Amathiphu Okuphumelela Ngesikhathi Sokuhlolwa Kwesizwe Sobuhlengikazi

Ukuphunyuka NgeSanity Yakho Nabasebenzi Abangasebenzi

"Umbuso usesakhiweni! Umbuso ulapha!" Uma ususebenze endaweni yokuhlengikaza enekhono isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka, kungenzeka ukuthi uzwe isitatimende esethukile okungenani kanye.

Lezi zinhlolovo ezingapheli zonyaka kanye nophenyo lwesikhalazo zihlolisisa kakhulu ukucindezeleka kokunakekela izakhamuzi, ukuthi zikhona yini isikhungo sokuhlala esifushane, ukukhathazeka komqondo , noma ukunakekelwa isikhathi eside .

Ngakho, usinda kanjani? Yini ongayenza ukuze ube nophenyo oluphumelelayo? Zama ezinye zalezi zeluleko kusuka kulabo abaye khona futhi bahlala ukutshela ngakho.

Amasu Ngaphambi Kokuhlola

Lungiselela Inothi Lokuhlola

Lapho abahloli bezombuso befika, bazokucela ikhasi elilandela ikhasi lelwazi. Hlanganisa konke lokhu kusengaphambili. Uma ulandela Ishidi Lokusebenza Lenkomfa Yezingeniso futhi uqoqe konke futhi uvuseleleke masonto onke, uzozigcina isikhathi esiningi, ukucindezeleka, nokukhanda ikhanda ngokuqeda umsebenzi wokuzama ukuwuthola lapho abacwaningi bekulindele kuwe.

Uyakhuphuka futhi usebenzise

Ukwethuka kungenza ezinye izingqondo zabasebenzi zingabi nalutho, kodwa uma kunamathuba avamile ukuzisebenzisa ukuphendula izinto eziyisisekelo-ezifana nezinqubomgomo zokulawula ukutheleleka , njengokufana nokwabiwa kwesandla nokugcoba izivumelwano-ngokuvamile kuba lula ukuphendula kahle uma umhloli wezindaba ebuza umbuzo.

Izikhumbuzi Ezibhalwe Ngayo

Ezinye izakhiwo zihlinzeka amakhadi kubasebenzi bawo eziqukethe izikhumbuzo ezibalulekile, kufaka phakathi izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlukunyezwa , ukufaka isikhalazo kulesi sikhungo noma ku-agency ejensi, nezinqubo zokugubha umlilo.

Lezi amakhadi zingabanjelwa emuva kwebheji yegama futhi zinyatheliswe ukuze zisize ukukhumbuza abasebenzi ngolwazi.

Kwenze Kulungile Yonke Inyanga Yonyaka

Ngomthamo nokulinganiswa kwemithethonqubo, lokhu kulula ukushiwo kunokukwenza. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile kuzoba lula ukufunda indlela efanele futhi uyenze yonke iminyaka, esikhundleni sokuzama ukukhumbuza abasebenzi ngendlela efanele yokwenza umsebenzi.

Njengoba ukwazi, thola ukuthi ngabe uthathwe uthini oluncane kunalutho futhi uphinde ufundise abasebenzi ngenqubo efanele.

Hlanganisa Ulwazi

Buyekeza ukuhluleka okuvame kakhulu okukhishwayo. Ungasesha ku-intanethi bese ubona kalula izinto ezibalulekile. Kanti futhi, ngokusekelwe ezinkomba zakho zekhwalithi, uzovame ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi abacwaningi abazozibuka ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kuyafaneleka ukuchitha isikhathi ukubuyekeza izinqubomgomo zakho ezihlobene nezinkomba zekhwalithi ezikhangelwe kusukela lezi zindawo cishe zizobuyekezwa.

Amasu Ngesikhathi Sokuhlola

Phefumla

Thatha isikhashana bese nje uthathe umoya ojulile. Faka futhi uphume. Thatha omunye umzuzwana ukukhumbuza osebenza nabo ukuthi baphefumule. Ukuba nabacwaningi ekwakheni kungenza izinto zibe mnandi kakhulu futhi kubalulekile ukunciphisa, ngomzuzu nje.

Khumbuze Wena Kungani Ukhona Lonke Lapha

Ucwaningo lungabangela ukucindezeleka futhi lukhuni, ngokuqinisekile kubahlinzeki bezindlu abahlengikazi, kodwa nakwabahloli. Phakathi nalokhu kucindezeleka, khumbuzana ukuthi abahlinzeki nabacwaningi bafana ngokufanayo ngenxa yezizathu ezifanayo-izakhamuzi-nokuthi zindaba. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzibophezele kukhwalithi yokuphila nokuhle ekunakekeleni izakhamizi zakho. Bambelela kulowo mcabango kulo lonke loluhlelo bese uluvumele ukuthi lulobe izimpendulo zakho nezenzo zakho.

Buza Imibuzo Ecacile

Ungacabangi noma ucabange uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi yini umhloli obuzayo ngempela. Bika umbuzo kubo ngamazwi akho bese ubabuza ukuthi yilokho abakushoyo uma ungaqiniseki. Lokhu kungaba isuleka esibalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uqonda ngokucacile lokho okudingayo futhi kungakunika imizuzwana embalwa ukucabanga ngempendulo yakho ngaphambi kokukhuluma.

Okuncane okuningi

Khumbula lokho okushoyo. Abaphenyi baqeqeshwe ukubhala phansi lokho okushoyo ekuphenduleni imibuzo yabo bese becela isikhashana ukucabanga ukuthi ifomathi impendulo ngeke ikulimaze. Kodwa-ke, ukugembula nokuhlinzeka ngolwazi olungaphandle kwezezinye izimpendulo zemibuzo yabo ngokuvamile.

Ukwesaba kungaba nemiphumela ehlukene yabantu futhi, kubaningi, ukukhuluma okuningi kungaba umphumela. Phendula umbuzo owaceliwe futhi umelane nesilingo sokunikeza ulwazi oluthe xaxa ngaphandle kokuthi ucabange futhi ukholwe ukuthi kuzosiza ukuchaza isinqumo sakho ngesinqumo noma ukuvikela inkambo yakho yesenzo.

Thola Usizo kumngane osebenza naye

Ngezinye izikhathi, izingxoxo nabacwaningi bangase bazizwe besabisa kakhulu, cishe njengokungathi uphenywa. Uma ungaphakathi kwengxoxo enzima, tshela, "Ngicela ungithethelele isikhashana," bese ubuyela emuva kanye nomsebenzi osebenza naye ukukusiza ukuthi uphendule imibuzo yabahloli.

Leli cala alifanelekile uma umbuzo oyisisekelo ucelwa, njengokuthi, "Wenzani uma usola ukuhlukunyezwa?" Lona ngumbuzo wonke amalungu okumele akwazi ukuphendula. Kodwa uma unengxoxo eningiliziwe mayelana nokuwa nokuzama ukuvikela nokuchaza izenzo zendawo, kungasiza kakhulu ukuba nomuntu ongaphezu kweyodwa alalele futhi aphendule imibuzo.

Hlola njalo uhlelo lokunakekelwa

Njalo. Uma ubuzwa ukuthi umuntu uyadlulisa kanjani, hlola uhlelo lokunakekelwa ngaphambi kokuthi uphendule, noma ngabe uyabanakekela nsuku zonke futhi wazi lokhu ukunakekelwa komhlali emuva futhi phambili. Uhlelo lokunakekelwa lungasanda kuguqulwa futhi i-protocol yakho yokudlulisa umuntu kufanele ihlale inesinyathelo sokuqala sokuhlola uhlelo lokunakekelwa.

Khuluma iqiniso

Ungalokothi ulale noma usule iqiniso. Ukuba nabahloli bomsebenzi esakhiweni ekucindezela inkinga kungase kukulinge ukwenza noma yini "ukuphuma enkingeni." Ungalokothi uvumele leso sifo. Funa ulwazi oluthe xaxa. Nikeza amarekhodi amaningi. Cabanga ngokuthi ungavikela kanjani izinsolo zabo. Letha omunye umuntu ukuba akhulume nabacwaningi. Kodwa, ungalokothi uqambe amarekhodi noma ungabi yiqiniso. Akufanelekile ukufaka ingozi emsebenzini wakho, ilayisense yakho, izakhamizi zakho, noma ubuqotho bakho.

Hlala Uchwepheshe

Thatha umgwaqo ophezulu lapho uxhumana nabahlola. Ngeke uvumelane nakho konke okushiwo nokwenziwa. Kodwa, uzomuzwa kangcono ekupheleni kosuku uma ukwazi ukugcina isimo sakho sobuchwepheshe, naphezu kwesimo. Siza abalingani bakho beqembu ngokuhlola nabo kanye nokuxoxisana ngemuva kokuxoxa okunzima.

Yazi Nini Ukuthi "Uncle"

Lokhu kungaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma isimo sibonakala singalungile noma singalungile kuwe. Imizwelo ingakwazi ukugijima futhi kungase kube nezikhathi lapho ungavumelani kakhulu nomhloli wokuhlola. Kuhle ukuvikela isikhundla sakho noma ukuphikisana nephuzu lakho nabacwaningi. Empeleni, lokho kuyingxenye ebalulekile yenqubo yokuhlola. Kodwa, uma uzizwa ushaya lolo donga lwesitini, cishe ngeke kube usizo ukuqhubeka nokuphishekela inkinga.

Yenza iMistake Ebonakalayo

Vuma ukuthi awuphutha uma ukubonakala okucacile kuboniswa kuwe. Ukwenza kanjalo kunganciphisa ukuzivikela kokubili. Isibonelo, kunezikhathi lapho inkinga ingabonakala khona, kodwa kunezinye izikhathi lapho wena noma isikhungo sakho senze iphutha ngokucacile futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuba ngumnikazi. Gcina isimo sengqondo somfundi. Asikaze siphelele futhi singakwazi njalo ukuthuthukisa imikhuba yethu. Singahlala sifunda kabanzi futhi kufanelekile futhi ubuchwepheshe ukuba basuke esikhundleni sokuzivikela esiya endaweni yokufunda.

Nikeza Ulwazi Ngaphambi Kokuphuma

Memezela ngenhlonipho ulwazi ngaphambi kokuba abahloli bashiye isikhungo ukuze bavikele izinsolo kanye nemibuzo ebuzwayo. Ngemva kokuphuma kulesi sikhungo, ngeke bamukele ulwazi olwengeziwe ozama ukukunikeza.

Hlela kabusha i-Experience njenge-Education

Ukuhlela kabusha isipiliyoni kusho ukuthi ushintsha ukuthi ubukeka kanjani. Ukubuka nokubhekana nenqubo yokuhlola njengento yokufunda kungasiza kakhulu. Zama ukukhumbula ukuthi nakuba wena, njengomhlinzeki, ungase ubheke isimo kusuka kumbono ophikisanayo uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho okwenziwa ngumhloli, ungahlala ufunda kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho.

Isibonelo, ukuchaza ukuthi kungani ukungenelela okhethekile okhethiwe ukubhekana nesidingo somhlali kungakusiza uhlunge inqubo yakho yokucabanga futhi mhlawumbe ukhethe ukukhetha ngesikhathi esizayo. Ukuthile okukhonjisiwe kungakusiza ucwaninge izindlela ezintsha nezindlela ezinhle kule ndawo, futhi.

Izwi elivela

Khumbula ukuthi ekugcineni, kusekhona zonke izakhamizi. Inqubo yokucwaninga, ngenkathi ilahlekile, ngezinye izikhathi ingasisiza ukuthi sibone imikhuba engcono futhi senze ushintsho njengoba silwela ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo emkhakheni wokuphila nokunakekelwa okuhle kwabakhileyo bethu.

Ucwaningo lukahulumeni kanye nesifundazwe, ngezinye izikhathi, lungase ludikibale futhi luveze okuhlangenwe nakho, ngeshwa. Ithemba lethu ukuthi lezi zindlela ezingokoqobo zingasiza ekuhlinzekeni ukusekelwa kanye nokukhuthazwa kulabo abasukuma nabasebenza ngokuthembeka ukuze banakekele labo abaphathisiwe kithi.

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