Ukuyeka ukudabuka akuyona umsebenzi olula. Ukudabuka kuyinto ongase ubambelele ngokuqinile - isikhumbuzi somthandi wakho noma uxhumano kwimemori yabo. Ukukhulula ukubopha kwakho futhi ekugcineni ukunikezela usizi lwakho kungabonakala kuwumsebenzi owesabekayo futhi owonayo kepha kuyinkqubo edingekayo okufanele uyenze ukuze uphinde uphelele.
Ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ukudabuka, kufanele uchithe isikhathi esanele ngaso.
Ukuvumela ukudabuka akuyona into engenziwa ngamasonto ambalwa nje. Kumelwe uqale uvumele isikhathi sokulila, ukukhala, ukukhathazeka, nokulangazelela othandekayo wakho. Inqubo yosizi ibalulekile ekuphulukiseni kwakho futhi akufanele igijime.
Kukhona impilo emva kokudabuka, noma kunjalo. Uma usudlulisele usizi lwakho, uthatha isikhathi sakho ukuvumela imizwa yemvelo ukugeleza kanye nesikhathi sokuzinakekela wena, ungase uvuke usuku olulodwa futhi uzilungiselele ukuqala okusha. Njengoba nje i-Spring ilandela i-Winter, inkathi entsha iqhuma empilweni yakho - inkathi ngaphandle kobuhlungu bansuku zonke nemizwelo yesimiso. Ushintshe futhi ukhule njengomphumela wokulahlekelwa kwakho kanye nenkathi yokudabuka futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuthola entsha futhi uphinde ubuyele emhlabeni.
Izinyathelo Zokusebenza Ngokudabukisayo
Uma usuchithe umthwalo osindayo usizi futhi uqala uhambo lwakho olusha, gcina engqondweni izinyathelo ezinhlanu ezibalulekile okumelwe uthathe:
- Thatha umthwalo wempilo yakho siqu: yisikhathi sokubona ukuthi awusasabhekene nomthandi wakho. Kufanele ushiye noma yiziphi izizathu zokungaqhubeki phambili empilweni futhi uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo we-100% kuwe.
- Shintsha indlela yakho yokucabanga: Manje yisikhathi sokushintsha noma yikuphi ukuzwakalisa ukukhuluma okungalungile kumagama wokuqinisekisa. Shintsha "Angikwazi ukwenza lokho ..." "Ngiyakwenza noma yini!", Futhi "Lokho ngeke kwenzeke ..." kuya "Ngiyakubona lokhu kwenzeka!". Ukuba nesimo sengqondo esifanele sokwenza kungakusiza ngale ndlela entsha.
- Yenza into entsha: Ungumuntu omusha ngakho-ke kufanele uyenze into entsha. Funda ikhono elisha, uhambo oluya ezindaweni ezintsha, wenze into ongakaze ucabange ukuthi uzoyenza. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi awuthandi okuthile noma ucabange ngento efana nokwesabeka, zama nje! Ungase uthole ukuthi ngempela uyayithanda ngemva kwakho konke noma ukuthi ukuthatha ingozi kungaba empeleni kumnandi.
- Hlela imigomo emisha yakho: Beka imigomo emisha ongayenza ukusebenza kuyo. Hlela umgomo owodwa ngonyaka owodwa kusukela manje, omunye iminyaka emibili kusukela manje, nengxenye yesithathu iminyaka emihlanu kusukela manje. Bhala le migomo phansi kumagazini noma uwagcine kukhompyutheni yakho lapho ungathola khona futhi ubuyekeze kaningi. Ukuba nemigomo okufanele uyenze kuyokugcina uhamba endleleni yakho entsha.
- Siza omunye umuntu: Enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ongayenza nazo zonke izifundo ozifundile kusukela esikhathini sakho usizi ukusiza omunye uhambo lwakhe. Ungazivolontiya esikhungweni sokunakekelwa kwesifo esibhedlela noma emphakathini, amaqembu amancane okusekela izinhlungu, noma abe nomngani oyedwa kumuntu oye walahlekelwa ukulimala okulimazayo. Ngeke uthole kuphela umvuzo wokusiza omunye onesidingo, kodwa futhi uzokhunjuzwa kaningi ukuthi ufike kude kangakanani.
Khumbula ukuthi uzoshaya ama-bumps emgwaqweni endleleni. Kuzoba nezinsuku lapho usizi lwakho lubuyela emuva futhi lusongela ukuhamba kwakho phambili. Qaphela lolu daba njengokujwayelekile, vumela ukuthi livakashele isikhashana, bese ulithumela endleleni yakho futhi uqhubeke phansi endleleni yakho yokuphulukisa.