Kusukela lapho indodana yami eyi-autistic, uTom, iba yintsha, ngiye ngazwa ngokubaluleka kwe "Ikhono Lokuzimela Elizimele." Njengomama omuhle, impela, ngifuna uTom aphile ngokuzimela ngangokunokwenzeka - ngakho ngaqala ukubheka incazelo yeZakhono Zokuphila Ezizimele ukuze uthole ukuthi lisho ukuthini igama. Ngaqala ukucabanga ukuthi "Amakhono Okuphila Okuzimele" okubhekiswe kumakhono amasha kanye nabantu abadala asebekhulile kudingeka adlule ngosuku - kodwa kukhona (noma kungaba khona) kakhulu.
Izinhlobo zeZakhono Zokuphila Ezizimele
Into yokuqala engiyifunde yukuthi igama elithi "amakhono okuphila okuzimele" alisebenziswanga yonke indawo - futhi uma lisetshenzisiwe, kungase kusho izinto ezahlukene kubantu abahlukene. Kunezilinganiso eziningi zokuhlola nokuhlolwa. Ngokuvamile, Amakhono Okuphila Okuzimele adiliziwe abe amanye amakhono amakhono ahambayo - njengalawa:
- Amakhono okuphila (ngokuvamile ayisisekelo samakhono amalanga afana nokukwazi ukungena endlini yangasese, ukugqoka, ukudla, njll)
- Amakhono okusebenza (ngokuvamile amandla okusebenza esimweni esivamile njengoklasini, yokudlela, ibhasi, njll ngaphandle kokudinga ukusekelwa okhethekile ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele futhi uthathe isenzo esifanele; ukwenza indlela yokudlela esikoleni kuyoba ikhono elisebenzayo)
- Amakhono okuzilibazisa noma ezokungcebeleka (ahlukahluka kakhulu, kodwa angabandakanya ukuya kuma-movie, ahlanganyele emdlalweni wezemidlalo, eya emtatsheni wezincwadi, njalonjalo.)
- Ukuqashwa noma amakhono okufundisa (konke okuvela ekuziphatheni nasekugqoka ngendlela efanele ukuze usebenze ngesikhathi, ukuxhumana nabanye emsebenzini, nokwenza umsebenzi)
- Amakhono ezenhlalakahle noma ezokuxhumana (lokhu kungasho ukubingelela abantu ngendlela efanele, kodwa kungabandakanya nanoma yini ekusingatheni ubudlelwane bomshado nezindlela ezifanele zokuxhumana nomqeqeshi noma ilungu lomunye umuntu)
- Amakhono ezobuchwepheshe (ungasebenzisa ifoni? Ikhompyutha? Ungabheka ulwazi, ukhokhe izinto ezintweni ezisemuva, njll?)
Ngamunye wala maqembu amakhono, Yebo, enziwe ngamaqembu amaningi amakhono amancane. Ukuya kuma-movie, isibonelo, kungabandakanya ikhono lokuthola uma i-movie idlala, yiya kumabhayisikobho ngesikhathi, ukhokhe ithikithi, uthenge ukudla, ubuke i-movie ngokufanele, bese ubuyela ekhaya futhi. Kungase kubandakanye ukugqoka nokugqoka ngaphambi kokushiya indlu, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umnyango uvaliwe (kodwa ukuthi izihluthulelo ziphaketheni lakho) njalonjalo.
Ukuhlola Ingane Yakho
Ngenxa yokuthi akukho ukuhlolwa okukodwa okunikezwe ebhodini, ukuhlolwa okunikeziwe wena noma ingane yakho kungase kube jikelele futhi kuhloswe wonke umuntu oneminyaka engu-14-22 (noma ngaphezulu). Ngenxa yalokho, ezinye zokuhlola zibonakala zihlanganisa zonke ikhono elikhulile elikhulile elihlala likhaya labo ngaphandle kokusekelwa noma yini engayidinga ukuze iqhaza ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izici zokuphila.
Ngenkathi amanye amakhono ahlongozwayo ayisisekelo (izinwele ze-brushing, isibonelo), amakhono amaningi achazwe kulezi zivivinyo angaphezu kwamaphesenti angu-99 abantu abasha abasha noma abasha abasebancane ngisho CINGA ukwenza. Ukuhlolwa kwamakhono okuphila okusebenzayo, isibonelo, kuqala ngezinto eziyisisekelo - ukuhlanzeka, ukugqoka, ukudla, ukuzilungisa - kodwa-ke kuya phambili kwamakhono amaningi kakhulu avela kolwazi oluningiliziwe lokulungisa ikhaya ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nezimo eziphuthumayo zezokwelapha.
Ngokweqile, ngemuva kokuthatha ukuhlolwa kokuhlolwa kwamakhono okusebenza okusebenzayo, ithimba le-IEP (noma elinye ithimba lokunakekelwa uma umuntu engaphezu kuka-22) uzosetha izinhlelo ezithile zokufundisa lawo makghono. Ngakho-ke, kumuntu ongakakwazi ukuphatha indawo yokudlela, umgomo ungase wephule amakhono okubandakanya ukuthatha ithreyi, ukhethe ukhetho, ukukhokhela ukudla, ukuthatha ukudla etafuleni, udle ngokufanele, bese ubhaxabana itafula. Lowo muntu angase abe nemigomo eyengeziwe ehlobene nokuxhumana, ukuhamba, nokunye.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekutholeni imigomo kanye nezinsizakalo ezinjalo ukusetha ukuthatha ukuhlolwa; izinyathelo ezilandelayo, noma kunjalo, kungase kube nzima ukufaka indawo.
Kunzima ukucabanga noma yiluphi uhlelo olungase lufundise noma ubani indawo yonke yeZakhono Zokuphila Ezizimele - nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi ezinye ziphumelela.