Nakuba amagama akwazi ukuveza ngokugcwele ukuthi umuntu usho ukuthini, ulimi lungaqhubeka lunikeza induduzo, induduzo, ithemba kanye nokuphefumulelwa emva kokufa komuntu othandekayo. Lapha uzothola iqoqo elikhethiwe lamaphuzu kanye namazwi mayelana nosizi olubangelwa ukulahlekelwa umngane.
Indlela Ama-Quotes Angasiza Ngayo Ngemva Kokulahlekelwa Umngane
Uma ulahlekelwa umngane omuhle, ungase utholakale ekulahlekelweni kwamazwi.
Ungabonisa kanjani ngempela okusenhliziyweni yakho? Ngezinye izikhathi ezinjengalezi, ukuba nezincaphuno kungasiza kakhulu. Ungase uthole lokhu kokusebenzisa uma ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy noma ye-condolence, ikakhulukazi uma unenkinga yokuthola amagama afanele futhi udinga ugqozi.
Ngezinye izikhathi, izingcaphuno ezivela emacaphuni angakunika amagama aveza inhliziyo yakho lapho ekhuluma nabanye abathandekayo. Isibonelo, usebenzisa i-quote evela kuJohn Taylor okubalwe ngezansi, ungase ukwazi ukutshela othandekayo ocela ukuthi uyakhala, kodwa ukuthi ujabula ukuthi uzophinde uhlangabezane naye ngemuva kweveli.
Okokugcina, ukubheka izingcaphuno kungakusiza ekusizini kwakho kwangasese, ngokunikeza amagama imizwa enhliziyweni yakho.
Iziqu Zokuphefumula Ngokufa komngani
Wonke umuntu uhlukile, futhi ukucaphuna okubonisa ukuthi kunenjongo eyodwa, kungenzeka ukuthi kungenjalo. Ngakho-ke, sabelana izingcaphuno eziningana kubantu abaye baphawula ngemizwa yabo ngokulahlekelwa umngane.
U-Aristophanes , umdlali wezemidlalo wamaGreki
Abangani bakho abalahlekile abafile, kodwa ngaphambili; iqhubekile esiteji noma ezimbili kulowo mgwaqo okufanele uhambe kuzo izinyathelo abazitholayo.
UJohn Taylor , osombusazwe waseMelika kanye nenenamankulu
Ngenkathi sisalila ukulahlekelwa umngane wethu, abanye bayathokozisa ukumhlangabeza ngemuva kwesihenqo.
U-Edward Young , umbongi waseNgilandi
Kodwa izigwebo eziqhamukayo abangane abathandekayo kumele bahlukane.
URichard Bach , umbhali waseMelika
Ingabe amamayela angakuhlukanisa nakanjani nabangane ... Uma ufuna ukuba nomuntu omthandayo, awusenayo kakade?
U-Arthur Schopenhauer , isazi sefilosofi saseJalimane
Ubuhlungu obujulile obuzwa ekufeni kwayo yonke imiphefumulo enobungane kubangelwa ukuzwa ukuthi kukhona kuwo wonke umuntu into engaqondakaliyo, ehlukile kuye kuphela, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ulahlekelwe ngokuphelele futhi ngokungazelelwe.
I-Stone Temple Abashayeli bezindiza , iqembu lama-American rock
Uma kufanele ufe ngaphambi kwami, buza ukuthi ungaletha umngane.
Isaga sesiJalimane
Ukufa komngane kufana nokulahlekelwa isilwane.
Umbhali akaziwa
Kuthatha okwesikhashana ukuthola umuntu okhethekile, ihora lokuwazisa, nosuku lokubathanda, kodwa kuthatha isikhathi sonke sokuphila ukuwakhohlwa.
UHenri JM Nouwen , umbhali waseDutch nompristi wamaKatolika
Uma sizibuza ngobuqotho ukuthi ubani umuntu empilweni yethu kusho ukuthi sithandwa kakhulu, sivame ukuthola ukuthi yibo labo, esikhundleni sokunikeza iseluleko, izixazululo, noma ukuphulukiswa, bakhethe kunalokho ukwabelana ubuhlungu bethu futhi bathinte amanxeba ethu ngomfudumalo isandla sethenda. Umngane ongathula nathi ngomzuzwana wokuphelelwa yithemba noma ukudideka, ngubani ongahlala nathi ngesikhathi sokudabuka nokushonelwa, ongakwazi ukubekezelela ukungakwazi, ukuphilisa, ukuphulukisa nokubhekana nobuqiniso bokungabi namandla, lowo ngumngane okhathalelayo.
UJean Antoine Petit-Senn , imbongi yaseFrance-iSwitzerland
Lapho abangane bethu bephila, sibona izimfanelo ezinhle ezingenalo; sife, sikhumbula kuphela labo ababenakho.
UJohn Gay , imbongi yaseNgilandi, nomdlingozi
Ngicela ungithethelele! uyazi inhliziyo yami
Kodwa abangane abathandekayo, hamba! kumele ihlukane
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry , umbhali waseFrance nombongi
Ngosuku lokungcwatshwa akukho mbono-ngoba isikhala ngokwayo sibhujiswa. Umngane wakho ofile usengumuntu ohlangene. Usuku omngcwaba ngalo usuku luyimisebenzi yemisebenzi kanye nezixuku, ezandleni zamanga noma ezingokoqobo ukuze zizanyazanyiswe, ukukhathazeka okusheshayo kokulila. Umngane ofile ngeke afe ngempela kuze kube kusasa, lapho ukuthula kukuzungeza futhi.
Khona-ke uyozibonakalisa ephelele, njengoba ebenjalo-ukuziqhaqhazela, njengalokho ayeyikho, kusukela ebusweni bakho. Khona-ke uzokhamuluka ngenxa yalowo oshiya futhi ongamgodli.
URobert Southey , umbhali waseNgisi, nomlobi
Akukho bude bendawo noma ukuphela kwesikhathi kunganciphisa ubungane balabo abathinteka ngokuphelele.
Homer , imbongi yesiGreki
Ububunzima abukhulu kakhulu ukufela umngane, njengokuthola umngane ofanele ukufa.
USteven Wright , umculi waseMelika
Nganginomngane owayeyi-clown. Lapho eshona, bonke abangane bakhe baya emngcwabeni emotweni eyodwa.
URichard Bach , umbhali waseMelika
Ungakhathazeki ngama-goodbyes. Ukuhlehliswa kuyadingeka ngaphambi kokuthi uphinde uhlangane. Futhi ukuhlangana futhi, ngemva kwemizuzu noma isikhathi sokuphila, kuqinisekile kulabo abangabangane.
UCharles Caleb Colton , umbhali waseNgisi, nomfundisi
Ubuhlobo beqiniso bufana nempilo enhle; ukubaluleka kwalo akuvame ukubizwa kuze kube yilapho sekulahlekile.
UHenry Fielding , umbhali waseNgisi, nomdlibi
Ukuhamba kwesikhathi kanye nendawo ngokuvamile kuphulukisa lokho okubonakala kubhebhethekisa; futhi ukuthatha ikhefu labangane bethu kufana nokuthatha ikhefu lomhlaba, okushiwo kulo, ukuthi akusilo ukufa, kodwa ukufa, okubi kakhulu.
USt. John Cassian , umonisi ongumKristu
Isibopho phakathi kwabahlobo asikwazi ukuphulwa ngengozi; akukho isikhala sesikhathi noma isikhala esingasichitha. Ngisho nokufa ngokwayo kungabelana nabangane beqiniso.
UHarold Kushner , umfundisi waseMelika nomlobi
Ngezinye zezikhathi ezimnyama empilweni yami, abanye abantu engangicabanga ukuthi bangabangani bangishiya-abanye ngenxa yokuthi bangikhathalela futhi babazwisa ubuhlungu bokungibona ebuhlungu; abanye ngoba ngibakhumbuza ukuthi bangobungozi babo, futhi lokho kwakungaphezu kwalokho abakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Kodwa abangane bangempela banqothula ukuhlukumeza kwabo futhi beza ukuhlala nami. Uma bengenamazwi angenza ngizizwe kangcono, bahlala ngithulile (kungcono kunokuba bathi, "Uzothola ngaphezulu," noma "Akukubi kakhulu; abanye bakwenza okubi kakhulu") futhi ngangibathanda.
Washington Irving , umbhali waseMelika
Okumnandi kuyinto inkumbulo yabangane abade! Njengemifudlana eminyene yelanga eliphumayo, liwela ngesisa, kodwa ngokudabukisayo, enhliziyweni.
UWilliam Penn , uguqukisi waseNgilandi nomsunguli wasePennsylvania
Ukufa kungukuwela umhlaba kuphela, njengabangane abawenza izilwandle; bahlala komunye nomunye. Ngoba kumele abekhona, lolo thando futhi bahlale kulokho okukhona. Kule ingilazi yaphezulu, babona ubuso nobuso, futhi ukuxoxa kwabo kukhululekile futhi kuhlanzekile. Lokhu kuyinduduzo yabangane, ukuthi nakuba kungathiwa bafe, nokho ubungane nomphakathi wabo, ngomqondo omuhle, ukhona, ngoba awufi.
Ngezansi kuma-quotes Mayelana nokulahlekelwa komngane
Usizi oluhambisana nokufa komngane othembekile kunzima ukuveza ngamazwi. Izikhathi eziningi abangane bethu besikhathi sethu, futhi ukulahlekelwa akumele nje ukulahlekelwa ngumuntu othandekayo, kodwa ukufa kwethu siqu. Ukulahlekelwa umuntu ongase afane neminyaka kungase kubangele imibuzo ekhona mayelana nokufa okungase kungabonakali efanele uma umuntu omthandayo omdala efa. Vumela isikhathi esithathayo ukuze ungadabukisi umngane wakho kuphela, kodwa ukuze ubhekane nemibuzo engase ikulethe ukufa kwakhe.
Ukudabuka kuthatha isikhathi, futhi akekho enye indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza usizi. Sonke sizwile ngezigaba zokudabuka, kodwa lezi zigaba aziyona indlela ehambisanayo. Kunalokho, ungase utholakale esiteji esihlukile nsuku zonke, noma ngisho nehora. Yiba nomusa kuwe futhi uzihlanganise ngokwakho ngenkathi uphulukisa.
Ukuhlanganyela izingcaphuno ngendlela yomphakathi, njengendlela eulogy, kuyindlela ongayidumisa ngayo umngane wakho. Ukufunda izingcaphuno zangasese kungakusiza njengoba uhamba ngezinyathelo zokulahleka, njengoba uzama ukulalela lokho inhliziyo yakho ekhuluma.
> Umthombo:
> Moestrup, L., no H. Hansen. Izinkathazo Ezikhona Ngokuphathelene Nokufa: Isifundo Esifanele Sokubulala Abagulayo Esikhungweni Sezibhedlela zaseDenmark. Umagazini waseMelika Wokunakekelwa Kwama-Palliative . 2015. 32 (4): 427-36.