Kungenxa yokuthi ungumuntu oyedwa noma owesifazane ongashadile, akusho ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi awufuni ukuya ocansini. Lokho kusho ukuthi umqondo wokuma ubusuku obulodwa ungase uzwakale ubuhle kakhulu. Inkinga, yilokho, ukuthi lobulili obungavamile buza nezingozi eziningana. Enye yalezi zingozi kungenzeka ukuthi ungayithola i- STD .
Awukwazi ukutshela ukuthi unesifo se-STD ngokubheka, ukuhlola ukuhlanzeka kwabo, noma ukwazi ukuthi abangane babo bangubani.
Uma ukhathazekile ngempilo yakho yezocansi, kuzodingeka kube bobabili abanesibindi nabasebenza kahle. Indlela kuphela yokwenza ukukhetha okuhle mayelana nokuthi umuntu ungumlingani ofanelekile wokuhlangana kwakho okungajwayelekile ukubandakanya nabo engxoxweni engacabangi.
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Uma ufuna ukuma ubusuku obuphephile obusuku:
- Yiba nomthelela empilweni yakho yezocansi ngokubhekana nokuhlola okuvamile kwe- STD . Khona-ke ungaba phambili mayelana nokuxoxa ngesimo sakho se-STD nanoma yibaphi abalingani bobulili obuvamile.
- Buza ukuma kwakho ubusuku obunokwenzeka uma ugcine ukuhlolwa ama-STD, nokuthi yini imiphumela yabo yokuhlolwa.
- Xoxa ukuthi bangaki abalingani bezocansi oba nabo kusukela ekuhlolweni kokugcina kokuhlola kwakho. Kufanele futhi ukhulume ngokuthi ngabe uhlale ucansi oluphephile.
- Buza mayelana nanoma yikuphi ukuziphatha okuyingozi okungenzeka ukuthi umlingani wakho uhlanganyele, njengokungavunyelwa kocansi olungalondekile noma ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, futhi uxoxe ngokwakho.
- Yenza njalo ubulili obuphephile, kufaka phakathi ubulili obukhuluma ngokuphepha . Lokhu akuyona into okufanele uyenze nje nabalingani bobulili obuhlukile. Kufanele uvikeleke kuwo wonke umuntu.
- Uma ukhetha umlingani ubusuku obunye bokubambisana, khetha umuntu obeka ubukhulu obuphezulu ebusini obuphephile futhi uthi bahlale bezenza ngokwabo.
- Sebenzisa ulwazi olufundile ukwenza ukhetho olunolwazi mayelana nokuthi ufuna ukulala nomuntu. Bese uqonda ukuthi kungenzeka kube khona izingozi ezihilelekile ukuthi akekho owaziyo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi bonke ubulili banezingozi. Lezi zingozi zingancishiswa, kodwa, ikakhulukazi esimweni sobulili obungavamile, azikwazi ukugwema. Nakuba ukulandela le mithetho ngeke kwenzeke ubusuku bakho obulodwa buphephile, ukwenza kanjalo kuyokwenza kube ngokuphepha. Uma kungenjalo, uzokwazi kakhulu ngengozi.
Ekugcineni, wonke umuntu kufanele azenzele isinqumo mayelana nokuthi yiziphi izingozi abazikhethela ukuziveza. Kuphela uma uvuma izingozi ezikhona zobusuku obulodwa-kubandakanya ukukhulelwa, ama-STD, nokuhlaselwa-ungaqala ngokuhlakanipha ukuthi unqume ukuthi ungabe ubhekana kanjani nokuthi ufuna kanjani ukubhekana nazo. Njengendoda engashadile, noma owesifazane ongashadile, imivuzo yokulala ocansini engavamile ingaba yingozi, kodwa ukungazi akuyona indlela eya ekujabuliseni ngokocansi.