloko siyazichaza.