Isipho: Amaqiniso Abathandekayo Bethu Abadinga Ukusifundisa
Uma wazi umuntu ophila nesifo so-Alzheimer , ukuwohloka komqondo komzimba , i- Lewy yokugula komzimba noma uhlobo oluthile lwesifo sokuwohloka komqondo , uyazi ukuthi lezi zimo ziletha izinselele eziningi. Izimpawu ezifana nokulahlekelwa inkumbulo , ukukhathazeka ngegama , ukuphazanyiswa , izimpawu zokuziphatha nezengqondo , nokudideka okuvamile kunzima, kokubili umuntu obhekene nabo nabathandekayo nabanakekeli ukuba babukele.
Kodwa-ke, ngaphezu kobunzima ukuthi lezi zinselele ziletha, zibuye zisikhumbuze amaqiniso amaningana abalulekile esivame ukuwakhohlwa ekuphileni kwethu okusheshayo. Iqiniso liwukuthi uma sizimisele ukulalela nokubuka, singafunda izinto eziningi kubathandekayo bethu abane- dementia futhi bahlangabezane nalezi zinkinga. Lezi zikhumbuzo ezivela kubo zingaba izipho kithi sonke njengoba zisiza ukucebisa izimpilo zethu.
Imizwa ivame ukubaluleke kakhulu kunamaqiniso
Uke wazibuza ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani? Phakathi nezinselele zokuba ngumnakekeli , kungaba lula ukuphelelwa yisikhathi njengoba sizama ukulinganisa izibopho zethu ezihlukahlukene. Ngalezo zikhathi, ungase ubuze ukubaluleka kokuchitha isikhathi nomuntu ongase akhohlwe ukuthi ukhona lapho nje emva kwesikhathi.
Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo luthi nakuba ukuvakashela othandekayo wakho onesifo sengqondo somzimba kungase kubakhohlwe masinyane, imizwa emihle owayidala ngokuvakasha kwakho izohlala isikhathi eside kudlule imemori ethile.
Ukwengeza, ukuchitha isikhathi nomuntu oyithandayo kukuzuzisa wena, kanye nabo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ukulalela, nokuqaphela, imizwa yabantu bonke (ukuwohloka komqondo noma cha) kubalulekile ngoba bayokhumbula kaningi indlela esenza ngayo bazizwe, ngaphezu kwalokho esikushoyo noma esikwenzile. Ngokufanayo nalabo abaphila nokuphefumula komqondo, lokhu kuvame ukubhekana nalokho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle noma okubi.
Ulwazi oluhlinzekwa noma ukushintshanana ngamazwi esinawo kungase kunciphise, kodwa ukuthi senze kanjani ukuthi bazizwe kaningi kunomthelela ohlala njalo.
Izenzo Zisebenza Kakhulu Kunamazwi
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukukhulumisana ekudemeni komqondo kudinga izenzo eziningi namazwi ambalwa. Isibonelo, uma uzama ukusiza othile ukuba enze imisebenzi yabo yokuphila kwansuku zonke , njengokuxubha amazinyo, ungaphumelela uma ukhuluma kancane kodwa uzibonise ukuthi ungazishaya kanjani amazinyo akho. Lokhu kungaba isibonelo sokuba othandekayo wakho alandele ngokumkhumbuza ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo okufanele azithathe ukuze ufeze umsebenzi.
Iqiniso liwukuthi empilweni eminingi, yilokho esikwenzayo okuthwala okungaphezu kwalokho esikushoyo. Singakhuluma inkulumo enhle, kodwa ubufakazi bukhona ezenzweni zethu. Uma amazwi kanye nezenzo zethu zingahambisani nomunye nomunye, izenzo zethu zizogqama amagama ethu futhi zizokhulumisana ngokuzwakalayo kunalokho esikushoyo, njengoba nje zenzelwa labo abaphila nokuphefumula komqondo.
Ukusebenza Okungokwenyama Okufanele Kuyasiza
Uma sikhathalela umuntu onesifo sokuwohloka komqondo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi angase azuze ekuthinteni ngokomzimba okungahlobene nokuzama ukumenza okuthile. Ngamanye amazwi, bamba isandla sakhe, shayela izinwele zakhe uma ethola lokho kuthulisa bese emnika isikhonkwane.
Ungavumeli yonke into ibe yinto yokuthola umsebenzi ophelile.
Iqiniso liwukuthi iningi lethu lizozuza emanzini amaningi okuthinta ngokomzimba kusuka kwabanye. Lokhu kukhuluma ukuthi siyathandwa, sinakekelwa futhi siyigugu ngalabo abaseduze kwethu. Ukugcoba noma i-pat ehlombe kungahamba phambili ekudluliseni okufanelekile, ukukhuthaza umuntu noma ukumane nje ukhanyise usuku lwethu. Izinzuzo zokuthinta abantu azisebenzi nje kulabo abane-dementia, kodwa kithi sonke.
Umculo Unamandla
Ukusebenzisa umculo ekudemeni kwengqondo kungaba nemiphumela enamandla. Izinkumbulo kanye ne-nostalgia zikwazi ukugeleza ngokushesha lapho uzwa ingoma oyintandokazi esedlule.
Othandekayo wakho angase aqale ukucula kanye nokukhumbula wonke amagama, ngisho noma engxoxweni, uzama ukuthola amagama anele okwenza umusho. Umculo ungasebenza njengesiphazamiso esikhulu futhi, ukuvumela ukuba usize kalula ukuthi umgqoke ekuseni, isibonelo. Umculo ungabangela umuntu ohoxisiwe ukuba ahlasele futhi aqale ukudonsa unyawo lwakhe kwisigqi.
Iqiniso liwukuthi umculo unamandla kwabaningi bethu. Ungathumela ingoma kumngane ukumkhumbuza ukuthi ucabanga ngaye noma uzwe umculo esontweni okukukhuthaza. Ungase ulalele ingoma kusukela eminyakeni edlule eyathumela emuva ngqo kuleso sikhathi empilweni yakho. Ubuhle bomculo bungasishukumisela ukuba sidansa, sikhala, sithande, singaqiniseki futhi sikholwe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ukuzwa imizwa yethu evezwe ingoma kungase kuqale ukuphulukiswa okuphakathi kwethu lapho ukuphila kunzima. Lokhu, futhi, kuyisici esiwabelana nalabo abahlala nokuhlaselwa kwesifo senhliziyo.
Phila ku-Namuhla
I-Dementia ibangela ukuthi umuntu agxile kulolu suku. Ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwememori ekudemeni kwengqondo, othandekayo wakho angeke akwazi ukukhumbula amagama amalungu omndeni noma izenzakalo ezithile noma abantu. Zombili izinkumbulo zesikhashana , njengalokho adle ukudla kwasekuseni, nezinkumbulo zesikhathi eside , isibonelo, igama lesikoleni esiphakeme ayeya kulo eminyakeni engama-50 eyedlule, likhubazekile ekudemeni kwengqondo.
Ukubheke phambili esikhathini esizayo nakho kunzima kulabo abaphila nokuphefumula komqondo. Izinto ezingakaze zenzeke okwamanje zingemvelo, ngakho-ke ukugxila okujwayelekile kulapha futhi manje.
Iqiniso liwukuthi sonke singaba ukuhlakanipha ukulandela umuntu ophethe ukugula komqondo ngokusebenzisa isikhathi sethu namandla ethu okwamanje, esikhundleni sokubambelela ekuzisola noma ebuhlungu besidlule noma ukukhathazeka ngalokho okuzokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo .Kusobala ukuthi kunezikhathi lapho kudingeka khona ukucubungula imicimbi noma izinkinga ukuze sikwazi ukuqhubeka phambili ekuphileni ngendlela enempilo, futhi ukuhlela phambili kubalulekile. Kodwa-ke, kufanele siqaphe ukungalahleki isipho sokuvusa namhlanje ekuseni nokuphila namhlanje.
Ukucela Usizo Kuhlakaniphile
Uke wamuzwa othile onomsoco wokumemeza ecela usizo ? Ngezinye izikhathi, kungase kubonakale sengathi umuntu onesifo sofuzo-mqondo unamathele ekubizeni abanye, kodwa kaningi, kungcono kunokubuka labo abadinga usizo futhi baziqhenya kakhulu noma benenkani ukuwucela.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ngenkathi ukuzimela nokuzihlukanisa kubonakala emphakathini wethu, akukhona nje labo abanobunzima bokulahlekelwa inkumbulo abadinga usizo. Sonke sidinga futhi ngezinye izikhathi, kudingeka sifunde ukucela usizo. Umqondo womphakathi kanye nokusebenzisana kubalulekile, futhi ukubeka ukuziqhenya kwethu ngokucela usizo kungabangela ubudlelwane obungapheli obuvelele futhi buqotho.
Kungani Ukucindezeleka Ngezinto Ezincane?
Uma umuntu onesifo sokuwohloka komqondo eba nosuku olunzima futhi ebonisa ezinye izimo eziyinselele , siyazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi udinga isikhathi esithile nendawo, futhi siqala ukuvumela ukuhamba kwethu okulindelwe nesifiso sethu sokulawula izinto ezingenandaba neze . Isibonelo, ingabe lokho kuyinhloko enkulu yebhizinisi ukuthi ufuna ukudla i-dessert kuqala noma egqoke amasokisi angafani? Akusizi lutho, futhi usuku luzohamba ngokushelela kakhulu ngemva kokuba sishintshe umbono wethu.
Iqiniso liwukuthi sivame ukuzithukuthelela kakhulu ngezinto ezingabalulekile ngempela. Ngezinye izikhathi, kulula kakhulu ukulahlekelwa umbono kulokho okubaluleke ngempela. Sonke sizokwenza kahle ukusebenzisa isu elifanayo lokuyeka ukuthi singasebenzisa ekudemeni komqondo ngokuzikhumbuza ukuphefumula, vumela uhambe futhi ubuyekeze izinto ngendlela efanele.
Izingane Ziyimithi Ehle
Uma ngabe uke waya ekhaya lokunakekelwa kwezingane zokunakekela izingane noma indawo yokuhlala yokusiza futhi ubukele okwenzekayo lapho izingane ezincane zingena esikhungweni, uyazi ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso. Usuku lungase luqhubekele phambili futhi umuntu omdala omdala onomqondo ophuthumayo uyadlula esihlalweni sabakhubazekile ngemuva kokudlala umdlalo weBingo. Ngokungazelelwe, uzwa imisindo yezingqimba ezivela emndenini womndeni ovakashelayo futhi wonke umuntu uqala ukuhlala futhi anake. Umuntu olalayo uvuka, futhi ohlala ehlushwa ukucindezeleka uqala ukumomotheka futhi akhulume nomntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala ogijima ekamelweni.
Ukucwaninga ngezinhlelo ezihlukene phakathi kwabantu kubonisa ukuthi kokubili izingane kanye nabantu abadala abadala bangazuza kulokhu kusebenzisana. Ubudlelwane obusakhula kuzo zonke izizukulwane bungakwandisa umsebenzi wokuzizwa nokuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yokuphila kokubili izingane kanye nabantu abadala.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ngezinye izikhathi sinomatasa kakhulu ukuba singanakwa izingane ezizungezile. Ngenkathi othisha nabazali bezocacisa ukuthi konke akuyona ilanga ne-roses lapho izingane zizungezile, zizositshela ukuthi ukuchitha isikhathi nezingane kuthuthukisa izimpilo zabo. Masingalindeli kuze kube yilapho sinomqondo ozwakalayo wokubona ukujabula kwezingane.
Izifo Akuyona Umuntu
Into eyodwa abantu abaphila nokuphefumula komqondo okufuna ukuba sikhumbule ngabo ukuthi isifo sabo akuyona into yabo. Lokhu kudluliselwa ikakhulukazi ngolimi lwethu-ngendlela esikhuluma ngayo nokubhala ngayo. Abagqugquzeli be-Dementia bavame ukusikhumbuza ukuthi esikhundleni sokusebenzisa leli gama, "isiguli esivumelekile," esikhundleni salokho singasebenzisa amagama, "umuntu ohlala nomqondo wokushahlazeka komqondo" ukuze adlulise iqiniso lokuthi umuntu uyinhloko, hhayi ukuxilongwa kwengqondo. Lokhu kunganciphisa ukucwasa okuhambisana nalesi sifo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi kufanele sikwazi futhi sikhumbule ukuthi akekho abantu abangabalulekile, futhi ukuxilongwa, izifo, noma ukukhubazeka akunciphisi inani lomuntu. Masibambe ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho sibheka umuntu ngokuxilongwa kwabo (njengokuthi, "isiguli somdlavuza") futhi sizikhumbuze ukuthi, ngokuyinhloko, yilowo nalowo ofanelekile. Labo abasizungezile "abangaphansi" ngenxa yokuthi bahlukile, bazalwa benokukhubazeka noma sebeye bathola ukuthi banesifo. Eqinisweni, njengomuntu ophila nomqondo wokugula, bangase bakwazi ukusifundisa amaqiniso amaningana azoshintsha umbono wethu futhi ahlakulele izimpilo zethu.
Izwi elivela
Phakathi nezinselele eziningi abaphila nokuphefumula komzimba okubhekene nazo, basinikeza izikhumbuzi ezibuhlungu zamaqiniso thina thina abangenayo i-dementia ngokuvamile sikhohlwe.