Ubulili be-PIV bufushane kakhulu ngokuba "ubulili besilisa" ngesondo. Ngamanye amazwi, yinye igama lokulala ngokobulili . Abantu abaningi bachaza ubulili njengobulili lwe-PIV. Le ncazelo iyinkinga.Kubantu abaningi kunabanye imisebenzi eminingi - kubandakanya ubulili bomlomo , ubulili obuyilungu , nokushaya indlwabu . Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngisho nakubantu abesilisa nabesifazane abathandana nabo ngokobulili njengengxenye evamile yokuphila kwabo ngokobulili.
Kodwa-ke, kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngokobulili, abesilisa nabesifazane, nabanye abalingani ngokobulili nabesilisa, kanye nalawo mabhangqwana abesilisa nabesifazane abakhethiweyo abakhethe ukuhlanganyela ne-PIV ngesizathu esisodwa. Lapho abantu bechaza ubulili njengezocansi kuphela, kunciphisa inani lamanye amafomu okusebenza ngokocansi. Futhi kwenza lezo zinhlobo zocansi kube nzima ukuxoxa ngazo.
Uma othisha bezocansi baxoxisana nge-PIV, ngokuvamile babhekisela emlonyeni wesitho sangasese ohilela owesifazane wesilisa wesilisa nobulili wesifazane. Abanye abantu bazophinde bahlathulule ukulala ngocansi njengo-PIV, nakuba lokho kungavamile.
Futhi okubizwa ngokuthi: ubulili besifazane, ubulili bobulili obuhlukile
Okunye ukupela okushiwo : I- PIV
Izibonelo: Ubulili be-PIV yiloluhlobo olulodwa lwezocansi ukuthi, lapho lwenziwa ngabalingani bobulili obuhlukile, lithwala ingozi enkulu yokukhulelwa. Kodwa-ke, cishe zonke izinhlobo zobulili, kufaka phakathi ubulili be-PIV, zingafaka abahlanganyeli engozini ye- STD .
Isifo se-STD
Ubulili be-PIV buza nezingozi eziningana.
Ngaphezu kokukhulelwa, wonke ama-STD avamile angadluliselwa phakathi nalolu hlobo lohlelo lwezocansi. Ngokuvamile, ingozi yokudluliselwa kumlingani wesilisa ukuya kumlingani wesifazane iphakeme kune-vice-versa, kodwa bobabili abalingani basengozini yokuthola i-STD ngesikhathi socansi lwe-PIV. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela ukuthi, nakuba kuyi- HIV yase-US ihlotshaniswa nokulala komzimba nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, kodwa akuyona yonke indawo.
Emhlabeni wonke, ukulala ngokobulili ngokobulili kuyimbangela ehamba phambili yokudlulisela i-HIV.
Kungenzeka ukunciphisa ingozi yokudlulisa noma ukuthola i-STD ngesikhathi socansi lwe-PIV. Kodwa-ke, kudinga njalo futhi ngendlela efanele ukusebenzisa ikhondomu yesilisa noma ikhondomu yabesifazane njalo lapho ulala nomuntu ongase abe nesifo se-STD. Emibhangqwana eminingi, lokhu kusho ukuziphatha ngocansi oluphephile njalo lapho beya ocansini ngoba ukukhuluma ngomuntu noma ubani angaba ne-STD.
Ngaphandle komongo wobuhlobo bomuntu oyedwa , lapho bobabili abantu bahlolwe khona ngokufanelekile ngama-STD, futhi akekho oye waphambukela noma ngabe uzibeka engozini, i-PIV kufanele ibhekwe njengendlela engozini yokulala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nasezikhulwini ezibalwe ngenhla, ubulili be-PIV bungabeka imibhangqwana engozini yokukhulelwa okungalindelekile noma okungafuneki, okusho ukuthi ukukhulelwa ngokweqile kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ... ngisho noma imibhangqwana inquma ukuthi ayifuni ukusebenzisa amakhondomu .
Inothi Ngegama Lwabulili
Akuwona wonke umuntu one-penis oyindoda, futhi akuwona wonke umuntu onesidumbu owesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi imibhangqwana engewona ocansi, engezona-cis-ngokobulili ingaba ne-PIV ngokobulili. Izingozi, kulezi zimo, zifana nalabo abathandanayo bobulili obuhlukile, abesilisa nabesifazane.
Noma kunjalo, impilo eyodwa, i-hormonal, ne-anatomical izici zingase zithinte ingozi.
I-Debunking Myths Mayelana nama-Orgasms ne-Sex PIV
Kukhona iphutha elingaqondakali lokuthi bonke abesifazane bangakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kusuka e-PIV ngokocansi kuphela. Kuyintokwanekwane. I-Orgasm ayisho lutho mayelana nokuthi bangabe besifazane bajabulela ubulili be-PIV. Abesifazane abaningi abathokozela ngobuqotho ubulili be-PIV abakwazi ukubeka i-orgasm ngaphandle kokugqugquzela okwezinye izici. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle nabo, noma ubulili abanayo. Akusho lutho ngokukhula kwabo ngokomzwelo. Izimpikiswano zama Freudian eceleni, ukucwaninga kwengqondo kuthinta ukuziphatha ngokobulili, kodwa kunjalo ne-biology.
Ukukubeka kalula, abantu ngabanye banamathele ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kwabanye abantu, ukugqugquzelwa kwamanzi okujulile ngesikhathi socansi uzizwa kangcono. Abanye bakhetha ukukhuthazwa kwe-clitoris. Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngo-2017 lwabesifazane abangaphezu kwenkulungwane e-US lithola ukuthi amaphesenti angu-18 kuphela athi babenemisipha yobulili e-PIV yodwa. Amaphesenti angamashumi amathathu nesithupha abika ukuthi adinga ukugqugquzelwa kwe-clitoral. Omunye amaphesenti angamashumi amathathu nesithupha athi angaba ne-orgasm ne-PIV yobulili, kodwa lokho kuvuselela kwe-clitoral kwenze ngcono ama-orgasm. Umzimba wonke umuntu uhlukile. Yilokho abakuthandayo ngesikhathi socansi. Abanye abantu bafuna ukuqina kanye ne-orgasms. Abanye bakhetha ukwakha kancane nokuncipha.
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