Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umndeni noma umngane, yiba ngumngane womdlavuza webele webele
Uma umngane noma ilungu lomndeni litholakala ukuthi unesifo somdlavuza webele , ungase ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungathini noma ungasiza kanjani. Kodwa, uma ufuna ukufinyelela, uthumela umlayezo wokuthi isiguli ngasinye somdlavuza wesifuba sidinga ukuzwa-ukuthi uzoba khona kuye.
Owesifazane osanda kutholakala ukuthi unomdlavuza wesifu udinga konke ukusekelwa angayithola. Ngaphezu kokubhekana nokwesaba okubangelwa ukugula okungenzeka kube yingozi, uyakhathazeka ngokuthi umdlavuza wakhe webele uzobathinta kanjani umndeni wakhe, isimo sakhe somsebenzi, izimali zakhe nokunye okuningi.
Uphinde akhathazeke ngokuthi izinguquko emzimbeni wakhe womzimba uzothinta kanjani ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaye nokuthi / noma ukuthi umlingani wakhe uzombheka kanjani.
Ukusekelwa komndeni nabangane kungenza umehluko emkhakheni wakhe wokuphila ngesikhathi sokwelashwa. Ukukubeka kalula, ukulawula ukwesaba nokubhekana nemiphumela emibi yokwelapha kulula kakhulu ngokusekelwa.
Ukusekelwa kwansuku zonke
Ukuya kokwelashwa, ukubonwa udokotela, nokubhekana nemiphumela emibi yokwelapha kungenza kube nzima ukunakekela imithwalo yemfanelo yansuku zonke. Kuncike eminyakeni yobudala nesimo, othandekayo wakho angadinga usizo ngokunakekelwa kwengane yakhe, ukuyothenga, ukupheka nokuhamba.
Ekuqaleni, umngane wakho noma ilunga lomndeni angase angazi ukuthi uzodinga usizo luni. Nasi ithuba lakho lokuqala lokuba khona kuye. Phakamisa ukuthi umsize abuyekeze lokho akwenzayo ngesonto nokuthi lezi zenzo zingasetshenziswa kanjani uma engazizwa kahle ngokwenzayo.
Udinga umuntu ukuba abe yisekelo, ikakhulukazi njengoba ehlangana namalungu eqembu lakhe lokwelapha-ikakhulukazi umuntu ongathatha amanothi ngoba angase akhathazeke kakhulu ukwenza kanjalo. Futhi uma unesikhathi futhi ukhululekile usuku lwezokwelapha, amahora e- chemotherapy angaba isikhathi eside futhi inkampani yenza ukuba bahambe ngokushesha kakhulu.
Futhi, othandekayo wakho udinga ukuthi umuntu abe naye lapho edayisa izingubo nezinye izinto azodinga ngesikhathi sokwelashwa. Ukuthenga i-wig kuhlale kulula uma umngane angaphakamisa lokho okubukeka kuhle.
Ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo
Njengobalulekile njengokusizakala okusebenzayo, lokho okudingeka njalo futhi okwamukelwe kakhulu bangabangane nomndeni ukuba babe khona ngenxa yokwesaba kanye nesizungu somdlavuza webele. Kunesikhathi esiningi sokuphumula ngesikhathi sokwelapha.
Uma ukuhamba, umsebenzi, noma ukuzibophezela kokuphila akuvumeli ukuba kube khona umuntu, amakholi wefoni njalo kanye nokuvakashelwa kwe-Skype-kusuka kumuntu ongakwazi ukulalela, hhayi ukwahlulela, nokunikeza induduzo nokukhuthazwa-angenza umehluko komuntu onokwelashwa .
Nginenhlanhla yokuba nomuntu onjalo ngesikhathi nginomdlavuza wokuqala webele wesifuba. Umngane wami, uJoanne, wangibiza nsuku zonke izinyanga ezine, kusuka ekuxilongweni ukuze ngiqede ukwelashwa okusebenzayo. Uma ngabe ngizizwa ngikhuluma, wayezolalela uma nje ngidinga ukukhuluma. Uma bengingafuni ukukhuluma, uzothi, "Kulungile, ngizokubiza kusasa."
Futhi kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokuba khona kude. Amakhadi amnandi namathekisthi, athunyelwe masonto onke, angumoya oqobo wangempela. Izipho ezingasetshenziswa ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, njengencwadi, ziyakwamukela njalo, futhi.
Uma uhlala noma usebenza eduze, mema umngani wakho ngesidlo sasemini, i-movie, nanoma imuphi umsebenzi omnandi ongumuntu obalekele kuzo zonke izifo zomdlavuza. Uma engasizwa kahle, qhubeka uhlala naye ekhaya, kungakhathaliseki ukubukela ibhayisikobho, ukudlala umdlalo webhodi, noma ukwenza noma yini enamandla okuyenza. Ukuba khona ngomdlavuza webele womngane akulula, kodwa lapho uyenza ukuthi kwenzekani kakhudlwana.