Akunandaba ukuthi uyindoda noma owesifazane, eqondile noma umlingani. Uma ulala ocansini ngaphandle kwesikhathi eside, ubuhlobo bomunye nomunye , ubuhlobo lapho bobabili abalingani behlolwe khona ngama-STD , mhlawumbe umqondo omuhle wokusebenzisa ubulili obuphephile . Ezimweni eziningi, lokho kusho ukuthi othile kufanele athenge amakhondomu . Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngisho noma bethengisa kuphela amakhondomu ukuze abasike bese bebenza amadamu wamazinyo .
Kubukeka sengathi kunezinganekwane ezithandwa kakhulu zobulili, ukuthi, emibhangqwaneni engqingili, kuyimfanelo yomuntu yokuthenga amakhondomu. Kunezizathu ezinhle ukuthi kungani amanye amadoda angase akhethe ukuthenga amakhondomu awo. Isibonelo, bangase babe nekhanda lomkhondomu oyintandokazi noma bangathandi ukubeka engozini ukuthi bangabalingani bakhohlwa ukuhamba. Kodwa-ke, empeleni kungumqondo omuhle kunoma ubani ocabanga ukuthi abe nobulili ukuthenga amakhondomu.
Kungani Wonke Umuntu Kufanele Athenge Amakhomikhali
Esinye isizathu sokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele athenge amakhondomu akhe wukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi umqondo omuhle wokuzilungiselela uma ucabanga ngezocansi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, umlingani wakho angeke abe khona. Uma ucabanga ukuthi bazozithenga amakhondomu bese bengakwenzi, ungabhekana nokukhetha okubi kakhulu. Kungase kudingeke ukhethe phakathi kokuya ocansini okungavimbelwe ukuthi ungaphetha ukuzisola noma ukungaboni ucansi nhlobo.
Abanye besifazane bangase banganqika ukuthenga amakhondomu ngoba kukhona inganekwane yezocansi ukuthi owesifazane ophethe ikhondomu uwu "slut" noma "isitampu." Kungase kube khona i-subset encane yamadoda akholelwa lokhu.
Noma kunjalo, abesifazane bangase bafune ukubuza ukuthi empeleni bafuna ukulala nomuntu obahlulela ngokuzikhethela ukulala nabo. Ukunquma ukuba nobulili kufanele kube yinto oyenzayo endaweni yokunika amandla abantu. Lokhu kuhlanganisa nokuba nekhono lokuzinakekela kokubili ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba.
Noma ubani ongahloniphi lokho angeke akuhloniphe noma.
Kulula nje, akuwona umthwalo womuntu ukuthenga amakhondomu. Kungumthwalo womuntu ohlela ukwenza ucansi ukuba alungiselele ukuzivikela yena nabalingani bakhe. Uma umlingani oyedwa enekhono elimqoka lomkhondomu, noma edinga umkhiqizo okhethekile wekhondomu ukuze abhekane ne-latex noma i- lubricant allergies, bangase bathathe umthwalo omkhulu wokuthenga ikhondomu. Ngisho noma kunjalo, asikho isizathu sokuthi omunye umlingani akakwazi ukungena noma ukugcina izipele ezimbalwa ku-nightstand.
Okokugcina, kulabo abangefuni ukuthenga amakhondomu ngoba besaba "ukuthi kuzobukeka kanjani," kunezinketho. Izinkampani eziningana manje zenza amacala amakhondomu phambili ... uma kwenzeka ukubukeka kubaluleke ngaphezu kokunakekela impilo yakho. Futhi-ke, ungakwazi ukuyala amakhondomu online. Empeleni, ukwenza kanjalo kuyindlela enhle yokuzama izinhlobo ezahlukene zekhondomu namafutha ukuze ubone ukuthi wenzani futhi ungathandi.
Izwi kusuka
Umbono wokuthi abesifazane akufanele babe yibo abathengisa amakhondomu ebuhlotsheni obungqingili, ngandlela-thile, umkhiqizo wesiko lokudlwengula. E-US, abesifazane ngokuvamile kulindeleke ukuba basondelwe ngokocansi bese bethi cha uma bengayifuni.
(Ngokungafani nabesifazane kulindeleke ukuba bathi yebo ocansini uma beyifuna.)
Uma kubonakala ukuthi abesifazane bayabamukela izifiso zobulili, asikho isidingo sokuba balungiselele ucansi kusengaphambili. Uma abesifazane bebhekwa njengabantu ngabanye abanesithakazelo ekufuneni ucansi, lokho okulindelwe kuzoba okuhlukile. Kungaba ngcono ukuthi bathenge amakhondomu adingekayo ukuze babe nokuhlangenwe nakho ababekufunayo. Ngenhlanhla, yilo izwe esingasondela kulo ngokushintsha ukucabanga okuphathelene nemvume kanye nesidingo sokuba wonke umuntu abe nomuzwa wokuthi unamandla okuxoxisana ngokobulili.