Izindlela eziwusizo zokuvuselela izimbali zomngcwabo nokuhlelwa kwezimbali
Ubufakazi bubonisa ukuthi ukuqala kokuqinisekisa ukusetshenziswa kwezimbali emangcwabeni / yokungcwatshwa kwabantu kwenzeka eKhumeni likaRaqefet, elisemtabeni. IKarmeli, u-Israyeli, eminyakeni engaba ngu-14 000 edlule. Ngesikhathi abasindile bebenzela izimbali ukuze balandele amathuna omuntu oshonile, ukusetshenziswa kwezimbali ezimibalabala kanye namalungiselelo emisebenzini yokungcwaba kanye nokuphumula sekuye kwaba khona namuhla - kuze kube yilapho imindeni ethile manje ifaka imishwana ethi "Sicela ulahle izimbali" noma "Endaweni zezimbali ... "ezinkambisweni zokushicilela ukuze kunciphise inani lemikhiqizo yokuzwela evumayo etholakele.
Ngenkathi abasindile ngokuvamile bebonga kokubili ubuhle balezi zimbali kanye nomcabango wabo, abantu abaningi nje abazi ukuthi benzeni lamalungiselelo emva kwenkonzo yomngcwabo kanye / noma yokungcwaba. Lesi sihloko sinikeza izindlela eziningana ezinokuthi ungakwazi "ukuphindaphinda" izimbali, izitshalo kanye namalungiselelo okuhle okusetshenziselwa izinsizakalo zokungcwaba kanye nokuthungatha esikhundleni sokumane uwalahle.
Khanyisa usuku lomunye umuntu
Ekuphetheni kwenkonzo yomngcwabo noma yokuxoshwa, amalungu omndeni oseduze akhetha amalungiselelo ahlukahlukene okuhlobisa ukuboniswa emakhaya abo kodwa aphelile ngezinye izimbali, izitshalo kanye / noma amalungiselelo ezimbali angawasebenzisa ngokuqondile. Esikhundleni sokushiya lezi zinto ngemuva kwendawo yomngcwabo kanye / noma ukukhala, ukulahlwa kamuva ngamasevisi omngcwabo noma emathuneni, cabanga ukunikeza izihlobo zomngcwabo ezingadingeki kubangani, izihlobo noma abasebenza nabo kanye / noma ukuzinikela esontweni, ikhaya lomhlalaphansi, indawo yokusebenzela, i- hospice noma ezinye izindawo zokunakekelwa .
(Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ngenxa yokukhathazeka kokungezwani, ezinye izindawo zokunakekelwa kwezempilo zingase zamukele umnikelo wakho.)
Esikhathini esilandelayo, lapho unikeza izimbali zomngcwabo, izitshalo, nokuhlelwa kwezimbali, kufanele uqale ususe wonke amakhadi, amanothi, amathrekhi, nemihlobiso ekhomba injongo yangempela yesipho sakho kubabukeli abangavamile.
(Uma ususa amakhadi namanothi, noma kunjalo, kufanele ulandele "othumele lokho" ukuze ubathumele inothi lokubonga kamuva.)
Ngokufanayo, kufanele ucabangele ukuhlelwa kokugcina ngaphambi kokunikeza izimbali zomngcwabo, izitshalo, nokuhlelwa kwezimbali . Ngenkathi i-wreath ekhangayo noma izitshalo eziluhlaza zizobonisa ukuthi kufanelekile ezilungiselelweni eziningi, isibonelo, isiphambano esingamaKristu noma umcibisholo othi "imbangela yokuqwashisa" (njenge-pink for umdlavuza wesifuba) ungase ibonakale ingekho endaweni noma engalungile ekhaya elikhulisayo , esibhedlela noma esibhedlela.
Okokugcina, ngenxa yokuthi amalungu omndeni oseduze ayozizwa ecindezelekile ngemininingwane eminingana edingekayo ekuhleleni izinsizakalo zomngcwabo kanye / noma ukuhanjelwa ngezikhathi ngalesi sikhathi - ngaphezu kokulimaza ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo okubangelwa usizi ngokwalo - ukucabanga ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze izimbali zomngcwabo, izitshalo kanye namalungiselelo okuhle emva kokusebenza (s) ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe. Ngakho-ke, cela ilungu lomndeni noma umngane, noma umqondisi womngcwabo noma umnikazi wamathuna, ukuba athathe izimbali zomngcwabo . Amalungu omndeni noma abangani bangabuyela kumsebenzi wensizakalo ngemuva kokuba bahambise futhi balayishe izimbali ezingafuneki ezimotweni zabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abasebenzi bemingcwabo ngokuvamile bazimisele ukuthatha umthwalo walo msebenzi, noma ngisho nokuletha izimbali ezingafuneki, izitshalo kanye / noma amalungiselelo okuvuna endaweni yangakini, uma nje ihlelwe kusengaphambili.
(Kodwa qaphela ukuthi ungakhokhiswa ngale nsizakalo.)
Khumbula Omunye Othandekayo
Enye indlela emangalisayo yezimbali zomngcwabo ezingadingeki, izitshalo, nokuhlelwa kwezimbali ukuwashiya emathuneni , i-columbarium niche noma enye indawo yokugcina yokugcina yomunye othandekayo . Ngokuvamile, ngoba imindeni ivame ukusebenzisa amathuna asemakhaya, amanye amalungu omndeni, izihlobo kanye / noma abathandekayo bazobe sebexoxisana ngezizathu. Ngakho-ke, cabanga ngokuvakashela indawo yabo yokuphumula nokuhlonipha inkumbulo yabo ngelungiselelo elihle elivuthayo elizohlala lingasetshenzisiwe futhi ekugcineni lilahlwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungase ukhulume nomqondisi wakho womngcwabo kanye / noma amathuna omsebenzi futhi ucele ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukunikela ngezimbali zomngcwabo ezingadingeki kumsebenzi womngcwabo womunye womngcwabo . Ngenkathi lesi senzo singase sibonakale sesineveli, empeleni akuyona into engavamile futhi singasiza ukuthi labo abalila ukufa komuntu ongakaze uzwe ngezinye izikhathi uzizwe kangcono ngesikhathi sakhe sokusizi - ikakhulukazi emisebenzini yomngcwabo kanye / noma yezintambo ezanqoba 'thola izimbali eziningi, izitshalo, nokuhlelwa kwezimbali. Futhi, cela umqondisi wakho womngcwabo noma amathuna; kufanele akwazi ukunikeza isiphakamiso.
Yakha i-Memorial Keepsake Box
Uma ngabe usulondolozile imbali kusuka esikhathini esibalulekile empilweni yakho, noma uma ujabulela ukwakha izenzi, khona-ke lesi siphakamiso sokugcina sizobonakala sibe semvelo kwesibili kuwe. Ukusebenzisa ama-petals, izinhloko noma izimbali ezigcwele ezivela ezimbali zomngcwabo ezisele, yenza i-stopsake isikhumbuzo ekuhlonipheni othandekayo wakho . Indlela elula ngokumane ubeke amacembe noma ikhanda elikhazimulayo phakathi kwamaphepha amabili ephepheni bese ucindezela phansi phakathi kwenqwaba yezincwadi. Uma usomile, ungabeka amacembe noma inhloko yekhanda ngaphansi kweglasi engxenyeni - mhlawumbe ungeze ukucaphuna okuthandayo noma igama lomuntu oshonile - bese unikeza izimbali ezifakwe kumalungu omndeni nabangane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungasebenzisa izimbali ezomile ukwakha amabhukimakhi ekhumbuzo; imihlobiso yeholide; amakhamuzi esiqandisini; amakhandlela esikhumbuzo; isepha; okuzenzekelayo; noma sebenzisa izimbali ezomile ukuhlobisa isikhumbuzo se-scrapbooks noma amaphephandaba . Noma yikuphi kwalezi zinto - noma into oyicabangayo nokuzikhandla ngokwakho - ingenza isipho esimangalisayo emalungwini omndeni, abangani nabathandekayo abawaziyo futhi abathande oshonile futhi bazobonisa ukusebenzisa kangcono izimbali zomngcwabo ezisele, izitshalo kanye namalungiselelo okuhle kunamane nje ukulahla.
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"I-Natufian engama-13 700 kuya ku-700 kuya ku-700 ubudala ayimngcwaba eRaqefet Cave, Mt. Carmel, u-Israel," ngoDani Nadel, u-Avinoam Danin, uRobert C. Power, et al., Julayi 16, 2013. I-National Academy of Sciences . Iqoqo lomlobi.