Kuyini ukuHlanganisa / ukuHlala okuMnandi
Ukuvuthwa yisikhathi sezobuchwepheshe sokuthi " ukuqhuma okomile ". Kuchazwa njengomsebenzi wezocansi lapho abantu bethinta khona imizimba yabo. Ukuvuthwa kungenziwa noma ngabe uhamba ze noma wembethe. Incazelo yokwehla okumile, ngamanye amazwi, akucaci ngezinga lokuthintana isikhumba nesikhumba . Kukhona ukubandakanyeka komzimba komzimba.
(Lokhu kuncike ekuvuseni umlingani ngamunye, kanye nokuthi bembethe izingubo ezingakanani.) Ngamanye amazwi, ukuqhuma okomile kungase kungabi "okomile". Kodwa-ke, kuyomile kunomzimba wesifazane noma ubulili!
Ingabe Ukuvuthwa Kuphephile Ngocansi?
Lapho kwenziwa ugqoke, ukukhwabanisa kuyindlela ephephile kakhulu yokuxhumana kocansi. (Hhayi, iphephile uma nje kungekho muntu owela embhedeni ... noma embhedeni). Akukho ukushintshaniswa kwezikhukhula zomzimba noma isikhumba ekukhunjini othintana naye. Ngakho-ke, indlela yokudlulisela isifo se-STD kuphela iyakwanga. Njengalokhu, abantu abaningi bakuthola kuyinto ejabulisayo, imisebenzi yokuqala yobulili nomlingani omusha.
Uma kwenzeka uhamba-ze, noma kunjalo, ukuxubana kungase kuhlotshaniswe nesilinganiso esithile senengozi. Ezinye izifo, ezinjengama- warts omzimba , zingadluliselwa esikhumbeni ukuya esikhunjeni ngesikhathi sesenzo se-humping esomile. Kodwa-ke, ukuqhwaba kusekhona okuphephile kunezinye izinhlobo eziningi zomsebenzi wobulili. Ungenza futhi kube ephephile ngokumboza noma yisiphi isikhumba esithathelwanayo.
Isibonelo, ungagqoka izingubo zangaphansi noma ufake ama-band-aids kuma-bumps angacacisiwe noma izilonda.
Isenzo esifanayo sobulili, okuxoxwa ngokuyinhloko kuma- lesbians , yi-tribadism. Kodwa-ke, i-tribadism ivame ukuchazwa njengokugubha i-vulva emelene nomlenze noma enye ingxenye yomzimba yokugqugquzela ngokocansi. (Lokhu kungenziwa futhi ngowesifazane osemibhangqwaneni engewona abesilisa nabesifazane) Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuxubana akufaki njalo ukugqugquzela ngokobulili okuqondile.
Ngokuqinisekile kungabandakanya ukugqugquzela okunjalo. Ivele ichazwa nje ngokuthi umzimba ugoqa ngaphezulu ngokujwayelekile.
Ubani onokuhluma?
Ukuxosha okumile kuyindlela evamile yokubandakanya ngokocansi phakathi kwentsha kanye nabantu abadala. Kuyinto abantu abazoyijabulela ngayo yonke imibono yezocansi kanye nobulili bobulili. Ukuvuthwa kungenziwa njengento ejabulisayo ngaphakathi kwayo. Ingasetshenziswa futhi njengendlela ye-foreplay ngaphambi kwezinye izinhlobo zokuxhumana ngokocansi.
Ukuvutha akubandakanyi ukungena noma, ngokuvamile, ukugqugquzela ngokobulili ngokuqondile. Ngakho-ke, abanye abantu bangase bangabheki njengendlela yobulili. Kodwa-ke, njengoba kungaholela enjabulweni, ekuvuseni, ngisho nase-orgasm, ngingavumelani. Lokho kusho, konke kuxhomeke kuncazelo yomuntu ngesondo . Ayikho incazelo yendawo wonke wonke umuntu avuma ngakho.
Ukungaxhunyiwe okungavumelekile
Ukuvuthwa kungasetshenziswa njengendlela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Ukuhlunga umzimba okungafaneleki nokungafuneki kuye kwabikwa njengenkinga kokubili ngasese nakwezinye izindawo zomphakathi. Abesifazane abaningi abasha, ikakhulukazi, baye bahlukunyezwa ngale ndlela. Njengazo zonke izinhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni zemizwelo emfushane nangesikhathi eside.
Isifiso sokuqhaqhazela okungavumelani, noma ukususa ama-frotteur, kuye kwahlukaniswa njenge-paraphilia kwi-Manual Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).
Ebizwa ngokuthi i-Frotteuristic Disorder e-DSM-5, ukuxilongwa kudinga ukucabanga ngento ethile, noma ukuxubha ngokumelene nomuntu ongenayo imvume . Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuthokoza kokuqhwaqhazela kokuqapha akubhekwa njengenkinga yengqondo.
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