Ngemuva kokushona komuntu othandekayo, ungase uthande ukubhalela ukuzitholela kwakho okubalulekile ekusetshenzisweni kumasayithi omphakathi, noma ukushicilela ephephandabeni lendawo kanye / noma kwiwebhusayithi. Lesi sihloko sinikeza umhlahlandlela wesinyathelo nesezintathu ukukusiza ukuba ubhale okuthandayo, okuphelele kokuthandwa komuntu wakho othandekayo.
Okungenani, i-obituary ikwazisa abantu ukuthi ukufa sekuye kwenzeka kanye nemininingwane mayelana nomngcwabo, insizakalo yesikhumbuzo kanye / noma ukuhlelwa kwamacala.
Nokho, uma kungcono kakhulu, ukuphoqeleka kungaphinde kufinyelele isifinyezo esinempilo nokuphila komuntu.
Ukubhala Umkhuba
- Ngemuva kokuqoqa imininingwane oyodinga ukuyihlosa , sebenzisa ipeni nephepha, noma ikhompyutha yakho - noma yikuphi okulula kuwe - ukuhlunga nokuhlela amaqiniso abalulekile nolwazi ofuna ukuyifaka.
- Qala ngegama eliphelele lomuntu oshonile, usuku lwakhe nendawo yokuzalwa, usuku nendawo yokufa, kanye nesikhathi sakhe ngesikhathi sokufa. Futhi, phawula lapho oshonile ehlala khona ngesikhathi sokufa kwakhe. Uma ufisa, ungafaka imbangela yokufa.
- Nikeza isifinyezo esifushane sokuphila komuntu oshonile, kusukela ekuqaleni kokuzalwa nokuqhubeka phambili. Awudingi ukufaka yonke imininingwane; amaqiniso abalulekile / ulwazi olusiza umfundi ophuthumayo ukufunda okwengeziwe ngomuntu oshonile kanye / noma kusiza umfundi ukuba anqume ukuthi unesidingo somuntu siqu oshonile. Ungakhathazeki okwamanje mayelana nokufakwa ohlwini oluningi kakhulu ngoba ungahle uhlele kamuva.
- Izihlobo zohlu, kokubili abaphilayo nabashonile. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uhlanganise nogogo nomkhulu, abazali, unina, omalume, namalungu omndeni wesinyathelo. Nquma ukuthi yiziphi ozibandakanya ngamagama nalabo ozozibandakanya ngezihlobo kuphela. Ngokuvamile, iziqhingi zivame ukufaka amagama aphelele abazali bomfake, izingane zakubo, nezingane, kanye nomlingani wakhe / umlingani wakhe, kodwa kuphela inani labazukulu noma abazukulu. Ukwengeza, abashade / abalingani bezingane bavame ukufaka igama labo kuphela ohlwini lwabazali ngemuva kwegama lomntanakho, isib. "Kusinda ngendodakazi kaJane (John) Doe."
- Bhala uhlu lomngcwabo noma wenkonzo yokubonga kanye nokwamukelwa, uma kusebenza. Faka igama kanye nekheli (kanye nekheli lewebhusayithi kanye / noma inombolo yocingo, uma ikhona) yomhlinzeki womngcwabo ophethe imininingwane futhi lapho kungcwatshwa khona / ukukhala, uma kusebenza.
- Bhala uhlu lwezibonelelo zomhlalaphansi noma isikhumbuzo lapho ufuna khona iminikelo ethunyelwe ngenhlonipho noma inkumbulo yomuntu oshonile endaweni yezimbali .
Amathiphu engeziwe
- Ngaphambi kokuba ubhale umcimbi wakho, hlola iphephandaba lakho lendawo kunoma yiziphi izimfuneko zokushicilela / ezenziwe nge-intanethi ngokuphathelene nobude bokuqeda kanye nezindleko ezihilelekile, ezingase zibe nomthelela ubude bokuphelelwa isikhathi sakho.
- Uma ufisa ukushicilela umcimbi wakho wephephandaba ephepheni elithile, kufanele ubuyekeze isigaba sawo samanje sokuphefumula bese uqaphela ukuthi yiluphi ulwazi, nesakhiwo salo, oluvela ukuze kukusize kangcono ukuhlela umbhalo wakho ukuze ungenzi okwakho isikhathi eside noma esifushane kakhulu . Ngokusobala, uma uhlose ukushicilela lokho okuqashiwe kuwebhusayithi yomuntu siqu noma ngezindaba zomphakathi, njenge-Facebook, ubude abubalulekile.
- Ngokuya ngephephandaba lakho elikhethiwe, ukushicilela isithombe somuntu oshonile kungadinga imali eyengeziwe.
- Buza amanye amalunga omndeni, abangani, osebenza nabo kanye / noma abanye ababazi kahle oshonile ukukusiza ukhumbule amaqiniso, izinsuku, ukupela amagama amagama noma izindawo, olunye ulwazi olubalulekile noma oluthakazelisayo, njll.
- Thola amagama ngokufanele. Qinisekisa ukuthi uphawula igama lomuntu oshonile ngokunembile negama lenye ilungu lomndeni noma othandekayo oyifaka. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlanganisa igama eliphakathi noma igama lokuqala, igama lomfana kanye / noma noma yiziphi izixhumi noma iziqu (Jr., III, MD, njll).
- Ngenani okungenani omunye umuntu oyedwa uhlola ubufakazi bakho obunamaphutha noma ukushiya. Nasi isenzo esidala sokufunda: funda umkhuba ngokuqala ekuqaleni / igama lokugcina nokufunda ngakwesobunxele njengoba usebenza endleleni yakho ekuqaleni. Ukufunda emuva kuyabangela iso lakho / ubuchopho ukubona igama ngalinye ngabanye njengoba livela kunengxenye yamaqembu amagama.