Amathiphu ayisihlanu okusiza abafelwayo abhekane neholidi le-Thanksgiving Day
Usuku lokubonga lungazizwa luhlukume kakhulu kulabo abalila ukufa komuntu othandekayo. Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi umuntu oshonelwe angathola kunzima ukuzwa ukuthi uyakwazisa ngalesi sikhathi sonyaka sokubonga, kodwa amasiko, amasiko kanye nemibuthano esivame ukuhlobanisa neholidi nayo ibuye igcizelele ukuthi ilungu lomndeni othandekayo noma umngane akakho futhi kuhlanganisa imizwa yethu yokulahleka.
Lesi sihloko sinikeza amathiphu amahlanu okukusiza ukuba ubhekane neholide leSuku lokuBonga lokuBonga uma ususizi ngokushona komuntu othandekayo.
Vumela Uthi Cha
Iminyaka eminingi, wena nomndeni wakho nilindele ukuhlangana endlini yakho ngosuku lokubonga. Kodwa kulo nyaka, umcabango wokwenza konke ukuthenga, ukupheka i-turkey kanye nayo yonke imibala, ukubeka itafula nokuhlobisa ikhaya lakho konke uzizwa ukhululekile. Noma mhlawumbe uye wanikela ngesidlo ekudleni okwakhiwa elinye ilunga lomndeni noma umngane, kodwa kulo nyaka inhliziyo yakho ayikho kuwo. Ngenkathi umcabango wokuguqula isimiso sakho seholide sika-Thanksgiving ungase uzizwe unzima, udinga ukucacisa ukuthi unomthwalo wemfanelo onjani okhululekile ukuqhubeka khona manje bese ukhulumisana ngokucacile lokho kumalungu omndeni nabangani bakho. Zibuze ukuthi ufuna nje usizo ngomsebenzi othize noma uma ukhetha omunye umuntu uthathe imithwalo yemfanelo kulo nyaka.
Khumbuza ukuthi kuhle ukuthi "cha" njengoba ulungisa impilo emva kokulahlekelwa nokuthi labo abakuthandayo bayakuqonda.
Kuyeke kuhambe
Iningi lethu lithatha isithombe sengqondo sokuthi iholidi leSuku lokuBonga lizobukeka kanjani. Amabhuku, omagazini, amabhayisikobho, izimakethe zethelevishini kanye nezinkumbulo zethu zobuntwana ngokuvamile zivusa leli phutha ngokudala isithombe sosuku lokugubha usuku lokubonga "ophelele".
Lokhu kungadala ukucindezelwa okuningi, okunye okuwumthombo wokucindezeleka akudingeki ukubhekana nawo okwamanje. Ngakho-ke, zinikeze lokhu kudlulisa ukubonga ngokuzamukela izinto njengoba kunjalo , ngisho noma zingekho ngaphansi kwesithombe seNorman Rockwell ekhanda lakho. Ingabe i-turkey kancane eyomile kulo nyaka? Engeza enye i-gravy. Awukwazi ukufaka amandla amandla okubamba isidlo se-sit-down egcwele etafuleni? Setha i-buffet futhi uvumele abantu bakhonze ngokwabo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, phendulela wena: "Vumela uhambe." Futhi, labo abakuthandayo bayakuqonda.
Qaphela Ukwesaba Kwakho
Ngokuvamile, labo abalila ukubuza ukufa, "Ngingakugwema kanjani ukucabanga ngaye ngesikhathi seholide lokubonga?" Iqiniso liwukuthi awukwazi - ngakho kungani uzama? Esikhundleni sokuvumela ukwesaba ukuthi uzokuqala ukukhumbula othandekayo wakho nokuzizwa udabukile kusho ukuthi iholide lakho, zizame ngamandla ngokufaka inkumbulo yakhe ohlelweni lwakho lokubonga . Isibonelo, faka isithombe ozithandayo sothandekayo wakho kanye nekhandlela elikhanyayo endaweni ekholile ekhombisa ubukhona bakhe ezinhliziyweni zakho usuku lonke. Ingabe abathandekayo bakho bajabulela ukudla okwekhefu? Bese uqinisekisa ukuthi uyayisebenzela ngokuhlonipha kwakhe. Uma uzizwa uphelele, cela umndeni wakho ukuthi wabelane ngezinkumbulo zabo ezizithandayo zomuntu obathandayo ngaphambi noma emva kokudla.
Kuyinto engavamile ukuthi imindeni ibeke indawo yothandekayo oshiye etafuleni - isihlalo esingenalutho esiyisikhumbuzo esibucayi esibonakalayo sokuba khona komuntu othandekayo ezinhliziyweni nasezingqondweni zakho. Emva kokudla (ukuthatha i-tryptophan e-Turkey akukwenzi ukulala), ungase uvakashele amathuna, isayithi lesikhumbuzo noma enye indawo ebalulekile empilweni yomthandi wakho njengomndeni.
Qala okusha
Imikhuba yokubonga esiyakhayo namalungu omndeni nabangane phakathi neminyaka ingase izwe nje njengokungavinjelwa njengemigoqo yejele. Ukubhaka lolo suku olukhethekile lokubonga i-Thanksgiving Day , ukuvuka ekuseni / ukuhlala ekuseni ukuthenga ngoLwesihlanu omnyama, ukubeka izibani zeholide kanye nokuhlobisa, njll., Kungase kuhambisane nemikhumbuzo yakho ye-Thanksgiving enhle kakhulu, kodwa zibuze ukuthi inqubo ethile izoba yini ukuletha injabulo kulo nyaka noma uma nje uzizwa ucindezelekile ukwenza okuthile ngoba uhlale wenza kanjalo futhi abanye balindele.
Uma lo wesithathu, bese ucabangela ukusekela isiko elisha - nje kulo nyaka - lokho kufana namandla akho nemizwa yakho . Cabanga ukuthenga i-pie enomnandi noma efriziwe kulo nyaka, uthengise izipho ku-intanethi, noma ucele ilungu lomndeni noma umngane ukuthi abeke izibani nezihlobiso zakho. Khumbula, ungahlala uphinde uqale isiko lakho langempela ngaphansi komgwaqo uma ungathanda, kodwa ungathola ukuthi isiko elisha ligcwalisa nje.
Yazi Imingcele Yakho
Okokugcina, futhi mhlawumbe okubaluleke nakakhulu, noma ngabe unquma ngokucophelela ukugubha uSuku Lokubonga Ngonyaka, kufanele unqume futhi wazi imingcele yakho kusengaphambili . Isibonelo, uma uchitha usuku lonke ekhaya lelungu lomndeni noma umngane kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi uzozizwa kulo nyaka, khona-ke kuyamukeleka ngokuphelele ukutshela ummemezeli / umnakekeli ukuthi kusengaphambili ukuthi ufuna / udinga ukuhamba ngesinye isikhathi. Uma uvame ukwamukela izimemo eziningana ukuvakashela imikhosi ye-Thanksgiving yamalungu omndeni ahlukene, abangani, omakhelwane, njll, kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi uzoba namandla okwanele kubo bonke kulo nyaka, bese uvuma kuphela ukuya kulabo ofuna ukuhambela - ikakhulukazi imihlangano lapho ucabanga ukuthi uzozizwa ukhululekile ekuhluphekeni kwakho futhi uthole ukwesekwa. Futhi uma ufisa ukukhawulela umsebenzi wakho womphakathi ngoba nje ungathanda ukuba wedwa, khona-ke wazi ukuthi lokhu kujwayelekile, futhi. Kanti futhi, noma ubani othanda ngempela futhi owazi ubuhlungu obhekene nawo uzoqonda.
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