I-Autism inzima; Nazi ezinye zezindlela zokubhekana nazo.
Ucwaningo oluqhutshwa eNyuvesi yaseNorth Carolina luphakamisa ukuthi "Omama wezingane abane-autism bangase bathambekele ekucindezelekeni uma bezwa ukuthi banesibopho noma umphumela wengxaki yengane yabo ...". Ama-50% omama abanezingane ezine-autism babenezinkinga zokucindezeleka eziphakeme, uma kuqhathaniswa no-15% kuya ku-21% kwamanye amaqembu. Abomama abangabodwa abanezingane ezikhubazekile batholakala besengozini enkulu yokucindezeleka okukhulu kunomama abahlala nomlingani.
Kungani amaMoms of Kids Autistic Angaphezu Kakhulu Ukucindezeleka?
UDkt. Dan Gottlieb wesiteshi se-NPR seFiladelphia KUNGANI ukuthi ubeke amazwana ngesifundo. Ukuze achaze ngokucacile, wancoma ukuthi omama abazizwa bengenakuzenzela ngokwanele ingane yabo nge-autism cishe bazobhekana nokucindezeleka.
Ngokuqinisekile, lowo nomuzwa wokungalokothi uwanele ungabangela ukucindezeleka. Futhi kwezinye izimo, ukwelulekwa ngabanye ngamama kungasiza kakhulu.
Kodwa ngenkathi imizwa yecala nokungafaneleki kudlalwa kubazali abaningi, kuningi kakhulu endabeni. Imindeni, ngisho nalabo abanabantwana ekugcineni "kwephezulu" kwe-autism spectrum, babhekane nezinkinga eziningi ezibalulekile ezingase ziholele ekukhungathekeni, intukuthelo, ukucasuka, ukukhathazeka nokuningi. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Abazali abathola ukuxilongwa kwe-autism nabo babhekana nokulahlekelwa yizinto eziningi abazilindele ngobuzali. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, balahlekelwa "kwi-club club" okungenzeka ukuthi ibasize - yonke into ngokushintshanisa i-playdates nokunakekelwa kwezingane nomakhelwane ukuze baqeqeshe iqembu lebhola lendawo. Lokho kutholakala kahle ngokucindezeleka.
- Kungaba nzima ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini evamile yomphakathi nomntwana ku-autism spectrum. Ukuhlukaniswa komphakathi kuyaziwa ekuholeni ekucindezelekeni.
- Kungabiza ukuphatha ingane nge-autism spectrum. Imindeni eminingi ingena ezikweletini ukusekela imithi engakhokhiwe yomshuwalense. Lokhu kungabangela ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, nentukuthelo.
- Ngokuvamile, omama abanabantwana ku-autism spectrum bavusa ukuyeka imisebenzi abayithokozayo (futhi imali engenayo abayidingayo noma abayifunayo) ukuze banakekele ingane ku-spectrum. Lokhu kungaholela ekucindezelekeni.
- Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zinenkinga enzima yokulala futhi zigcine abazali bazo bephapheme ubusuku bonke. Ukhathala kungabangela ukucindezeleka.
- Abazali okumele balwe nezifunda zesikole kanye nama-ejensi ezempilo yengqondo nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezinsizakalo ezifanele cishe zizobhekana nezimpikiswano nezimo ezingamukeleki, kodwa ezingenalo ukulawula okuncane. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuyicindezela.
- Njengoba izingane ezine-autism zikhula, abazali bavame ukubhekana "nokuthatha umhlalaphansi" ngokuzibophezela okuphelele komuntu nomuntu kumntwana omdala oncike kuzo zonke izinto. Lokhu kungaba yinto ecindezelayo.
Ngamafuphi, ukuba nengane nge-autism kungabangela ukucindezeleka, kodwa izizathu ziningi futhi ziyinkimbinkimbi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzali unethemba noma unomusa kangakanani, kungenzeka ukuthi akakwazi ukujabula lapho ebhekene nokukhathala, ukuphazamiseka nokuzihlukanisa.
Ukubhekana Nokucindezeleka Kokuzwela Kwe-Autism
Yini umzali ongayenza lapho ebhekene nezinkinga eziningi kangaka? Kukhona izinketho eziningi zokwenza. Nakuba kungekho okuzoshintsha iqiniso eliyiqiniso lokuthi i-autism ilapha ukuhlala, abaningi bangasiza abazali ukuba babhekane kangcono nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo.
- Thola ukusekelwa phakathi kwabazali abanomqondo ofanayo wezingane ezine-autism.
- Funa ukunakekelwa, ukuze wena nomngane wakho uhambe ndawonye ukuze uthole ikhefu elifanelwe kahle.
- Funa usizo lobuchwepheshe oluthile oluthile olusebenzayo nemindeni enezidingo ezikhethekile.
- Zama ukusakaza ukuze unciphise ukucindezeleka kwakho.
- Nciphise izindleko zokwelashwa kwakho ngokukhetha ukwelashwa okuphansi, okuphansi kokungena enganeni yakho nge-autism.
Mhlawumbe ebaluleke kakhulu kukho konke, wazi ukuthi wenza okusemandleni akho enganeni yakho nge-autism. Esikhundleni sokuhlushwa ngokuthi "kuthiwani uma," thatha isikhashana ukujabulela ingane yakho.
Imithombo:
Ukucindezela amaphrofayli omama nobaba wezingane ezine-autism. I-Psychol Rep. 1992 Dec; 71 (3 Pt 2): 1272-4.
Ukucindezeleka koomama nobaba bezingane ezinokukhubazeka kwengqondo. I-Journal ye-Intellectual Disability Research, uMqulu 45, Inombolo 6, Disemba 2001, iphe. 535-543 (9).
Izinto ezihlobene nokucindezeleka kumama wezingane ezine-autism. I-Autism, Umq. 9, No. 4, 416-427 (2005).