Izinyathelo okumelwe zilandelwe uma uhlela isevisi yakho noma umuntu omthandayo
Imingcwabo kanye nezinsizakalo zesikhumbuzo zinikeza ithuba lamalungu omndeni, abangane kanye nabanye ababazi futhi bathande oshonile ukuba babuthane ndawonye ukuze bahloniphe futhi bakhumbule umuntu oshonile ngenkathi enikeza induduzo nokusekela labo abasondelene naye, kanye nomunye nomunye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuhlelwe ngemuva kokufa (isimo " esidinga usizo ") noma ngaphambi kwesikhathi (isimo " sokuqala "), ukuhlela umngcwabo noma insizakalo yesikhumbuzo ngokuvamile kubonisa inqubo yokuzizwa ngokomzwelo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi.
Lesi sihloko sinikeza ukubuka kabanzi izinyathelo okufanele ulandele ukuhlela inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wena noma othandekayo.
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Ngokusobala, isikhathi esingazithatha ukuze uhlele futhi uhlele inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo kuzohluka ngokusekelwe ukuthi uhlela umngcwabo noma inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ngaphambi kokufa - mhlawumbe wena noma othandekayo obhekene nokunciphisa ukuphila ukugula - noma ngemva kokufa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, izinyathelo ezingezansi ngokuvamile ziyasebenza kunoma yikuphi isimo.
Indlela Yokuhlela Umngcwabo noma Isevisi Yesikhumbuzo
Ukuhlela inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo kuyinkqubo yomuntu siqu, futhi izinqumo zakho zizobunjwa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokuphila, ubuhlobo bakho kumuntu oshonile, ukuthi yini oshonile noma okufunayo wena emva kokufa kwakho, ukuthi yini ongayithola, futhi eziningi zezinye izici. Kunezizathu eziningana zokuhlela umngcwabo kusengaphambili , kodwa nansi izinqumo ozodinga ukuzenza.
1. Khetha ifomu lokuHlelwa
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ngephutha ukuthi umngcwabo namathuna angcwatshwayo kukhona into efanayo, noma ukukhetha ukushiswa kusho ukuthi awukwazi futhi ukubamba inkonzo yomngcwabo nomzimba womuntu oshonile ovezwe ngaphambili. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi "umngcwabo" njengoba sicabanga ngakho ngokuyinhloko kuhilela imisebenzi emibili ebalulekile :
• Yini okufanele uyenze ngokuhlala komuntu oshonile (uhlobo lwesimo sokugcina)
• Ukuhlonipha, ukukhumbula nokugubha nokuphila komuntu oshonile (uhlobo lomngcwabo noma wesikhumbuzo)
Uma uhlela insimu yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo, kungase kubonakale kulula ukukhetha kuqala uhlobo lwesimo sokugcina somzimba oyifunayo :
• Ukugubha (Isiko) : Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungaphansi komhlaba endaweni yamathuna / emathuneni, noma ngaphezulu komhlabathi endaweni ye-mausoleum noma ethuneni (ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa "ukukhonjwa"), ukumbelwa kwangokwesiko kuhilela ukuthenga ikhekhethi, isakhiwo samangcwaba noma isikhala se-mausoleum, i-graveliner noma igumbi lokungcwaba , nelitshe legumbi, uphawu oluphawulekayo, isikhumbuzo noma i-plaque.
• Ukungcwaba ( Okusemvelo noma "Okuhlaza") : Inani elikhulayo lamathuna amasiko angcwaba, kanye namasayithi adalwe ngaleli fomu lesimo sokugcina, manje unikeze amathuba emvelo noma " amathuba okuhlaza" . Ngokuvamile, abantu abakhetha ukungcwaba ngokwemvelo bafuna ukunciphisa umthelela wabo emvelweni emva kokufa.
• Ukushiswa komzimba: Inqubo yokugcoba isebenzisa ukushisa / amalangabi ukunciphisa umzimba ukuba uthathe izingcezu noma " umlotha ." Lezi zitshalo ezigcobayo zihlala zinikeza abasindile izinketho ezehlukene emva kwalokho, njengokugcina noma ukuhlakaza izinsalela, ukungcwatshwa ngezansi komhlabathi emgqeni, ukubeka i- cremated inurns ihlala e- columbarium , njll.
• I- Alkaline Hydrolysis : Leli fomu lesimo sokugcina selincane futhi lingase lingatholakali endaweni yakini, kodwa inqubo ye-alkali hydrolysis (ngezinye izikhathi ebizwa ngokuthi "ukushiswa okungenasici") isebenzisa ingcindezi nokushisa okuphansi (ukuphikisana nokushisa) ukunciphisa umzimba i-liquide e-inert ne-skeletal bone fragments.
2. Faka isithombe senkonzo enenjongo
Emashumini ambalwa ambalwa adlule, izinsizakalo zomngcwabo sezikhulile ngokwengeziwe, nakuba abantu abaningi becabanga ngokuthi " umngcwabo wendabuko " njengendlela evamile. Umngcwabo womuntu siqu noma wesikhumbuzo ubonisa ukuphila okuhlukile kanye nobuntu bomuntu oshonile, njengoba kubhekwa ngumuntu oshonile kanye / noma abathandekayo bakhe abasinda, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ifomu lithathwa kanjani.
Imindeni eminingi lezi zinsuku zikhetha ukuhlela umngcwabo noma inkonzo yesikhumbuzo egxile ekukhumbuleni oshonile njengoba ephila, insizakalo igxile emzimbeni womuntu oshonile, noma inhlanganisela kokubili. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ucabange futhi uhlele inkonzo yomngcwabo noma yesikhumbuzo ukuthi wena kanye / noma umuntu oshonile ubheka indlela enenjongo kakhulu yokusho "ukuhlelwa" - into ethatha izimfanelo eziyingqayizivele zomuntu oshonile; ubonisa izinkolelo zakhe kanye / noma zakho, zenkolo noma ezingokomoya; futhi inikeza ithuba elikhumbulekayo, elinenjongo abalilayo ukuveza usizi lwabo ngenkathi beduduza futhi basekela omunye nomunye.
Eminye imindeni ikhetha ukuqhuba izinsizakalo zomngcwabo endaweni yokukhulekela noma indlu yomngcwabo yasekhaya ehlanganisa ukufundwa kwenkolo nomculo; abanye bafuna izinsizakalo zomhlaba noma ezingekho zenkolo ezisezindaweni zomphakathi noma ezizimele; kanti abanye bakhetha ukubamba umngcwabo wangasese kanye nokukhalaza kwamalungu omndeni oseduze futhi kamuva inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kubathandekayo.
Kufanele futhi ucabangele lokhu okulandelayo uma ucabanga ngomngcwabo wakho noma isevisi yesikhumbuzo ukuze uwenze ngokwezifiso , njengoba kusebenza:
• Abakhululekile abazohola insizakalo, njengelungu lezefundisi, umkhosi, umqondisi womngcwabo, njll.
• Ukufundwa, njengezinkondlo, imithandazo, imibhalo yenkolo noma yezwe, njll, nokuthi ubani ozokukhulula
• Ama-Eulogist (ama), ngubani ozobhala futhi ahambise i-eulogy mayelana nomuntu oshonile
• Umculo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqobo, izingoma zenkolo noma zombili
• Ukudla / iziPhuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziqeqeshiwe, zihlinzekwa "nge-potluck" ngabafundi, noma zihlelwe ngumngcwabo noma umhlinzeki
• Abagcini bezintambo, uma isimo sokugcina sihilela isevisi yamathuna
• I- Webcasting yomngcwabo , noma ukwenza ukurekhoda kwensizakalo iyatholakala kamuva
• Ukuthinta komuntu siqu, njengebhodi lememori , ividiyo yesikhumbuzo, izikhumbuzo zomuntu siqu, njll.
3. Ingabe Ufuna Umzimba Wethu?
Esinye isinqumo esibalulekile oyoyidingayo uma uhlela inkonzo yomngcwabo iphathelene nokukhona komuntu oshonile. Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla, ukungcwatshwa nokushiswa kungukuphela kwezinhlobo zezindlela zokugcina zomzimba, futhi akudingi noma kuvimbela izinsizakalo zomngcwabo nomzimba okwamanje . Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukuhlela insimu yomngcwabo "yendabuko" ehlanganisa ukuvuka / ukuvakasha kusengaphambili ngomzimba ogcotshwe emkhokheni ovulekile ngisho noma ufisa ukushiswa komuntu oshonile njengesimo sokugcina. Ngokufanayo, eminye imindeni ikhetha ukumbamba umuntu ongashonanga ngaphandle kokusebenza ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kodwa ubambe inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ngemva kwalokho noma ngaphandle kokuhlala okukhona.
4. Izimbali, iminikelo noma zombili?
Ngokwesiko, abantu bathumela izimbali zomngcwabo noma izimbali zesihawu njengombonakaliso wokusekela kanye nokuveza induduzo. Nokho, emashumini ambalwa adlule, imindeni iphinde isetshenziswe inkulumo ethi "Endaweni yezimbali ..." ezenzweni zokufa kanye nezindleko zokuphazamisa ukuphakamisa izintshisekelo zezikhumbuzo zomngcwabo esikhundleni, noma ngaphezu kwalokho, izimbali. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uthathe isinqumo uma ngabe abahambeli bangathumela izimbali, uma ngabe kunalokho bazinikela enhlanganweni ekhethiwe yokusiza noma kubangele ngenkumbulo yomuntu oshonile, noma uma kukhona uhlobo lokukhuluma olufanelekile . ( Sicela ubheke " Izinkulumo Ezingezansi 'Endaweni Yezimbali' " ukuze uthole iziphakamiso zokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani kangcono nezifiso zakho .)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uceliwe kulesi saziso sokufa noma ukuphosa, imidiya yezenhlalo noma ngezwi, kufanele ukhulume ngokucacile indlela / ukuthumela khona iminikelo. Izibonelo zezizathu ezifanele noma izinhlangano ongakhetha kuzo zihlanganisa :
• i- hospice eyayikhathalela othandekayo wakho
• imbangela yokufuna ukuthola ukwelashwa noma isifo esibangela ukufa komuntu othandekayo, njengomdlavuza, isifo senhliziyo, i-Alzheimer's, njll.
• insizakalo, inhlangano noma ibhizinisi elimele imbangela noma injongo ebonisa ukuthambekela komuntu siqu noma inkolelo yakhe, noma enye ayesekela
5. Umhlinzeki Wenkampani Yokuxhumana / Yokucwaninga (s)
Emva kokunquma okungenhla, isinyathelo esilandelayo ukucwaninga izinsizakalo zakho nezinketho zomhlinzeki. Uma ukufa sekuvele kwenzeka, ungaxhumana nomngcwabo wasekhaya, umhlinzeki wokushisa noma amathuna . ( Futhi ungase ufune ukufunda " Okumele Uyenze Ngokushesha Ngemva Kokufa Othandekayo ," okunikeza uhlu lwabasebenzi abasindile okufanele basebenze ngaso leso sikhathi .) Umhlinzeki wakho okhethiwe angakusiza ukuba uhlele inkonzo yomngcwabo, isikhumbuzo kanye / noma ukubethelela oyifunayo ; inikeze ulwazi mayelana nezinketho zakho zomkhiqizo nezinkonzo ezahlukene; chaza izindleko ezibandakanya ukuthengiswa kwempahla, izinsizakalo nezinye izimali zomsebenzi; futhi ikusize udale isaziso sokufa noma sokufa bese uthole izitifiketi zokufa ezisemthethweni.
Kufanele futhi uxoxe nomhlinzeki wakho noma yiziphi izintandokazi zenkolo noma zamasiko ongathanda ukuzihlonipha. Isibonelo, uma ufisa umngcwabo wezwe noma ongewona ongokwenkolo noma inkonzo yesikhumbuzo, ungathanda ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo zomngcwabo womngcwabo , okunye amakhaya omngcwabo manje anakho kubasebenzi bawo. Imikhaya eminingi yomngcwabo nayo inokuhlangenwe nakho yokukhonza imindeni evela emasiko amasiko ahlukene nemikhuba yabo yomngcwabo, amasiko namasiko.
Uma uhlela umngcwabo noma isikhumbuzo kusengaphambili, kufanele ucwaninge okukhethwa kukho komkhiqizo nezinsizakalo kwi-intanethi ngokuvakashela amawebhusayithi ezindawo zokungcwaba, abahlinzeki bokushisa kanye / noma amathuna endaweni yakini. Namuhla, amabhizinisi amaningi anikezela ulwazi oluhle lomkhiqizo nolwazi lwe-inthanethi, amanani, futhi abuye athumele " uhlu lwazo zonke jikelele " (uma i-Federal Trade Commission (FTC) idinga ukuthi umhlinzeki abe ne- "GPL"). Lokhu kwenza kube lula ukuqhathanisa amanani nezinketho zesevisi / zokuthengiswa ezitholakale endaweni yangakini.
Ngokusobala, ungaphinda ubheke ulwazi ngezinye izindlela , njenge-Yellow Pages, ngokushaya ucingo noma ukubhala, noma ngokuvakashela umhlinzeki ngokwakho.
Okokugcina, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlela umngcwabo ngaphambi noma ngemva kokufa, unamalungelo amaningana ayisisekelo ngaphansi kwe-FTC "Umthetho Wokungcwaba" okufanele ubuye ubuyekeze futhi uwuqonde .
6. Cabanga Izinketho Zakho Zokukhokha
Izindleko zizohluka ngokuya ngesimo sesimo sokugcina kanye nohlobo lomngcwabo noma wensizakalo yesikhumbuzo oyifunayo kodwa kufanele ucabange ukuthi uzokhokha kanjani lezi zinsizakalo. Kunezinketho eziningi zokukhokha ezitholakalayo namuhla, njenge :
• Ukugcinwa komuntu siqu
• Umshuwalense
• Ukuxhaswa ngemali, ngokuvamile ngokuhlinzeka ngomngcwabo wakho
• Amakhadi esikweletu
• I-akhawunti ye-Totten Trust / Payable-on-Death (POD) esikhungweni sezimali, esibeka ngokukhethekile eceleni izimali zendleko zokugcina ezidluliselwa kumuntu ozuziwe futhi zigweme ukuhlolwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi uhleleke ngokuhlelekile amasevisi akho kusengaphambili nomhlinzeki bese ukhokha kusengaphambili , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi konke ngesikhathi esisodwa noma ngezitolimende. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantu bengena emalungiselelweni "asetshenziswe" , kufaka phakathi ukususa umthwalo wokwenza izinqumo ezinzima uma kwenzeka ukufa; ukuvimbela ubunzima bezezimali kwabasindile, noma ukuchitha phansi impahla yabo ukuze bafanelekele izinzuzo ezithile zombuso.
7. Yenza Ukuhlakanipha Kwakho Kukwaziwe
Okokugcina, uma uhlela umngcwabo wakho noma inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kusengaphambili, kufanele usazise umndeni wakho mayelana nokufisa kwakho kokuphela kokuphila ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bayazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo . Okufanelekile, kufanele unikeze irekhodi ebhaliwe kunokuthembela enkumbulweni yelungu lomndeni noma ukugcina izinhlelo zakho kukhompyutha yakho, kodwa ngisho nengxoxo eyodwa yomlomo nomngane wakho womshado noma umlingani, ingane, umntanakho noma umzali angabonisa okungcono kunanoma yini.
Uma usuhlelile ngokuhlelekile umngcwabo wakho noma inkonzo yesikhumbuzo nomhlinzeki, kufanele ugcine lawo maxwebhu namanye amaphepha akho abalulekile ekhaya - futhi uvumele abathandekayo bakho bazi ngokuphila kwabo nendawo yabo - ngakho-ke banokufinyelela okufika ngesikhathi uma kudingeka. Uma ugcina amadokhumenti akho omthetho ephephile, noma okungekho emthethweni ebhokisini lokuphepha, kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi othandekayo wakho naye uyazi ukuthi inhlanganisela ephephile noma angakwazi ukufinyelela ukhiye.