Abazali be-autism bathanda ukuthini? Ngesikhathi wonke umuntu ehlukile, amathuba ukuthi uzothola ezinye izici zakho (noma omunye owaziyo) kulawa "hlobo" lomzali we-autism.
Izinhlobo zabazali abanezingane ezigunyazayo
UMartyr. Unomntwana onokukhubazeka, futhi uzokwenza noma yini ongakwenza - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani, kubiza noma kubuhlungu - ukumsiza.
Usuke wafuna wonke udokotela, uchwepheshe, kanye nokwelashwa endaweni engamakhilomitha ayikhulu, futhi ucabanga ngokujulile ngokuhamba izwe elihamba phambili ukuze uthintane nesazi se-autism eCalifornia esiza kakhulu.
Ukuzinikezela kwakho kuphelele , okusho ukuthi kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuthola isikhathi, amandla, imali, noma isifiso sokuphishekela izithakazelo zakho noma ukutholakala kunoma ubani ngaphandle kwe-autistic ingane yakho.
Ummeli. Uyazi umthetho, futhi uyazi ukuthi ingane yakho inelungelo lokufinyelela izinsizakalo ezibanzi, izinhlelo, ukusekela, namathuba. Uzibheka njengesiyingi "esinamahloni" esizimisele ukuthola amafutha. Uye kuzo zonke izinhlangano zemfundo ekhethekile kanye newebhu, ufika emihlanganweni ye-IEP ehlomile ngezikhwepha zamanothi, uyinhloko yezidingo ezikhethekile zeqembu labazali esifundeni sakho, futhi uthola ukuthi uqeqesha abanye abazali ngamalungelo abo futhi ( uma kunesidingo) ukuthi ungathola kanjani ummeli omuhle.
The Warrior. Unomntwana odinga ukuvikelwa kwakho, futhi - njengengonyama noma ingonyama - uzohlinzeka lokho kuvikelwa. Ulungele, uzimisele, futhi uyakwazi ukuthatha abaxhaphazayo, othisha, izifunda zesikole - noma ubani osongela ukwakha noma iyiphi inkinga yengane yakho.
Ungase futhi ube nenqubo yokwakha "ibutho" labasekeli ngendlela yabazali abanomqondo ofanayo ababona izingane zabo njengezisulu ezingase zibe khona ezweni eliyingozi.
ONgcwele. Unomuzwa wokuthi ingane yakho enezidingo ezikhethekile isipho - nokuthi unekhono eliyingqayizivele lokuba ngumzali wengane yakho. Uzinikezela ekunakekeleni ingane yakho ngenjabulo, futhi ukuthola kunzima ukuvuma lapho izinto zinzima.
Ungakhetha "ukuzincisha" wena nomntanakho ezinselele zomhlaba ngokunamathela ezimweni owaziyo ukuthi uzophumelela.
Umakhi. Ingane yakho ene-autism idinga uhlobo oluthile lwezokwelapha - ukuze uqeqeshwe ukulihlinzeka. Uzwa ukuthi ingane yakho idinga uhlobo oluthile lwemfundo, ngakho uqala isikole. Ufuna umkhiqizo wengane yakho ongayitholi emakethe - ngakho uthuthukise ngokwakho. Uyisivunguvungu somsebenzi, kodwa ungathola nokuthi usuke ukhathele kakhulu ukujabulela ngempela izithelo zemisebenzi yakho.
The Victim . Kuzungezile wena mindeni ejabule enezingane ezijwayelekile, eziphumelelayo. Kodwa wena ungumzali wengane enokukhubazeka okungapheli. Oontanga bakho bonke baqhubekela phambili emisebenzini yabo, kodwa umsebenzi wakho uye waxoshwa ukuze ubhekane nabahlengikazi, i-IEPs, ukuxabana komntakwethu, nokukhungatheka komshado. Ngenkathi uthanda ingane yakho ye-autistic, kukhona ingxenye yakho ezwa ukuthi uzoba ujabule futhi ugcwaliseke ngaphandle kwakhe.
Umcwaningi . Ubusuku bonke, njalo ebusuku, kuze kube ngu-2 ekuseni, uthinta kude kukhompyutha ehlangene nezinkundla ukuze uthole okunye okunye ukwaziswa mayelana nemithi ye-autism. Nsuku zonke "uxoxisana" nabazali ohlangana nabo emaqenjini okusekela i-autism nasehhovisi lama-therapist, bebuza mayelana nokukhetha kwabo ukwelashwa, ukwelashwa okhethwayo, uhlelo lwesikole, nothisha.
Izincwadi zakho zigcwele izinombolo zefoni namakheli ewebhu. Uyazi okuningi mayelana ne-autism ne-autism isekela futhi imithi kunezochwepheshe abaningi - kodwa usazizwa sengathi uzwa indlela yakho ebumnyameni.