Amaviki alandelayo
Ukushona komuntu esimthandayo kungasithinti ngokungenakuqhathaniswa nesifo esibuhlungu esiveza ingqondo futhi ngokuvamile sikwenza kube nzima ukucabanga ngokucacile. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulu kulabo abasondelene nomuntu oshonile, njengomlingani noma umlingani, umzali noma ingane, noma omunye umuntu obhekene nokubika ukufa kwabanye, ukuhlela izinsizakalo zomngcwabo kanye / noma ukuxoshwa, nokusingatha izinqumo eziningi ezidingekayo lokho kuvela.
Ngemva kokusingatha izinto okufanele zenziwe ngokushesha ngemuva kokuba othandekayo efa , ungaqhubeka nalezi zinto.
Impahla evikelekile kanye nezibopho
Uma ngabe othandekayo wakho ehlala yedwa, cela ilungu lomndeni elithembekile noma umngane ukuthi avakashele ikhaya lomuntu oshonile ngokushesha uma kungenzeka ukuthi impahla yakhe nezinto zakhe zivikelekile (ngaphandle uma uzizwa uphatha lokhu ngokwakho). Isikhathi esifushane, lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuvala izivalo / amawindi; ukuqoqa iposi / amaphephandaba; ukuphuza izitshalo; ukuhambisa imoto yomuntu oshonile uma imiswe endaweni yomphakathi; ukuhlola i-voicemail yakhe yemilayezo ebalulekile; ukususa noma yikuphi ukudla noma iziphuzo esiqandisini esingasaphazamisa; futhi azise umninikhaya wezokufa, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Ezindaweni eziningi, i-ejensi yomthetho wendawo izothola iso endaweni elandelayo ngaphandle kokufa uma uxhumana nabo ngenombolo yocingo engeyona eyiphuthumayo.
Yazisa Umqashi Wendoda
Uma ngabe oshonile usasebenza, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugcwele noma ingxenye yesikhathi esithile noma njengenhlangano yokuvolontiya endaweni ethile, xhumana nenkampani yakhe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka (ucabanga ukuthi awusakaxhumane nomngane osebenza naye oseduze futhi umcele ukwenza kanjalo).
Lokhu kusiza umqashi ukuthi angagcini nje kuphela amashejuli omsebenzi, uma kudingeka, kodwa futhi aqale ukucubungula amaphepha adingekayo aphathelene nokukhokha, izinzuzo, ukuphepha kwezenhlalakahle, ama-akhawunti omhlalaphansi, njll. Ngaphezu kwalokho, cela umqashi uma oshonile ehlanganiswa nempilo yomshuwalense inqubomgomo futhi uma kunoma yiziphi izinzuzo zomsebenzi, ezifana nomshuwalense wezempilo, izobe zihlanganisa nabathembekile.
Hlela Imisebenzi Yomngcwabo kanye / noma Izinkonzo Zokungena
Uma ukhethe ukusebenza nomngcwabo, umqondisi womngcwabo uyokuqondisa ngenqubo yokuhlela umngcwabo noma insizakalo yesikhumbuzo kumuntu wakho othandekayo, kanye nenqubo yokulila. Uma ukhethwa ukushiswa okuqondile , ukucwiliswa ngokuqondile, noma olunye uhlobo lwesimo somzimba sokugcina, abasebenzi be-opharetha bayokusiza ekwenzeni amalungiselelo adingekayo. Uma ukhethe ukushiswa kwesimo somzimba wokugcina, ungakwazi ukuhlela insizakalo yesikhumbuzo ngosuku oluzayo ngaphandle uma ufisa ukwenza okusemthethweni ngokushesha. Uma wena nomngane wakho othandekayo bexoxa ngezifiso zakhe ngaphambili noma bahlela ngokuhlelekile lezi zinsizakalo nomhlinzeki, khona-ke eziningi zezinqumo zizobe sezivele zenziwe.
Bhala isaziso se-Obituary or Death kanye ne-Eulogy
Ngemuva kokuhlelwa kwezinsizakalo zomngcwabo, amalungu omndeni oseduze kumele abhale phansi isaziso sokufa noma sokufa (ngokuyisisekelo i-obit efingqiwe) yokushicilela, noma kuvunyelwe into ebhalwe ngumqondisi womngcwabo. Amaphephandaba ngokuvamile akhokhisa imali yokushicilela isaziso sokufa noma sokufa-izindleko ezizodluliselwa emndenini. Kumele uthathe isinqumo uma ufisa ukushicilela isaziso sokufa / sokufa, noma uma ukhetha ukuxhumana ngemininingwane yokufa / yesevisi ngenye indlela, njengama-social media.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma isevisi oyilungiselele ihlanganisa u-eulogy, ngabe wena noma umuntu omkhethile kufanele uqale ukubhala nokuwenza.
Dala iBhodi Lememori
Imindeni ivame ukudala "ibhodi lememori" ngenkonzo yomngcwabo / isikhumbuzo somuntu othandekayo kulezi zinsuku, futhi uma ufuna ukufaka eyodwa emngcwabeni / enkonzweni yesikhumbuzo oye wahlela, kuzodingeka ukhethe izithombe ezibonisa impilo yomuntu oshonile , njengobuntwana nezithombe zesikole, iziqu kanye nezinsuku zokuphumula, ukuhlelwa okusemthethweni noma ukudubula okufakiwe, njll, ukuze kudluliselwe izikhathi ezingakhohlwayo.
Qhubeka Ukwazisa Abanye Ukufa / Amalungiselelo
Uma usuqedile amalungiselelo okungcwaba / ukuthungatha, qhubeka uzisa abanye ngokufa abangazange baxhunywe nabo ekuqaleni, kubandakanya udokotela, ummeli kanye / noma umgcini we-akhawunti, kanye nanoma yiziphi izinhlangano zomphakathi, ezomsebenzi noma zobulungu.
Ukwengeza, wena (noma umuntu omkhethile) kufanele uqale ukuxhumana namalungu omndeni, abangani kanye nabanye mayelana nemininingwane yesevisi (usuku, isikhathi, indawo, njll), kanye nokuthi ungathumela izimbali kanye / noma iminikelo yokusiza.
Thumela i-Deceased's Mail
Ngokushesha uma kungenzeka, kufanele uthumele iposi / amaphakheji omthandayo ekhelini elisha uma ehlala yedwa. Lokhu akugcini nje kuphela ukuvimbela ukukhishwa okungatholakali okuvela ekuboniseni ukuthi indlu ayinalutho manje, kodwa kuzokwenza kube lula ukunquma ukuthi yiziphi ama-akhawunti asebhange, amakhadi esikweletu, ukubhaliswa kwemagazini, njll, oshonile obanjwe ukuthi kudingeka adluliselwe emuva kwesikhathi. Vakashela i-United States Postal Service's "Phatha Imeyili Yokwehla" ikhasi, noma ihhovisi leposi lakho, ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi.
Vuka Ngiyabonga Abahlezi Abahle
Abantu bayakwazisa ukuthola ukwamukela izimbali, amakhadi kanye / noma iminikelo eyenziwa ngenkumbulo yomuntu oshonile. Ngemuva kokungcwaba kanye / noma ukukhala, futhi uma nje uzizwa, thumela inothi ngesandla noma ucingo lawo malungu omndeni, abangani nabajwayele ukubonga ngokusekela kwabo nomusa wabo. (Futhi kuyamukeleka ngokuphelele ukudlulisela lo msebenzi kwelinye ilungu lomndeni noma umngane, uma ungathanda.)
Hlela izihloko zezimali zeDedased's
Uma othandekayo wakho eshiya intando, khona-ke i-executor (s) noma umphathi oqokiwe uyovame ukuxazulula isakhiwo somuntu oshonile. Lokhu kubandakanya, phakathi kwezinto eziningi, ukuqeda impilo, impilo, imoto nezinye izinqubomgomo zomshuwalense; ukwazisa ukuvikeleka kwezenhlalakahle, i-Medicare, i-Veterans Affairs, njll; ukuvala amabhange, amaphesheni kanye nama-akhawunti omhlalaphansi; ukukhokha nokuvala imali yokubolekwa kwemali, amakhadi esikweletu, nezinye izinhlobo zekhredithi; futhi uxhumane nomhleli wokukhokha intela ukufaka ukubuyela kokugcina komuntu ngamunye kanye nengcebo yakhe. Isihluthulelo sale nqubo ukuthola amakhophi aqinisekisiwe yesitifikedi sokufa somuntu oshonile, esivame ukubiza u-$ 15 kuya ku-$ 20 ngamunye. Uma kufanele uxazulule isakhiwo somuntu othandekayo, kunezinsiza eziningi ezinhle kakhulu ezitholakala ekuphrintiwe noma e-intanethi ukukuqondisa ngenqubo, njengokuthi Qala Lapha: Ukusiza Abasindile Ukuphatha nge-Kat Reed.
Ukuphatha Izinto Okuvame Ukulibheka
Kulesi sikhathi sobugebengu bokwebiwa, kubalulekile ukubhekana nama-akhawunti angase akhohlwe noma angasetshenziswanga ngesikhathi senqubo ye-probate. Lokhu kungafaka: ukukhansela / ukuguqula ama-akhawunti wezokuxhumana wezenhlalo, njenge-Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, njll; ukwazisa ama-ejensi wokubika ngesikweletu (i-Equifax, i-Experian ne-TransUnion) mayelana nokufa; ukuvala i-imeyili yomuntu oshonile kanye ne-akhawunti ye-website; ukukhansela ilayisensi yakhe yokushayela; futhi azisa ibhodi lokukhetha ukhetho ukuze asuse igama lakhe ohlwini lwabavoti ababhalisiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele uxhumane ne-Direct Marketing Association ukwengeza igama lomuntu othandekayo ohlwini lwayo olungenzi othintekayo.
Khetha i-Headstone noma i-Gravemarker
Uma oshonile engcwatshwe, kuzodingeka ukhethe futhi uthenge ilitshe legumbi noma uphawu lokubeka uphawu. Ngokuvamile, ngeke kudingeke wenze lo msebenzi izinyanga eziningi, noma kuze kube unyaka, emva kokungcwaba ukuvumela umhlabathi uzungeze amathuna ukuxazulula noma uma isimo sezulu senza ukufakwa komakaki kunzima. Amathuna enza ukumbelwa angakusiza kule nqubo, kodwa ukhululekile ukukhetha omunye umhlinzeki uma ukhetha. Uma wenza, qiniseka ukuhlola amathuna ngokuphathelene nemithethonqubo nemigomo yalo ngokuphathelene nosayizi, isitayela, izinto zokwakha kanye nokufakwa ngaphambi kokuhleleka.