Kulabo abadabukisayo ukufa komuntu othandekayo, amaholide angabonisa ubunzima ikakhulukazi . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukulahlekelwa kwenzeke, sivame ukuzwa ukungabi khona kwamalungu omndeni othandekayo, umngane noma isilwane kakhulu kakhulu phakathi noSuku Lokubonga ngenxa yezinkumbulo zethu zeholide, amasiko nemikhuba ephathelene naye. Nazi imibono engu-30-eyodwa ngosuku ngalunye ngoNovemba-ukukusiza ukuba udumise futhi ukhumbule othandekayo wakho oshonile futhi uthole ukuthula ngaphambi, ngosuku nangemva kweSuku Lokubonga.
Ukuhlonipha Othandekayo Wakho Nge-Thanksgiving
- Ukubhala phansi imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho kuvame ukubonisa indlela ephumelelayo yokubhekana nosizi . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ukusebenzisa ikhompiyutha noma ipeni nephepha, bhala izintandokazi zakho ze-Thanksgiving izinkumbulo ezizungezile othandekayo wakho, futhi uqhubeke ungeza okufakiwe ngesikhathi seholide minyaka yonke ngemuva kwalokho.
- Imiphakathi eminingi ibamba ukuhamba ngemali / ukugijima phakathi kweholidi lokubonga, ngakho-ke cabangela ukuhlanganyela ekuhambeni / ukugijima ukusekela imbangela yakho ethandekayo, noma ukusiza ukuthola ukwelashwa kwesifo / isifo esafa kuso. Ukuzivocavoca kungasiza futhi ukucabangele ukulahlekelwa kwakho futhi usebenze amanye alawo makhukhi okudlalwa ngu-Thanksgiving.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzokwamukela umkhosi we-Thanksgiving ekhaya lakho, yakha ibhodi lememori futhi uyibonise.
- Shiya isitulo esingenalutho nendawo yokubeka endaweni etafuleni lakho lokuholide ekukhunjweni komthandekayo wakho. Uma lesi senzo sibonisa inselelo enkulu ngokomzwelo, ungayeka futhi ukubeka amapuleti nesiliva etafuleni bese ubeka isihlalo esingenalutho eceleni.
- Ngesikhathi sokudla kweholide, nikeza inhlawulo ekhethekileyo enkumbulweni yomthandi wakho kanye / noma ubuze amalungu omndeni wakho nabangane etafuleni ukwabelana ngezintandokazi zokukhumbula izinkumbulo zomuntu oshonile, uma uzizwa.
- Nika ukudla noma ukudla okuphelele kumuntu ongase alambile lokhu ku-Thanksgiving, noma enze umnikelo wezimali enhlanganweni edla labo abadinga usizo.
- Uma isimo sesimo sezulu kanye nenkathi endaweni yakho evumela, tshala umuthi ekukhunjweni komuntu oshonile ukuba ube yisikhumbuzo esiphilayo sokuthandana kwakho enhliziyweni yakho-hhayi kuphela ku-Thanksgiving kodwa nsuku zonke zonyaka.
- Uma ubamba imikhosi yamaholidi, khanyisa ikhandlela elikhethekile noma isibani esincane kagesi ekhaya lakho, mhlawumbe eceleni kwesithombe ozithandayo, njengesikhumbuzo esithulile esibonisa ukuba khona komuntu othandekayo enhliziyweni nasengqondweni yakho ngesikhathi sokubonga.
- Ukusebenzisa isofthiwe yekhompyutha, yenza ividiyo yentela kusuka ezithombeni zakho ozithandayo kanye / noma ividiyo ekhona yabathandekayo bakho, uyibeke kumculo bese uwabelana namalungu omndeni wakho nabangani emva kokudla.
- Uma ucelwa ukuba ulethe isidlo sokudla, lungisa ukudla okuthandayo okuthandayo futhi wenze lokhu kwaziwe ukuthi abantu bayidlulisa eduze kwetafula.
- Buza amalungu omndeni nabangane ukuthi bakusize ukuba wenze "i-capsule yememori" ngokunikela ngezinto ezihlotshaniswa ezihlotshaniswa nomuntu othandekayo-njengamakhadi, izincwadi, izithombe, imidwebo, njll. Beka esitokisini esiqinile bese usifaka endaweni yakho emva kokubamba umkhosi omncane noma ukwabelana imemori eyintandokazi, uma ufisa, ngemuva kokunquma ngekusasa "ungavuli kuze kube" usuku.
- Zizinikele isikhathi sakho ukusiza inhlangano yenkonzo yasendaweni noma indawo yakho yokukhulekela ifeze umgomo wayo wokusiza labo abadinga uSuku Lokubonga.
- Impelasonto ende yeholide inikeza ithuba elikhulu lokuhlanza i-closet yakho noma i-dresser bese unikela ngezingubo zakho ezisebenzisekile ngesikhumbuzo somuntu omthandayo, ikakhulukazi amajackethi, amajazi, amagilavu, izigqoko, njll, kwabanye abangase bazuze kubo njengezindlela zezulu ezibandayo .
- Izibhedlela, izindlu zomngcwabo, amasonto nezinye izindawo zokukhulekela ngokuvamile zigcina izinsizakalo zokukhumbuza kwi-Thanksgiving noma eduze. Ngenxa yokuthi amaholide angaba yinselele kubantu abathandekayo, bahlanganyele enkonzweni yokukhumbuza kulo nyaka, okuvame ukufaka umculo, ukuvuselela kanye / noma ukufundwa kwezenkolo, kanye nezinye izikhathi ezikhethekile zokusiza izinsizi ukuba zihloniphe futhi zikhumbule abathandekayo babo abashiyiwe.
- Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla, ukuzivocavoca kunika izinzuzo eziningi, ikakhulukazi emva kokudla okudinga usuku lokubonga i-Thanksgiving, ngakho-ke hamba ngaphandle futhi uhambe eduze nomakhelwane wakho noma uvakashele epaki ohlangene nelungu lomndeni othandekayo kanye / noma isilwane.
- Okushiwo yiSuku Lokubonga Ngukubonga ukubonga ngezibusiso ezimpilweni zethu, kubandakanya amalungu omndeni nabangane. Kulo moya, yakha futhi unikeze izikhumbuzo zesikhumbuzo kulabo ababazi abathandekayo bakho, njengamakhemikhali amakhemikhali angasese, izikhumbuzo zewindi lesikhumbuzo , izithombe eziqoshiwe, amatshe angasesikhumbuzo, izinto ezenziwe ngesandla, njll.
- Ngaphambilini, imindeni ivame ukukhetha ukubuka i-movie ye-Thanksgivings yangaphambili, amaholide noma ezinye izikhathi ezinengqondo. Uma uzizwa uphelele, hlanganisa wonke umuntu ndawonye, cima umdlalo webhola kanye namadivaysi akho ahlukahlukene aphethwe ngesandla bese ubheka ukuqhuma-kusuka-okudlule kunoma yiluphi uhlobo olutholakalayo.
- Yenza umnikelo wezezimali ngenxa yokuthi abathandekayo bakho bayongamela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi egameni lakhe noma ngokungaziwa.
- I-Thanksgiving yisikhathi sokubonga kodwa abaningi bathola ukuthi lokhu kunzima kunikezwe izimo zabo. Ngakho-ke, "thola" umndeni onenhlanhla , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenzisa isonto lakho noma enye inhlangano yezinsizakalo zendawo, futhi usize wenze iholidi lakho likhumbule ngokukhumbuza othandekayo wakho.
- Ngemuva kokudla kweholide, faka inothi elibhalelwe othandekayo wakho ebhaluni eligcwele i-helium bese ulikhulula ngaphandle kwamalungu omndeni nabangani bakho abakhona. Lesi senzo ngokuvamile sibonisa i-cathartic engaphezulu kunakho ongacabanga.
- Ngesikhathi seviki elide leholide, vakashela emathuneni omthandi wakho noma indawo lapho uhlakaze khona izinsalela zokushisa , uxoxe naye ngemizwa yakho bese ushiya ezinye izimbali noma i-memento ukukhombisa ukuhlala kwakhe okuqhubekayo enhliziyweni nasemqondweni wakho. Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokuhlanza itshe eliyinhloko noma uphawu lokungcwaba uma isimo sezulu sivuma.
- Ngemuva kokudla kwakho kweholide, bukela i-movie yakho ethandekayo ye-movie , kungakhathaliseki amanye amalungu omndeni nabangani noma wena.
- Dala " umcabango wokukhumbula imemori" ngokubhala izinkumbulo zakho zokubonga zokubonga, imizwa yakho yamanje, izichasiselo ezibonisa izimfanelo zakho ezikhethekile zomuntu omthandayo, noma izinto ozizwa uzibonga emaphepheni amade, amancane amaphepha anemibala (cishe ngo-8 "ubude obuyi-1" phezulu). Ifomu loxhumano lwe-fomu nocezu ngalunye ukuze wenze uchungechunge ongayisebenzisa ukuze uhlele umnyango noma ulifake eludongeni noma eduze komphetho wetafula lakho lokudla.
- Ngokuvamile sihlobanisa iholidi le-Thanksgiving ngokudla okunomsoco kanye nezitsha ezikhethekile, ngakho xhumana nendawo yokubeletha, ikhaya labahlengikazi, indawo yokuhlala noma enye indawo yokunakekelwa esikhathini esithile ukunquma ukuthi ungabhaka / upheke uphinde ukhulule ukukhanyisa iholide lomunye umuntu, njengekhukhi, ama-candi kanye / noma ezinye ukudla okukhethekile.
- Uma uzobamba umkhosi wakho wamaholide kulo nyaka, cela amalungu akho omndeni nabangani esikhathini esithile ukuletha i-memento encane, isithombe sezintandokazi noma inothi lomuntu siqu abangakwazi ukubeka ngethempelini "etafuleni lememori" oyimise endlini yakho kumuntu omthandayo udumo.
- Dala indawo ekhethekile yokwenza izinto usebenzisa izinto ezivela endlini yakho kanye / noma uthenge esitolo sesitokisi, bese ubeka etafuleni leSuku lokuBonga.
- Uma uzizwa uphelele, hamba uhambo lomgwaqo bese uchitha ngempelasonto ende yamaholide endaweni oyintandokazi yakho noma endaweni ethile enenjongo, ukuya emdlalweni wakhe wezemidlalo noma wokuzilibazisa, noma umane wenze umsebenzi owakuthandayo owenza ndawonye.
- Imindeni eminingi ihlobisa izindlu zazo nge-Thanksgiving ngakho yenza umcibisholo wesikhumbuzo semnyango wakho wangaphambili noma ngaphezulu kwendawo yokulala ngokufaka imihlobiso, imihlobiso kanye / noma izithombe zabathandekayo bakho emthonjeni wangempela / wokufakelwa.
- Uma uzizwa uphelele, hlela isikhathi esithile sangasese ngaphambi noma ngemva kokugubha usuku lwakho lokuzijabulisa ukubhala incwadi yothando kubathandekayo bakho bese uphululela imicabango nemizwa ongayichaza uma ngabe ukhona nawe. Ngemuva kwaloko, ubeke uphawu emvilophini bese uyifake endaweni ekhethekile.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenza iziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezandulele noma ucabange ngenye indlela enenjongo yokukhumbula umthandi wakho oshiyile lokhu kuKubonga, isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke ongayinika abathandekayo bakho ukukhumbula nje . Uhlobo olulodwa lokungapheli olutholakala kithi ukuhlala ezinhliziyweni nasezingqondweni zabathandekayo bethu, ngakho-ke, themba izintandokazi zakho futhi wenze lokho okukuzwayo okulungile kuwe.