Ngamaholidi asiphezu kwethu, abazali abakhathazekile ngezempilo, isisindo, kanye / noma ukudla kwezingane zabo kungenzeka ukuthi kuleso sikhwama esingokwezifiso: ukuba, noma ukungabi khona, amaphoyisa okudla?
Ngiyeluleka ngokumelene nalo. Kubantwana, ngokuqondene nabantu abadala, ukudla okuhle kanye nempilo enhle akufanele kube izitha ezikhathini ezinhle. Bangakwazi futhi kufanele baqoqe ndawonye.
Mina nomkami sikhulise izingane ezinhlanu, futhi ngiyajabula ngokuthi bonke bakhulile hhayi nje kuphela enempilo futhi bencike, kodwa bathambekele ekudleni kahle.
Lokhu akusikho, ngoba, mina nomkami sasiyizinhlamvu zokudla yonke le minyaka. Esikhundleni salokho, sasebenziseka iqiniso lokuthi amaqabunga anambitha afunda ukuthanda ukudla abakhona.
Ukuqinisekiswa okukodwa ngokucacile kwalokhu kuxabana kuvela engqondweni. Angisakwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi ubani owawubani, noma ngabe kuphi. Kodwa ngiyakhumbula ukuthi mina nomkami sasihlezi ngeqembu elincane, uma kungenjalo, lezingane zethu ezincane kakhulu. Ikhekhe elingenakugwemeka laphuma, futhi ngokubheka kwacaca ukuthi kwakuqukethe okuqukethwe kokushukela okudliwe ngamanye amazwe amancane ngonyaka.
Mina nomkami sibhekana, sizibuza ukuthi kufanele yini sikhuthaze ilungelo lokuphatha labazali, futhi singavumeli lokhu kushukela ngokweqile-okulindeleke kwenzeke. Kodwa sasihlukumeza amahlombe ethu, sahamba ngenye indlela. Kwakuyinkampani, emva kwakho konke, futhi kusukela izingane zethu zingakaze zidle njengalezi ekhaya -zikujabulela ukudlala, kodwa zikhethiwe ngokucophelela, zijwayele ukuzenzela, futhi zihlale zinomsoco kakhulu futhi ziyishukela kancane kuneyena-yikuphi ukulimala okwakungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungavunyelwe ngempela yenzani?
Ngikhumbula, futhi, injabulo enkulu engangiyibona ngibukele amehlo ebantwaneni bami ekhulisa ngenjabulo yokulindela, elinde emgqeni wezintambo zazo.
Kodwa kwafika ukumangala okujabulisayo. Ngamunye wezingane zethu, nelayisense yokuzikhandla, wathatha inkokhelo eyodwa ye-confection, bese ephikisana ubuso bakhe- futhi efuna indawo yokuyikhipha.
Kwakungumnandi kakhulu kunanoma yini abayidla-bayizonda.
Ukuthi i-anecdote ingubufakazi bento ethize yonke indawo futhi inamandla kakhulu: ukujwayela kungenye yezinqumo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthandwa kokudla. Lokhu kuyiqiniso kithi njengabantwana bethu. Yidla kahle unyaka wonke, futhi ngisho nezinkokhelo zakho zekhefu ngeke zivame ukuzithokozisa-hhayi ngenxa yokuziqhenya, kodwa ngenxa yokuthanda. Uma usufunde ukuthanda ukudla okukuthandayo emuva- ukudla okuncane ushukela nosawoti; mahhala amafutha angenampilo; ephakeme fiber; ngezingxube ezimbalwa, ezithokozisayo-kunzima ukuthanda ukudla noma yini enye.
Ngibize inqubo yokufika lapha kusuka lapha "ukunambitheka kwe-bud rehab," (futhi unikeze isiqondiso ekusebenziseni leli khasi encwadini yami, Isifo Sokugula ). Ekuqaleni empilweni omunye wenza lokhu, ngcono; kodwa akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu, noma. Hlanganisa izinqumo zakho, shayela phansi ukudla kwakho ushukela, usawoti, nezithako ezingenasici - futhi ushintshe umlenze wakho ukhethe ukuhamba okuhle kakhulu. Thatha izingane zakho kanye, futhi zizobe zithandwa, njengezingane njalo, ukukukopisha; akukho ama-cops adingekayo.
Iningi lobufakazi bokucwaninga ngokuphathelene nomkhawulo wokudla, indlela esindayo yokulawula ukudla kokudla kwengane, kubonisa ukuthi leli qhinga livame ukubuyela emuva.
Ukulawula ngokuqinile ukudla ukudla kusakaza ukukhathazeka, nokuzikhandla kokuvukela. Kodwa uma ukhetha ukudla okwanele kuphela ekhaya lakho unyaka wonke, ubeka isibonelo ofuna izingane zakho ukuba zilandele, bese uphumule emacimbini- okuphambene nalokho. Usiza izingane zakho zidle kahle njengendaba yokuthandayo, hhayi amaphoyisa.
Imikhosi yamaholide akuyona isikhathi esihle sokuqala ukunambitha i-Bud rehab, wena noma izingane zakho. Ngempela ukuthi sidla kanjani unyaka wonke okuthonya impilo nesisindo. Ngakho phumula, futhi ujabulele amaqembu. Kodwa qaphela ukuthi ukudla okuhle, impilo enhle, nezikhathi ezinhle kungaguqukela - wena nabantwana bakho-ngokumisa izinga elihle unyaka wonke.
Umphumela, ngesikhathi sonyaka wezinsuku zamaholide ezizayo uma kungenjalo kulo nyaka, ungavumela izingane zakho ukuba zifinyelele kulelokhekhe elimnandi, futhi njengabantwana bami- kunethuba elihle lokuthi ngeke bakwazi ukuligwinya. Ngokudabukisayo, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusihumushela abazali ukuba babe nekhekhe lethu-futhi silidle, futhi!
Amaholide amahle.