Uma uphuma ukuchitha isikhathi esithile nomngane noma ilunga lomndeni ongamazinga aphakathi kwe- Alzheimer noma enye ingqondo yokucabanga, cabanga ngalezi zeluleko eziyishumi njengomqondisi wakho.
Yazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela.
Ukwandisa amathuba okuvakasha okuhle ngokubeka izilingo ezingokoqobo. Izigaba eziphakathi komqondo we-dementia zingaba nzima. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu bahlangabezana nokuziphatha okuyinselele njengokungcola noma ukukhathazeka, noma bakhathazeka kalula.
Kungenzeka bangakwazi ukukubona ngokushesha, noma bafike ngegama lakho. Ukwazi ukuthi lezi zimpawu ziyingxenye yalesi sifo hhayi ukubonakalisa ubuhlobo bomuntu nawe kungakusiza ukuba uphendule kahle kubo futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kuhle.
Zazise.
Mhlawumbe ucabanga ukuthi kufanele kube sobala ukuthi ungumshana wakhe oyintandokazi, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi akakwazi ukukubeka, futhi lokho kungakucindezela kokubili. Msindise umama onjalo noma umzuzu ongathandeki ngokuzethula ngokushesha.
Yiba nenhlonipho.
Nakuba inkumbulo yomthandi wakho akuyona into eyayijwayele ukuyenza, ungamkhulumi noma umphathe njengengane. Ungumuntu omdala onokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okuphila, kanjalo phakathi kokudideka kwakhe, qiniseka ukuthi uhloniphekile uma uhanjiswa.
Nciphise iziphazamiso.
Uma igumbi olivakashelayo lihle kakhulu noma limatasa, cela ukuthi angathanda yini ukuphuma ngaphandle noma phansi kwehholo ukuze uhambe kancane.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ube nengxoxo ecacile naye uma kuneziphazamiso ezimbalwa ezizungezile.
Sebenzisa izitatimende ezicacile futhi ugweme i-slang.
Ukukhulumisana nomuntu othandekayo onesifo sengqondo somqondo ovame ukuphumelela kakhulu uma usebenzisa izitatimende zetheksthi noma imibuzo, kunokuba usebenzise amagama angabonakali.
Isibonelo, kunokuba uthi, "Akusilo ukukhala ukukhala phezu kocansi oluchithekile", uthi, "Kulungile, Sister Sarah. Lokho kwenzeka okwesikhashana edlule futhi kuhle manje. "
Letha izithombe ekuvakasheni kwakho.
Uma unezinye izithombe kusukela eminyakeni edlule, khetha ezimbalwa zazo, noma kangcono okwamanje i-albhamu endala, futhi uyilethe ngokuhambela kwakho. Ukubona izithombe zakudala kungabangela izinkumbulo ezigcinwe ebhange lememori elide . Ngezinye izikhathi, abantu bayakwazi ukukhumbula amagama kanye nemicimbi ethize nje ngokubona isithombe.
Ngisho noma impendulo oyitholayo ibonakala ingaphansi, abantu abaningi baqinisekiswa ngokubona izithombe ezingase zijwayele kubo, futhi ukuguqula nakuba i-albhamu ingahlinzeka ngombhalo wengxoxo yakho.
Faka iqiniso lakhe.
Uma umngane wakho enesiphambano noma amaphutha , ungazami ukumqinisekisa ukuthi lokho akuzwayo noma okukubona akuyona into yangempela. Nikeza okuningi ukuqinisekiswa kanye neziphazamiso esikhundleni.
Hamba.
Awuqinisekile ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze lapho uvakashela ubaba wakho? Cabangela ukucula naye, ikakhulukazi uma ehlala ejabulela umculo. Uma umculo akuyona into yakho, usengakwazi ukuletha izingoma ezithile ezirekhodiwe nawe ukudlala kuye. Umculo unokukwazi ukukhumbuza izinkumbulo nemizwelo, ngezinye izikhathi kubangele umuntu afunde wonke amazwi engoma ngisho nalapho ikhono labo lokuxhumana linciphile.
Ungaphikisani.
Ukuphikisana nomuntu onesifo sengqondo sokungaboni kahle ngokweqile, uma kwenzeka, kunenzuzo. Ngisho noma engalungile ngokuphelele ngento ethile, uzokwenza okuncane kakhulu ngokungavumelani naye.
Lapho othandekayo wakho egcizelela ukuthi kunguLwesibili futhi empeleni ngoMsombuluko, ukubheja kwakho okuhle ukuhamba nokugeleza ngaphandle uma inkinga ingenye ebalulekile. Uma uphikisana naye, cishe uzothuthukisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokukhungatheka kodwa ungakakwazi ukumkholisa.
Khumbula ukuthi imizwa ivame ukuhlala isikhathi eside kunememori.
Ngezinye izikhathi ngizwe abantu bebhalela abathandekayo abathandekayo abane-dementia ngokuthi ngoba ngeke bakhumbule ukuvakashelwa amaminithi ambalwa kusukela manje, akusizi ngalutho ukuvakashela.
Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi akuyona nje imemori ebalulekile lapha; kungumzwelo owenziwe ukuvakashelwa okuhle. Okubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umzwelo omuhle ovela ekuvakasheni okukhuthazayo nokusekela ungahlala isikhathi eside kunememori ethile yokuvakasha.
Kungenzeka ube nomthelela ngosuku lonke lomuntu ngokushintsha imizwa yakhe nokuziphatha kwakhe. Nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi akakwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi umvakashele, imizwa oyidalile kuye ingashintsha indlela asebenzelana ngayo nabanye futhi athuthukise isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Ngokuzayo uma ucabanga ukuthi akunandaba, cabanga futhi. Inzuzo yokuhambela kwakho ingase ihlale isikhathi eside ngemuva kokuthi uhambe.
Imithombo:
I-Alzheimer's Association. Ukuxhumana no-Alzheimer's. Ifinyelele ngo-Juni 20, 2012. http://www.alz.org/care/dementia-communication-tips.asp
I-Fisher Centre ye-Alzheimer's Research Foundation. Ukuxhumana nomuntu one-Alzheimer's. Ifinyelele ngo-Juni 20, 2012. http://www.alzinfo.org/08/treatment-care/communicating-with-omeone-who-has-alzheimers
I-Wisconsin uMnyango WezeMpilo Nemisebenzi Yomndeni, i-Division of Disability and Elder Services, i-Bureau of Aging and Long Term Care Resources. Imihlahlandlela Yokuqalisa Ukuvakashelwa Kwamakhaya Okunenjongo, Nekhwalithi Yabantu Abaphila Nge-Alzheimer's and Dementia Related. Ifinyelele ngo-Juni 21, 2012. http://dhfs.wisconsin.gov/aging/Genage/ALZFCGSP.HTM